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Nikita & Leon, 24 y.o.
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Date: October 9, 2022
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Give him his divorce like he requested rather than hang on to a cheater and manipulator. Just because you stopped him that one time doesn’t mean you will catch him the other times. He just knows now how to not get caught. He broke his vows so all agreements are broken and his words mean nothing.
Okay. I saw your original reply that you deleted and because of that I feel like I need to elaborate.
This is a thought exercise to help you figure out whether you personally think this relationship is one worth continuing. It's not meant to make you feel like you must make one choice over the other, it's just to get your mind working. Some people who post here are in terrible relationships and can't easily answer that question. A relationship is a two way street, it's not a partnership if one person is getting everything and the other gets nothing.
Personally, I think the best thing for both of you would be for your girlfriend to seek out a professional therapist. It's one thing to be physically incapable of living alone, you can't really change that. But the mental capability for independence is something that can be adjusted, as long as she's willing to work for it. Of course, it also depends on what potential diagnoses she has, if she's been diagnosed with anything at all. Anxiety by itself can be managed with relative ease. Anxiety coupled with one or more other conditions is harder.
But that's something for a therapist to manage, with talk therapy and group therapy and maybe even medication. What you can do best here is simply be there for her and encourage her to go / continue going to therapy, and help her find a local therapist she likes before you leave. Being dependent on others is not healthy, and it's not a fun way to live.
Also true. I really care about her and want to forgive her, but it’s funny that she says it was a “mistake” while I’m intentionally hurting her.
I get a mistake being a one time thing in a moment of weakness, like some gorgeous guy walked up to her and asked for her number, but she intentionally got on two dating sights, sexted multiple people, and then gaslighted me into thinking I was paranoid and insecure because I caught on to the sketchy behavior.
So that’s honestly why I’m upset and made those type of comments. It’s like yes I want to forgive her, but SHOW me that you’re actually sorry, you know?
like l for example I made a comment about her working out and said she should continue to look even better for the nudes she’s sending out.
Is that petty? Absolutely. But it’s like just say that you’re sorry and never going to do that again. Make me feel a little better.
This sounds like she is in bad mental health.
Push her to get into therapy. Do something more than what you're doing.
If you're not willing to put your all into helping her though this and given up on your end, then check out of the relationship.