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In my opinion this has more to do with how you were raised. Different people have different beliefs regarding modesty. You are not wrong to feel the way you do there are many women who will have similar feelings to what you are expressing but your current girlfriend obviously does not. The difference in option will cause friction. You can try to change how you feel or find someone more compatible but you won’t be able to change her.
The fact that OP admits his gf might be culturally ignorant, and that he, as a white man, is not the best person to gauge this situation and then he just comes to Reddit, a famously majority white, male and racist place, for advice? Yea, ok
Final say: nope, no flirting, no talking. It’ll probably hurt, but you’re better off walking away instead of wasting time on someone not into you. Even if you somehow remain friends, don’t let her be the end all be all. If anything, she’ll probably give you more attention when she sees someone else interested in you (if this somehow happens and she starts giving attention out of nowhere…RUN). Find someone else. You’re both young and got plenty of other opportunities out there. Best of luck ??
You have a good heart, a curious mind, and a spirit that requires frequent soul food in order to feel alive.
Whatever subculture you like – if they don't like you, their loss.
Life doesn't revolve around men btw. But it does revolve around connections, stories, and achievements. For women, it's often a man that's a common link in those 3 goals.
For men, romance is often a separate compartment, which by separation from other aspirations, is viewed as an independent and not-mandatory thread.
Thank you so much for saying this and not being judgmental, I truly appreciate it.
Someone else actually asked me about ADHD via private message. I looked into it because I didn’t know too much about it and it’s an interesting thought I will discuss with my therapist. I don’t think I have most signs of ADHD, maybe only a couple.
I don’t think anything happened that reminded me of a stressful time in my teen years. I do remember feeling obsessed when I was a teenager although probably not as much and there was no consequences or marriage on the line at the time.
Your suggestions are very good and I will definitely try them. Thank you so much ??
In my opinion this has more to do with how you were raised. Different people have different beliefs regarding modesty. You are not wrong to feel the way you do there are many women who will have similar feelings to what you are expressing but your current girlfriend obviously does not. The difference in option will cause friction. You can try to change how you feel or find someone more compatible but you won’t be able to change her.
The fact that OP admits his gf might be culturally ignorant, and that he, as a white man, is not the best person to gauge this situation and then he just comes to Reddit, a famously majority white, male and racist place, for advice? Yea, ok
Final say: nope, no flirting, no talking. It’ll probably hurt, but you’re better off walking away instead of wasting time on someone not into you. Even if you somehow remain friends, don’t let her be the end all be all. If anything, she’ll probably give you more attention when she sees someone else interested in you (if this somehow happens and she starts giving attention out of nowhere…RUN). Find someone else. You’re both young and got plenty of other opportunities out there. Best of luck ??
Nice? It's over. If you really want to be done then do what you need to.
OP….. 50k dollars ain't shit.
Tell his wife you have proof of infidelity and you will help her divorce if she promises to give you a cut.
That way you don't lower yourself and still be a good guy just looking for a reward.
Your GF allowed a man to use her for what? Money? She was stressed?
Was she attracted to him? Isn't that worse? That she can do that for years with someone she isn't even attracted to?
Ask for a guy's day out. Seems simple.
Don't worry about it.
You have a good heart, a curious mind, and a spirit that requires frequent soul food in order to feel alive.
Whatever subculture you like – if they don't like you, their loss.
Life doesn't revolve around men btw. But it does revolve around connections, stories, and achievements. For women, it's often a man that's a common link in those 3 goals.
For men, romance is often a separate compartment, which by separation from other aspirations, is viewed as an independent and not-mandatory thread.
Thank you so much for saying this and not being judgmental, I truly appreciate it.
Someone else actually asked me about ADHD via private message. I looked into it because I didn’t know too much about it and it’s an interesting thought I will discuss with my therapist. I don’t think I have most signs of ADHD, maybe only a couple.
I don’t think anything happened that reminded me of a stressful time in my teen years. I do remember feeling obsessed when I was a teenager although probably not as much and there was no consequences or marriage on the line at the time.
Your suggestions are very good and I will definitely try them. Thank you so much ??
You guys are 27. Are you from a country or culture were premarital sex is heavily frowned upon?