I don’t understand your hesitation. File for divorce. Get away from him. Close the credit cards he has. You know you’re being used, and you seem not to mind enough to put a stop to it. Leave.
19 is very young. A 30 year old shouldn't be finding entertainment in the company of a 19 year old, unless he's just being polite as part of his job (which he very well could be doing and you're misreading cues). But if he is flirting, then he is a tool. Nothing wrong with an age gap if its legal, but there is a moral issue with this one for sure. You just became an adult and he's been one for ages. You're infatuated with him. Don't go back to the bar, that'll put a stop to this.
How would a female partner be beneficial to both of you if he doesn’t have sex with her, as he is saying? His argument doesn’t hold water and he’s just trying to make you feel bad. What a jeek
The week that he was about to propose, I found texts of him flirting with some girl. We fought and asked him if he had slept with anyone, he said he didn't and eventually I forgave him and gave him the benefit of the doubt. Found out he was gonna propose to me midst argument because he wanted to prove that he really loves me and so I said yes a few days later.
I've told him before that cheating was a deal breaker
Apparently it isn't a dealbreaker tho is it? Otherwise you would have walked away when you found those text messages. Instead, you wanted to get married so you went ahead and got married.
well you have thought it out and have good arguments. Ask him and see what he says is believable then tell him what you just wrote here.
I don’t understand your hesitation. File for divorce. Get away from him. Close the credit cards he has. You know you’re being used, and you seem not to mind enough to put a stop to it. Leave.
Honey, I’m so sorry you’re going through this. If you need to talk, I’m here.
19 is very young. A 30 year old shouldn't be finding entertainment in the company of a 19 year old, unless he's just being polite as part of his job (which he very well could be doing and you're misreading cues). But if he is flirting, then he is a tool. Nothing wrong with an age gap if its legal, but there is a moral issue with this one for sure. You just became an adult and he's been one for ages. You're infatuated with him. Don't go back to the bar, that'll put a stop to this.
How would a female partner be beneficial to both of you if he doesn’t have sex with her, as he is saying? His argument doesn’t hold water and he’s just trying to make you feel bad. What a jeek
The week that he was about to propose, I found texts of him flirting with some girl. We fought and asked him if he had slept with anyone, he said he didn't and eventually I forgave him and gave him the benefit of the doubt. Found out he was gonna propose to me midst argument because he wanted to prove that he really loves me and so I said yes a few days later.
I've told him before that cheating was a deal breaker
Apparently it isn't a dealbreaker tho is it? Otherwise you would have walked away when you found those text messages. Instead, you wanted to get married so you went ahead and got married.