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Room for on-line sex video chat Niiaraah
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Date: October 7, 2022
He keeps quitting jobs, he can't afford to have a working car, and he's mooching off his family.
Sure, maybe he will try to get his life back on track, but OP does not have to waste the next several years of her life with this dude waiting to see if it's going to happen or not.
Agree partially, but disagree for two reasons.
First, you talk about sex as if it’s trivial, he just “wants to get laid a couple of times a week.” If you think sex is just getting laid then maybe you aren’t the best judge.
Second, you are treating the woman poorly, as if she had no agency. You are telling him to break up with her, and saying she should have no say in it. If she says she wants to try this, how can you really know she’s wrong? How do you know she’d prefer to be single?
He is being incredibly controlling. This is not how someone acts when they respect you as a capable independent adult with your own life. This is not how someone acts when they believe that what you want and need and feel, is as important as what they want and need and feel.
You know that this isn't okay. You've called him out on treating you like his ex. And yet you're still with him, you're still accepting it, you're still going along with stuff you know makes you feel upset and uncomfortable.
When you reel off those “great” things he does, you're not proving that he's a great person: you're listing what he does to buy your cooperation with all the shitty parts.
(As a note: It's not unusual, with guys who claim they've been cheated on in the past and that's why they need to control their current partners, for the truth to be more like, “My ex didn't accept my control, and it must have been because she was a cheater because otherwise she would have been fine with meeting all my demands.” I don't know if that's the case here, for all I know his ex slept with every dude on the Eastern seaboard, but it's worth considering even though it doesn't justify him treating you badly either way.)
Yes, of course by definition it's a sexual act but I think what he's getting at is, if you would give him a shoulder massage if he asked & you didn't feel like it, you could also give him a hand job even if you weren't up for PIV. People have different feelings about this sort of thing, and if it's not something you want to provide as a service to him (I am OK with this dynamic in my own relationship), you're way OK to refuse.