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OCEAN SQUIRT [655 tokens remaining]
Date: October 25, 2022
AmateurPub
AmateurPub
OCEAN SQUIRT [655 tokens remaining]
All the things- There is no “good” way to “love bomb” someone (because it's always a sign of a lack of confidence, as in the ability to defend you to his family). He's not going to stand up for you, he's already told you that. What you can do now is complain to whatever social media platforms they're using to see if you can get their posts removed, and cut off all means of communications with this ex. Expecting him to protect your honor is a waste of time.
Personally if you are really hurting, distraught and distressed about breaking up with your partner, that you didn’t really want to break up with them etc etc like he said to you immediately after breaking up with you (or anyone else in this situation for that matter) then the first thing that happens is you are in a an immediate sense of emotional turmoil, you head is absolutely ruined and you can’t even think straight the next thing you are absolutely going to do is figure out a plan to get your partner back wondering what you are going to do, what you are going to say and how you are going to say it and you think about all of the things that your partner might say to you in return and you figure out your answers to what they might say, then you spend hours and hours maybe days and days going through everything over and over again fine tuning what you want to say to try and win them back WHAT you don’t ever do is jump on the most well known, most popular casual hookup app within an hour or two of breaking up with your partner, so quickly that the windows have not even stopped rattling from when you left the house slamming the front door.
Sorry but everything that you have written in your post detailing everything that he has said to you since you began speaking again is absolute nonsense, like i said if he was genuinely feeling like he said then you wouldn’t have even had a thought about downloading and getting on Tinder, also if he was being genuine with you then he would have been transparent and honest with you and he would have said that he downloaded tinder and was back on it in record time of you leaving the house BUT he didn’t did he? You only knew about him doing it because your friend saw his profile back active on there, so he had to own up to it otherwise you can bet your life that he never would have mentioned it to you. Think again those are not the actions of someone who wants their partner back and to try and make things up with their partner and repair the relationship and give it another go, and the fact that you said you were done with him and the relationship permanently changes nothing because although you may have said that to him it wouldn’t stop him from trying to change your mind if he was that genuine about getting back together again with you.
I also just wanted to say as well that him doing that so quickly makes me think that certainly isn’t the first time that he has been on tinder or other similar apps or websites because that’s the actions and reactions of someone who is doing it regularly due to how quickly he went straight to that. Then add into the mix how throughout your whole post OP where you continually say how he is amazing, he literally does everything, does everything for you, he looks after you so well, whatever you need you don’t even have to ask him to do it because he is already doing it before you’ve asked him to. A proper perfect partner who has made you so happy and secure in the relationship that you didn’t even think that there was anything wrong——That’s the exact type of environment a partner will create, making you think that there are no problems or issues because then you will subconsciously never even consider that they might be cheating on you because everything is perfect. It’s the ideal cover whereas if a partner in a relationship thinks that there are some problems and issues in their relationship and their partner is not happy then they are more than likely going to think that they might be cheating. That’s just my personal opinion but regardless of that just on the downloading and active tinder profile within a matter of an hour or two then that’s me done and out of there, doing that speaks volumes about how much he values you and your relationship.
I am not sure if you can do this in the Tinder app or whether it actually shows this type of information but as much as that would be game over for me for good I would suggest you ask to look at his Tinder account and see if there are any recent messages and if it shows you, his recent login information showing the dates and times of him logging into his Tinder account, the last login should be back a year or so when you both got together as an exclusive couple, hopefully another user can confirm if you can see your previous login information within the app but if it doesn’t show you that, ask him to show you his emails for the email account he used to register and sign up with to Tinder looking back over the last year of his emails to see what Tinder email notifications they he has received.
I am not a fan personally of doing that kind of thing but it smacks to me that he has been doing this for quite some time now