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Date: December 20, 2022
This is it. OP, this is a major wake-up call. You say you usually drink more; you need to drink way, way less. Please cut down, and work with a therapist. You now have a history of becoming violent to your partner when drunk. What you must do to prevent it happening again is you must not get drunk. It’s that simple. Maybe you had a bad night, maybe you are just getting older, but you now know there is a switch in your physiology that alcohol can flip and open up part of you that can hit your partner. If you really mean that you never want it to happen again, then you have to not drink enough to make it a risk.
I broke up with my fiancé after Christmas and he held it over my head because he spend “so much money on me” and trying to make me this awful person when he was the one actively having a heroin addiction our entire relationship and a month before Christmas went to another state to cheat on me (while also cheating on me the entire time as well)
I didn’t feel bad but I could see how shitty timing was and at the same time my life was in danger because he was physically abusive so much so I had a restraining order after the breakup since he was trying to “find me”.
Long story short is there is never a good time because they will say you broke up with me 5 days before Christmas or you broke up with me 5 days after Christmas lol
Give yourself more time to get over her. Even if you get back together now nothing will be better.
The whole problem is that she ignores me when I say that I don't want to go and acts as if she knows better. My friends do wish me to get better, and they don't badger me with request to go out with them in the same breath when I tell them I can't. If you think this is “sort of petty and small mother child issue” you are welcome not to waste time on this post. I am trying to repair my relationship with my mother as I am starting to see it going down the drain because I feel like she's not considering my feelings for a lot of things, and this is just one situation among many. I want advice on how to try to communicate better with her and thought strangers could bring a new perspective. I don't really count someone telling me that my problems are irrelevant as constructive advice.
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Comments aren't helping much but sounds like undiagnosed ADHD or ASD. You can't do anything unfortunately, it's on him, you can be supportive and encouraging, prompt him regularly, but that's not your responsibility unless you're in it for the long haul and without his consent he's going to start resenting you for making him feel inferior or a failure.
Communicate. Tell him your feelings, ask if he'd like help, if he says no, byebye baby, if he says yes, be willing to help him. If you're not willing then the relationship is over.
he told me he is too busy to have a stable relationship now, and he wants to focus on his career
He's not interested in a relationship, I dont think he has enough feelings for you to brush you off like that. When people are interested the put in the effort, they make the time. sorry but I dont think it's gonna work out.
Since you have feelings though, it also does not make sense to remain FWB, i mean how will feel when he meets someone else he is interested in.
I think you might as well make your move. It either ends or gets interesting. don't stay as is though.
So.. what relationship are you asking advice about? Or are you just venting about hating celebrities?
You know Jordan Peele's directorial debut? Get out! Find yourself someone that actually loves you before you can't get out.
It’s a chance you get every year?
You sound like the kind of guy that doesn’t know what a real friendship looks like. Also, one that doesn’t know how to take no as an answer.
He’s broken up and left before and always came back like five minutes later. I asked him to be calm and say it, that way I know it’s over for sure. I really love him and don’t want to lose him, but I can’t make someone stay with me & love me. I always ask him later if he actually wants to be with me & he always says he loves me & sees a future with me
I started to think about what if we had children—I wouldn’t want them around him when he’s angry. His rages last a few hours usually. Sometimes less than half an hour.
When he flipped out on me, he gave me all of these reasons why I’m not good enough & why his family would never accept me.
Wow, everything about this is ridiculous.
You are “profiting” off him catfishing men since he takes you out and buys you things. If you don't feel like you're “earning enough” from this arrangement, stop giving him your very hot pictures and you can sell your own hard photos to guys on the internet for money.
Catfishing dudes online is not actually a job and he should probably consider some kind of actual career. And if you don't like who he is and you are only with him because he's now a successful catfisher and buys you things, that makes it sound like you're just gold-digging.
You probably both just deserve each other.
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I wish it was as simple as a sugar daddy situation!
Tbh, I would've lost my sh**. My mother pushes but not that much but when she's on a limited basis. She gets 1 message every 2-3 days, anything else is a bonus , not expectation.
If the family seems fine with her getting drunk around them at 19, there are other problems.
Take this to your grave.
Learn from it, but take it to the grave. No harm was done.
Oh man is your bf lucky
Ah, I see why it would be off the table. Sorry for suggesting then.
I’d imagine guys were less shameless back then, but now days that really is a reality.
Additionally, most of these guys won’t ask you out instantly, because they’re kind of snakes in the first place, so they lack the balls to make a bold move. Instead they’ll slowly try to work up to a relationship.
Show him why we do not use lotion
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Apart from the ceo point everything you said is assuming op is from America.
There ARE some influencers hosting trips for their audience. I know of a YouTuber who went on trips to Korea, Japan and Taiwan and invited her viewers to come along. You ofc had to pay for it. The girl was handling everything with hotels and paperwork for the viewers. From what i saw of it it seemed to have been legit and a good experience for the people involved. I would however always be worried about such things and i would never be comfortable with my girlfriend going on the sort of trip your wife is considering
Man… her answers are so vague … wtf is “oh oh okay!” Here and again I never said I need reciprocation of my feelings.. I mentioned that as info …
This one hits almost every single one of this subs favourite creative writing beats
Agreed. Plan B messes with woman’s hormones like crazy. I can’t imagine what multiple doses would do.
He doesn’t care about you or the consequences of his actions. Completely unacceptable.
That’s not boyfriend shit.
I don’t understand why he went from reading my messages to all of a sudden not.. is he losing interest?
That's called grooming, hon. If controlling assholes were controlling assholes right from the start, they wouldn't be able to suck anyone into staying with them long enough to be useful to them.
I mean, I get why she wants to talk to him in person. What I do not understand is why she is not okay with me being present for said conversation.
What’s fun about it?
That's your made up definition.
Yeah, that’s one way to look at it. I would’ve appreciated her honesty as to where she works. Thanks for the comment.
“Oh no! You're 31 year old bf has exes, how scandalous” – no one ever
There’s a lot going on here. Yes, she could’ve asked you to work out with her, but it’s not her responsibility to monitor your weight.
Yes, she could’ve refused to communicate with you when you wanted more details after she said that she felt “disconnected.” She wasn’t wrong for telling the truth when you asked about what she was feeling. Would you rather have her lie?
She was wrong for gaslighting you after the fact. She can’t pretend that she didn’t say it. Her wanting to move on may be due to how much it hurt her to tell you, but she can’t discount your feelings about what she said.
If you can, find a good mental health professional to help you figure out why you’ve gone into such negative thoughts. It sounds like this is all in your head now; your mentioning that she hasn’t “done enough to make up for it,” and you questioning whether she cares at all, is worrying for your relationship. The lowering of your self confidence is another thing that can be helped with a good therapist, too. (Is it possible that you secretly resent her for telling the truth about your weight that you were trying to ignore about yourself?)
After your own therapy, consider finding a couples therapist to then help you communicate how much this affected you. It sounds like you have a relationship worth saving. I wish y’all well.
Yeah, not agreeing with the boyfriends response at all, but I also have several pictures with exes on facebook and instagram and the girl I've been dating for about 5 months now doesn't care. Some go back to prom 15 years ago. I think you hit an age where you just don't care anymore. Everyone's got a past
Thanks for sharing! This sounds like me and my bf, but I am the higher libido partner, and we're still in our first year together. It's nice to hear that others have a similar dynamic to ours, and that it can work long term.
I think you've given OP a great window into a possible iteration of her current relationship – I hope she and her partner can work things out!
Also, congrats on the soon-to-be-first-born!
So he betrayed your trust and put this story in a written email that could lose you your job to chase some clout with his co workers. You are not a priority, nor are you safe with him.
I think you could ask your stepfather what he thinks. He may easily understand the problem and not be upset. Your mother should not be making trouble on his behalf.
Because you have two different fathers of different types, you might find a creative way to dance with each of them.
You break up. Look, you're too young to be living in this kind of drama when a relationship should be your escape of the drama in your life, not the source of it.
You still have a lot to know, he can't be the center of your world, you should be the center of your world.
Picture a life together with someone who you can't trust anymore. This is not the way to online your 20's. So love yourself here, and break up with the guy.
But they never made an offer. It would only be in written form for a company of any size.
She couldn't have been easier if she's willing to do that to her sister.