So, let me know when you're ready to say “Yes, I'm sure it was very hot for her to go from being a normal 20 year old to being a full time caretaker” without any passive aggressive insults.
If he doesn't want a relationship with you than stop responding. Give yourself time to heal and move on from him. It'll hurt for sure but so is does staying in contact with someone who doesn't want the same.
Your anger is valid, your mom shouldn't be making you feel bad that she feels bad that she's the reason for your therapy. That's counterproductive. Also, she doesn't get to boss you around anymore, you're an adult, and should have been allowed to make your own choice. Her knowledge of how your anxiety is going has no bearing on whether or not she should have tried to force you to do something you didn't want to do. The answer should have been no either way. In fact, that she knows you have social anxiety but doesn't know how therapy has been going for you means that she should have erred on the side of caution and not assumed that you were completely cured anyway. This is on her.
Why did he go for it? Did he explain?
Wow, what a superiority complex.
So, let me know when you're ready to say “Yes, I'm sure it was very hot for her to go from being a normal 20 year old to being a full time caretaker” without any passive aggressive insults.
If he doesn't want a relationship with you than stop responding. Give yourself time to heal and move on from him. It'll hurt for sure but so is does staying in contact with someone who doesn't want the same.
You are the AH. You're drooling over another girl on multiple platforms and think GF should just be fine with it?
Do better. Your GF certainly can.
Your anger is valid, your mom shouldn't be making you feel bad that she feels bad that she's the reason for your therapy. That's counterproductive. Also, she doesn't get to boss you around anymore, you're an adult, and should have been allowed to make your own choice. Her knowledge of how your anxiety is going has no bearing on whether or not she should have tried to force you to do something you didn't want to do. The answer should have been no either way. In fact, that she knows you have social anxiety but doesn't know how therapy has been going for you means that she should have erred on the side of caution and not assumed that you were completely cured anyway. This is on her.
Wait, so I’m on my 8th punch, you’re saying it’s not real? Oh wait, that’s for Auntie Anne’s Pretzels. My abortion card only has 6.
Not just “offer”, insist you get a paternity test.
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