Well can you give an example of what you might say? In my experience most peole fuck them up and turn them into an attack. They say shit like “I feel that you don't care ….” or “I feel hurt when you ….”
Yes there is nothing wrong with him texting tomother people more than me. But since this meeting I have now trust issues and I am thinking he’s cheating on snap with me. If he never behaved like this I would never think so. And ending things with him is no option for me because I’m already too attached to him. I guess I really have To talk about it with him. Thank your for ur help and time.
What in the Handmaid’s Tale is this? Are you just a walking womb to this man (and I use the term ‘man’ loosely here)? It certainly sounds that way.
He doesn’t love you OP. No one who did would say these things to you or continue to pressure you to have a child you’re not ready for.
Please consider what your future looks like both with and without this cretin. I guarantee it will look better without him. Find someone who values you as you should be valued. I wish you well.
body odor involves bath/shower as well as what she eats. Usually fruits and berries as well as lemon or lime water is a wonderful addition to routine. Sometimes lacknof water or certain vitamins also make people reek. So like I said try adding fruits, vegetables and water in her diet.
bathing/showering once a day is the norm even if you don't go outside. I think. If she smells down there, she may need to groom more or groom properly. And clean that area well.
One week for hair is not enough or common. I wash my hair three times a week and know of girls who do it everyday. Otherwise people who wash it twice a week use dry shampoo to as not have bad smelling hair. Also it's possible that she mayhave a condition that makes her hair smell bad which means she needs to use the right shampoo as well.
It's a difficult conversation but it's something that she should know specially if she's unaware of it. Try to be kind and not make a huge deal when you speak to her about it. Be reassuring that you really like her but are worried if everything was ok with her. Be sensitive.
That part had me dying laughing. Oh now you want to step up?! And the wife is supposed to do that, welcome you back with open arms and say “ohhhh honey, it’s going to be okay!”
Get the fuck outta here with that bullshit lol. He’s lucky his wife didn’t have his shit on the lawn waiting for him when he arrived.
Everyone at that club has seen breasts before, OP. Who cares. You're the prize here, O.P. Not your girlfriend. Remember that. She's not the prize.
She doesn't dress like that around you because you're obsessed with mate-guarding and being the fashion police. Because you think you're not the prize.
You'd slowly lose your mind with insecurity if she did. You'd be wringing your hands and grinding your teeth and making snippy comments all evening, worried about losing the prize. Worried about all those supposedly better men than you stealing your poor fragile defenseless little flower forever.
Clearly, if she goes out clubbing alone like a single person and dresses in an extremely thirsty manner,…..she's not the least worried that you'll dump her and pursue other women. You know, women who actually want to win the prize.
Note that if you had other, better options than her, then you wouldn't care about mate-guarding. You'd tell her, if you really want to online the glizy single life this weekend, why didn't you say so? Bye.
Put her on the back burner and pursue other women. She doesn't like you that much anymore.
But what if he isn’t though I would need solid proof before feeling safe to go through with that how would I even find any his family don’t even know where he lives supposedly
I mean this with all the love in my heart: you're not “mature for your age.” That is a common manipulation tactic and I'm sure you're a great person, but this will not end well for you.
First of all, you cannot control what your vulva/labia look like. It is not an indication of your worth, your history, any of it. It's literally how you were born and developed. All genitals look weird, so he has fat load of room to talk. That's not something you say to a partner unless you're both REAL secure and okay with that kind of humor with one another.
It absolutely makes sense why you're upset. That's completely valid.
how is it that they are no longer friends
Yes he is. Idk how well he understands it but i don’t like to use it as an excuse I knew better but i panicked and couldnt take it back.
Well can you give an example of what you might say? In my experience most peole fuck them up and turn them into an attack. They say shit like “I feel that you don't care ….” or “I feel hurt when you ….”
It was a fleshlight wasnt it…
Why would she go so hard on blaming you if she knew it came from her?
Projection
Wouldn’t it have been easier to hide it from you and get rid of it secretly?
Projection and guilt
You can get STI’s from toilet seats.
Do you understand how much has to go right for this to happen? She didn’t get it from a toilet seat.
I don’t know how common it is but something here feels weird to me tbh.
Yeah she cheated and tried to guilt OP into thinking it was his fault. It’s what cheaters do.
Yes there is nothing wrong with him texting tomother people more than me. But since this meeting I have now trust issues and I am thinking he’s cheating on snap with me. If he never behaved like this I would never think so. And ending things with him is no option for me because I’m already too attached to him. I guess I really have To talk about it with him. Thank your for ur help and time.
The truth hurts. This is real that makes you the lowest of the low. You are truly a pos
What in the Handmaid’s Tale is this? Are you just a walking womb to this man (and I use the term ‘man’ loosely here)? It certainly sounds that way.
He doesn’t love you OP. No one who did would say these things to you or continue to pressure you to have a child you’re not ready for.
Please consider what your future looks like both with and without this cretin. I guarantee it will look better without him. Find someone who values you as you should be valued. I wish you well.
Trolleg haha
If your GF slept with some dude who wanted OF content, is that cheating?
You gen z’s are dumb as shit, sorry but what the fuck
There are tons of college students who still manage to pay their own rent ..
body odor involves bath/shower as well as what she eats. Usually fruits and berries as well as lemon or lime water is a wonderful addition to routine. Sometimes lacknof water or certain vitamins also make people reek. So like I said try adding fruits, vegetables and water in her diet.
bathing/showering once a day is the norm even if you don't go outside. I think. If she smells down there, she may need to groom more or groom properly. And clean that area well.
One week for hair is not enough or common. I wash my hair three times a week and know of girls who do it everyday. Otherwise people who wash it twice a week use dry shampoo to as not have bad smelling hair. Also it's possible that she mayhave a condition that makes her hair smell bad which means she needs to use the right shampoo as well.
It's a difficult conversation but it's something that she should know specially if she's unaware of it. Try to be kind and not make a huge deal when you speak to her about it. Be reassuring that you really like her but are worried if everything was ok with her. Be sensitive.
That part had me dying laughing. Oh now you want to step up?! And the wife is supposed to do that, welcome you back with open arms and say “ohhhh honey, it’s going to be okay!”
Get the fuck outta here with that bullshit lol. He’s lucky his wife didn’t have his shit on the lawn waiting for him when he arrived.
Trolls gonna troll
this sums it up perfectly
Stop arguing with him. He makes a comment like that say nothing. Just let it hang. If you object it gives him something he can fight with you.
So what, are you the cleavage police, now?
Everyone at that club has seen breasts before, OP. Who cares. You're the prize here, O.P. Not your girlfriend. Remember that. She's not the prize.
She doesn't dress like that around you because you're obsessed with mate-guarding and being the fashion police. Because you think you're not the prize.
You'd slowly lose your mind with insecurity if she did. You'd be wringing your hands and grinding your teeth and making snippy comments all evening, worried about losing the prize. Worried about all those supposedly better men than you stealing your poor fragile defenseless little flower forever.
Clearly, if she goes out clubbing alone like a single person and dresses in an extremely thirsty manner,…..she's not the least worried that you'll dump her and pursue other women. You know, women who actually want to win the prize.
Note that if you had other, better options than her, then you wouldn't care about mate-guarding. You'd tell her, if you really want to online the glizy single life this weekend, why didn't you say so? Bye.
Put her on the back burner and pursue other women. She doesn't like you that much anymore.
But what if he isn’t though I would need solid proof before feeling safe to go through with that how would I even find any his family don’t even know where he lives supposedly
No. Stop. Don't.
I mean this with all the love in my heart: you're not “mature for your age.” That is a common manipulation tactic and I'm sure you're a great person, but this will not end well for you.
This fucking makes my blood boil.
First of all, you cannot control what your vulva/labia look like. It is not an indication of your worth, your history, any of it. It's literally how you were born and developed. All genitals look weird, so he has fat load of room to talk. That's not something you say to a partner unless you're both REAL secure and okay with that kind of humor with one another.
It absolutely makes sense why you're upset. That's completely valid.