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Date: October 30, 2022
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While the other dude was in OPs GF’s guts.
No offense but how can we not judge you. He gave you a std, he cheated, and even knowing he’ll blame you for it, you still don’t want to break up with him?!
Advice is to go to a therapist immediately, and hopefully get yourself some self worth.
1. Here 2 reasons I can think of for leaving him. He’s a liar and a cheater. (Emotional and/or physical) it’s still cheating. 2. If you’re in an open relationship, the failure rate is around 92%. So you may as well get out now. The relationship will be not survive. Best wishes.
As the daughter who has no contact with her father, if she wanted you to be in her life she would have made the effort but she clearly doesn't want to. Your other son is right and she doesn't have to talk to you if she doesn't want to. She's clearly thriving without you.
Do her a favour and leave her be. Let her on-line her life. If she wants to talk to you, she will. But from the sounds of it, she's quite happy not to.
Family isn't an obligation.
Also, if she's willing to go no contact and go through with it, you most definitely have done something wrong. It isn't a whimsical decision that you make.
“Whoops, this one might make me accidentally examine my behavior. I'd better avoid reading it.”
thanks man that makes a lot sense, do you think i should just call her right away or try to meet her in person and talk it out and wait like half a week?
thanks for the advice
Thank you, I'll tell him about this once he's back home!
Naked to hear, but hear it well. Cut it off, you'll be miserable more often than not.
Don’t you think it’s inappropriate for him to be alone with her though? He could keep the door open just in case, like that is so much of me to ask.
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Send him back to his mommy
Yes you should so your wife has a reason to divorce you because you sound like a shit husband
I had no reason to suggest he takes a test. If someone tells me they were out late drinking and as a result are feeling tired and not their best, my first thought would not be that they have a disease, but that they are hungover, which is what he told me. No information I had prior to seeing him would have suggested to me that he had COVID because he didn’t say anything about feeling sickly or symptomatic in any other way than being tired and run down due to being out late, which made sense to me.
But I guess if everytime someone in your life feels tired or rundown for any reason you isolate yourself and insist they take a test then you’re right and I’m wrong ?
She said her mom is skittish because of the gap. Has she even met him? We don’t know.
Ive been asking for a lock since i was 13, parents refuse. And bringing it up at the dinner table would be to difficult to me. I only told my mom because i trusted her but she wont trust me.
Just break up with him. You clearly have trauma you can't discuss with him and that's not healthy.
Hahaha it’s okay I actually got a great laugh tbh you’re good ?
To be honest, I'd walk away regardless of the rabbit hole she went down; that she fell in at all is bad enough.
I want to get out from this situation
Therapy and time
This relationship is too toxic, and in addition to that you don't really seem invested and haven't from the beginning.
I'd cut him dry and find someone more compatible. Your relationships shouldn't be this difficult, and you should not choose someone out of obligation.
Think carefully before you jump in with the next one 🙂
She really presented herself as someone elSe when we met
My advice is to take a step back and attempt to calm yourself down, I guess
House elf
Your ex-boyfriend knew he was wrong when he stepped on the plane he knew there was no trip he knew he should not have gone on that trip and he went anyway it's time for you to put his ass on the curb with the rest of his s*** and move on with your life he's cheating on you
I mean, you can do what you want, and you aren't required to disclose any of your sexual history / details of your sexual history provided you aren't putting your partner's health at risk.
In south America we call it “the one d1ck rule*” XD that's what he was initially aiming to force you into and it bit him in the ass. So now you should give him the same options he gave you!
*When a man wants to be with multiple women but also wants his official woman to only sleep with him
Dude! You watch way too much porn.
No. There is NOTHING common about the stunt you pulled. It is incredibly creepy and I do not know a single other female that would find it even remotely appropriate, funny, attractive or anything other than EXTREMELY uncomfortable. Particularly since she still has to still look at you. She is SO embarassed right now.
She is a person with feelings. You reduced her to a sex object. You literally have no relationship with her other than friendly banter and study groups? That is not even really a friendship. Do you guys hang out? Do you do things together? Eat meals together? I mean, to jump straight from “we're studying and there is fun banter” to “lets get it on” is a massive stretch and truly told her that you see her of so little value that you couldn't even ask her on a date. You demeaned her.
You got me good! You seem very scholarly in addition to being warm and rational. No doubt you're in a fulfilling relationship and have had many varied and deep life experiences. You are the perfect person to be the arbiter of reddtiors life choices!
I mean, would you date a guy who said “oh so I divorced my wife because she got sick”? Saying she’s just an ex gf means less likely to look for any evidence the relationship is over. As I’ve had friends dating someone with red flags, told them to look up divorce proceedings and surprise they were lying about being divorced!
If he's intelligent then this is definitely done on purpose to damage your self esteem. It's a manipulative strategy.
We also on-line together.
One thing for you to know her body count another thing for everyone else to know. Some stuff is for private if serious about the relationship depends on your comfort level I guess she may need more healing counseling. I met A women that hid it and was engaged to the Iady a habitual cheater come to find out she hated that I rtold people she cheated after six half years together go figure why do it if you don't want the repercussion account ability isn't you issue here. But it definitely probably why she saying go fight. My ex whenshe was bored and didn't get all Finacial needs perfectly met she was literally lining up the next man while still in same home with me which is exactly how she did the last two bf before me.I recommend in your situation you should at least be glad she was honest about body count.But the scrapping is a no go. Even if pissed I been there been threatened also that the other person had weapons and was larger male than me funny part he was was only three inches taller but I met this other person also in my past. Which she found out I knew that later also someone from her past. I would just talk to her explain your side not worth getting beat up or losing ya life it does happen over people popping off to much in bar and club situations any time there alcohol.You did the right thing by keeping cool head. And this day and age its very sketch out there in the wild. Definitely explain you understand why but you cant go fighting every joker she spills her body detail cause she expects understanding. Not everyone understands and agrees even if she different no then back then. Lot a pole change some do not. As my father said everyone capable but did you or didn't you. We have to live with choice and if it takes more counseling or chat and comforting so be it . It's to be expected to hear people in a situation like that say the things you heard don't mean its not rude but it's not far fetched from there point of view. ? But if you love her I'm sure y'all can talk like mature adult . If she different she different now and learned. Some never do at all And don't value there relationships or how it hurt and affects. This is just as much a issue for you since she thinks ya should have fought for her honer but there is a level of to old to be in street creating beefs.