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Date: October 12, 2022
Say something along the lines.. “it was very hard to get over you and I don't have strength now to risk it again. If you can't accept this maybe we should not be in contact again..”
I see people don’t like my answer I don’t care lol I’m only sharing a point of view Definitely have this discussion with her, make it clear that this is a boundary that she’s crossed, everyone has different boundaries and if your not aware your boundaries are different from your partners then a mistake can be made, trust might feel a little fragile for a while but if you love her an want to stay with her, ask yourself is she worth all this hassle that’s happening, in my opinion yeh she had a lap dance but she didn’t do anything with the guy sexually, maybe that’s where her boundries start if the guy was to make a move on her she would be like “No I have a bf” it sounds like yous didn’t know each others boundries so I’d talk it out with her, hopefully it’s mistake and a lesson learned. I’d let my guy have a lap dance at a strip club ext but he would be out the door quicker than lightning if he done anything more than that with anyone, my man wouldn’t like it if I had a lap dance from a guy so I wouldn’t do it, our boundaries are different too so this is why I’m saying this… everyone is different but regardless what happens I hope it’s for the best ✌️
No, how someone interacts with her friends has nothing to do with “respect for her partner.” All of this “if it bother you, it bother you” nonsense is how women get coerced into not being allowed to show their hair and never being allowed to talk to anyone to whom they’re not related.She’s a whole person and it’s not up to you or anyone else to tell her how to interact with others. I though you were going to say you were concerned that she was touching people without their consent in a way that made them uncomfortable, but no, of course you didn’t.
This isn’t a big deal at all.
I'd say in private. It will be more meaningful and she will not feel pressured in front of others.
Congratulations! I hope you two spend the rest of your lives together! So happy for you!
I did ask. I assumed he was because he didn’t seem like he wasn’t a virgin. At my age it’s about 50/50
This is silly
Nine-TEEN
Worms are fairly common and a ton of people have them and just don't know it because basic testing sucks and doesn't see all of them in different stages and different kinds. You have to do better testing in most cases. Really not that big of a deal.
Info: Why are you married to this dude? Based off your comments, he’s a shitty spouse and a shitty father
I don't mind having friendly conversations with him that's what I'm saying.
There's nothing you can do or say to make him stop
There is but can't talk about that cause we'll get banned ?
There are other reasons we don't have a ton of sex right now – I have naturally low libido, we have two kids under 3, etc – but it is definitely a factor. I feel like he just doesn't give a shit about his own physical health anymore.
Has he had any incentive beyond obligation to give a shit?
If you have truly moved on then block her on your phone and on social media and actually be done with her. Sever all roads of communication. She only wants you now because you are unavailable. As soon as you leave your fiancé for her, she will dump you and ghost you again until you are dating someone else and then the cycle will repeat.
Your boyfriend is a mean, rude immature AH no matter how he wants to define it. Dump him, if this is how he is at 29 he is not going to change.
First name Izza, last name Amann
He needs that test regardless of whether he wants to be a parent. If he doesn’t he’s financially stuck with that kid for 18 years regardless of whether it’s his.
And it’s not pessimistic to reconsider your options in this scenario. If you don’t want to be with a parent, that’s fully within your rights and in my opinion smart considering you’re 21. At bear minimum you should be taking a step back and reevaluating the situation
She's a screwed up chick.
Do what you are doing and ghost her
Find someone close to home and no stupid ass guy friends
If they have many guy friends, stay away.
Jesus Christ dude you’re 20. You’re not going to die single. Relax.
None of this makes sense. How are 28 together 3.5 years but known each other since your 15 yet you’ve never met his friends or family?
I think I will get punched if I do this
This ^ OPs BF deserves so much better
You're being very abrasive.
I always get really confused at Americans thinking it's the politically correct thing to just lump all non-white ethnic groups together as having a collective experience. Whilst African American communities have historically had a very strained relationship with the police due to years of abuse and oppression, Americans of Indian heritage absolutely have not.
An American girl in my class yesterday was like 'people of colour are more predisposed towards poverty due to violent structures' ….like??? I get that the attempt is to seem super woke, but it does the opposite. It seems like you think that only white people can have any kind of diverse or different experience whereas non-white people just get the 'poor/oppressed/racism' experience. Indian/Chinese/African/African American/Native American/insert any ethnic group will all have very different histories and relationships with law enforcement. The racism they experience won't be the same.
It's views like this that allow certain right wingers to be like 'what excuse do African Americans have for not pulling themselves up by the bootstraps if Chinese Americans are so successful?' It erases any specific history. Don't lump non-white people in together.
He said they started dating when she was 20
He said they started dating when she was 20
Actually some women do use abortion as birth control believe it or not (or they did). Here in the uk, as a student nurse many years ago I had a placement on a gynaecology clinic where abortions were arranged as part of the service. It wasn’t uncommon to see women come in for their 5th, 6th etc abortion. It used to drive our lady doctor consultant nuts. I could never understand why these women put themselves through it.
I think you need to break up for real and stop seeing each other
Don’t.
I don’t think it’s too late to get Covid symptoms…
Congrats on your milestone, btw. It is a big deal, and you deserve to recognize and relish in it as you wish.
I go along to events and grin and bear it to keep everyone happy, and if I'm not up for staying as long as people need me to stay, I say that I'm not feeling well to make it clear it's not a problem with them.
Your in-laws might just think that you dislike them, not the crowd factor.
How often do you invite them out?
Might be worth specifically spelling it out that you get overwhelmed by crowds, but really appreciate that they still invite you, and hope they know that you like and care about them as people.
That’s why I’m scared to bring it up to him bc I know it’s probably just a me thing. ? Thank you though
Have an abortion, tell him you miscarried, go back to work and play nice until you have enough money to leave and then go, disappear, change your number and block him and anytime who knows him on everything. This man is now showing you exactly who he is. Believe him! He is a controlling abuser and he will not stop until he has you completely under his control.
Get away and do it as soon as you can
He is allowed to his feelings. You are allowed to be sad too. Not hurting his feelings is not a good enough reason to choose to have a child. Sit down and have a serious conversation.
Honestly, he sounds mature. He's not trying to change your decision, he's being supportive. Regardless of your choice that's a sign of a good guy.
Also, stop visiting his trust and listening to his sessions.
It was a good year but you're only 18. You will find someone that love you for all of you, and won't ask for permission to cheat
Again my man, I have to point out the obvious. If we are assuming this is correct, that she received it though non-sexual means, she's still working at this volatile working atmosphere.
Meaning, what's next? Herpes is the easiest off the top of my head. No cure for that.
Then you have gonorrhea. HPV (though not too bad for males). Mgen, I can go on. Or oldie but goldie – crabs.
Even under the assumption she's on the strait and narrow, we're also under the assumption her 'co-workers' are not. Nor are the clientele, obviously, as proven already.
It would almost be better to go by the assumption she's 'giving guys at the club more then what they paid for'. Because you can talk and come to an understanding not to do that. If it's just a part of the work week.. well good luck.
Infatuation is temporary, herpes is forever.
I wouldn't buy a 2012 Audi if it was parked next door. Tons of problems await.
Hey, i just talked to him and he said he understands and that I should’ve told him sooner so that he knew my love language, he’s being really sweet now and said that he’ll change Thank you though
100% this. I'm always surprised when men have such strong feelings around this issue but have no concerns with a woman giving up her name.
the thing is im super social to everyone ? i just HATE this woman. i don’t understand why some people like her bc shes just horrible. aaaah screams
I could really use some advice on this topic!
she had filmed some of it so it def happened
Whether or not you tell your ex, doesn't make a difference.
The important thing to her is that you cheated. Are you trying to win points with telling her you were “doing the right thing?” Because you absolutely didn't do the right thing as far as your ex is concerned. You treated her like trash.
She didn't break up with you because you got someone else pregnant. She did it because she can't trust you and you treated her terribly. The fact your affair partner miscarried makes no difference to your ex.
You made your bed. Leave your ex alone. You can't love her that much if you get drunk and cheat on her. And she could never trust you again.