I can’t unread what I just read. I’m going to call BS on it though because if you’re seeing this and you online with this guy for SIX YEARs??? You are NOT okay. Imagine how his breath must smell , his body. You’re sleeping in the same bed, having sex with this guy? No, absolutely not.??
Why are you even with someone who doesn't respect you enough to think you deserve a say in what goes in your vagina? If he genuinely refuses to have sex with a condom if you're on the pill, guess he doesn't get sex. Honestly, this would be divorce worthy for me.
You don’t want to be the guy who sticks up for his family? You’d rather be the pushover whose wife replaces the father figure in your child’s life with her “friend” while you work all the time providing a life for her?
Come on, time to take control of the situation you’re in.
I've probably made it sound a lot worse than it is. Most of the decisions she made that I followed along with I wasn't really forced into by her. She always wants to compromise and often said if I wasn't happy with a decision we would work around it. I agreed to a lot of these decisions in the early days because I wanted her to be happy. In the later days, it was due to her family making the demands on me and basically guilting me into it. I don't think she knew the level of her families involvement as I never really went too much into it. I do think if I stayed where I am now she would stay with me. I just don't think she should have to.
Omg I’m the opposite. I would NEVER date a man who demanded my child not live in MY own home because he doesn’t want to live! with children who aren’t his . My daughter and I are package deal.
You are so very welcome! I mean every word. ?
Sending positive vibes your way. I promise that everything will be okay, and I wish you the best. You will overcome this, I also can promise this.
I can’t unread what I just read. I’m going to call BS on it though because if you’re seeing this and you online with this guy for SIX YEARs??? You are NOT okay. Imagine how his breath must smell , his body. You’re sleeping in the same bed, having sex with this guy? No, absolutely not.??
Why did he choose someone so insignificant over me though? When I was his partner for 4 years… I was hoping he'd want to be better for me.
Why are you even with someone who doesn't respect you enough to think you deserve a say in what goes in your vagina? If he genuinely refuses to have sex with a condom if you're on the pill, guess he doesn't get sex. Honestly, this would be divorce worthy for me.
You don’t want to be the guy who sticks up for his family? You’d rather be the pushover whose wife replaces the father figure in your child’s life with her “friend” while you work all the time providing a life for her?
Come on, time to take control of the situation you’re in.
And definitely get a dna test
I've probably made it sound a lot worse than it is. Most of the decisions she made that I followed along with I wasn't really forced into by her. She always wants to compromise and often said if I wasn't happy with a decision we would work around it. I agreed to a lot of these decisions in the early days because I wanted her to be happy. In the later days, it was due to her family making the demands on me and basically guilting me into it. I don't think she knew the level of her families involvement as I never really went too much into it. I do think if I stayed where I am now she would stay with me. I just don't think she should have to.
Omg I’m the opposite. I would NEVER date a man who demanded my child not live in MY own home because he doesn’t want to live! with children who aren’t his . My daughter and I are package deal.
I would absolutely LOVE to go to therapy but sadly it’s not doable for me financially. Appreciate your reply. ❤️