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Date: November 14, 2022
No, I'm his best friend, he has said it. He told other friend that I'm still his best friend, that was in August.
You have to have a come to Jesus moment about what you did wrong. You have to own your mistake(s). You have to come to the table in a spirit of contrition and personal growth. If you are unable to hear what you did wrong ( her reason doesn't make sense? Then tell us what it is and we can help you examine it) you will not be able to have your daughter in your life. Maybe you were hateful towards queer folks and your youngest was queer and the resulting trauma of being raised by someone who hates the kind of person he was did him in. Maybe you were judgy and nothing they did was never enough. Idk. You do. Your children have told you. Now it's your job to understand why that behaviour would be a problem. It's called empathy. Now if examining the wounds is causing you overwhelming shame and you deny and defend and play victim yourself and refuse to just be accountable you will never heal the rift.
That’s a tough one. Best case scenario, it’s over. Sorry, I don’t have any experience with this working out to a healthy relationship. He will, and should, always resent, doubt, and question you. Trying to claim this was somehow good for your relationship is really manipulative. If you really love this man, let him go. Likely he will be tormented by feelings of insecurity and inadequacy for years. He may try to get past them, but it will hurt. A lot. At least for him.
I wish you the best of luck. This is a growth opportunity that you should take with you to future relationships.
And mad that she didn’t run away from him in public or stare at him and his date, Christ on a bike
that was actually incredibly forward of you, and he's likely uncomfortable and avoiding you.
You know thats a good point of view I hadn’t thought of. I feel like she’s expecting us to get married within the next few years which really is what gives me cold feet about breaking up
It's an invitation via digital calendar, often used to schedule meetings in the workplace
As shitty and awful as it was i did end up getting the best in life. I am happily married and my husband loves me to bits and would do anything for me and I For him. I have an adorable two year old daughter and a baby on the way. These types of posts really resonate with me. I lived it and it is such a dark point in my life but I want OP to know It’s possible to recover from this.
? His msg was crystal clear
I personally would feel very uncomfortable with this. But some families are more open to nudity. Your wife should have mentioned it
Yea, if you keep the baby you will be a single mom. The pretty words he is saying doesn’t override the fact he doesn’t want a kid. You will be a single mother. So you have to figure out if you can raise a baby on your own.
I hope you two work it out ?
Where are you? Where I on-line it is an offence for a registered child sex offender to have any contact with children. Do the registration authorities know about this?
If he wants to see his grandchild he needs to fix his relationship with his child. And that means he needs to take responsibility for his actions. He had no right to dictate her career, her relationships, where she lives, none of it. Until he can recognise that, own up it and apologise for it, why would she come back from NC.
How does he feel about it all now they’re having a child? Does it feel like he can do all that? If so maybe he can write a letter (can you vet the letter first as well? Make sure it’s not too much of I’m sorry but, or I’m sorry I made you). But if he’s not there, then pressuring your sister to come back to him feeling the same as he did before will only lead to a more firmly entrenched NC.
Well put. Perhaps OP could explain exactly what it is that the GF did wrong since it requires his forgiveness, and what he needs reassuring about.
Use this as your wake up call.
Good.
If your wife is so dumb that she doesn’t realize the implications of this, then she deserves the divorce she’s going to get.
If my wife cheated, we would be done. If by some miracle we reconciled, then she tried to go on a cruise with her AP, we would be 100% done.
Ask to see his monthly budget to see how he is spending his money. Tell him you can no longer afford to support him with money to the detriment of your children ($8000 could be in an educational account). Offer to pay for him to take a course on money management , Dave Ramsey has a few out there that are not expensive.
Impulsive sounds very accurate here.
Do you happen to know anything about this dude? Like if he actually works with or owns a travel agency or not? If you're unsure, then I would do some digging on him and his background. See what he's all about.
I would also ask her about more details. So far it seems like a vague situation, and as someone who was formerly impulsive as hell, yeah, the lack of forethought and planning sounds pretty accurate to that. The thing is, no matter how much she wants to go, and even if you're 100% on board, there are things that she absolutely needs to plan out and budget for. Traveling ain't cheap. Especially depending on what exactly you plan on doing.
Also, if this level of impulsively is common, I would honestly suggest therapy. I know you can't make her go, but maybe you can frame it in a way where you want to work together to come to a better understanding here. That way the therapist gets both sides, and hopefully, your wife can come to understand how being impulsive like that can absolutely backfire in the most terrifying ways. She doesn't KNOW this man. And unless he is working with a company that is going to be up his ass keeping him in line, then she cannot reasonably assume that he doesn't have negative intentions. And, tbh, this is something I used to do a lot. It wasn't that I wanted to do anything nefarious, but I was way too trusting of people when I was propositions with something exciting, and it concerns me about your wife, because I did wind up in some really shit situations because of my unwillingness to accept that if something sounds to good to be true, it probably is.
Now, again, a lot of this might be quashed once she realizes that she doesn't actually understand how much goes into planning something like this. But I still think therapy is best for the long run, because this type of stuff is just not safe for her to be doing. No matter how excited she is in the moment for something, she still needs to be able to consider rational thought and logic here. She is putting her safety at risk for no other reason than just not wanting to wait. That's not okay. You've got time here thankfully. So try to ease into this situation, and start by asking her to lay out her plans for you so that you can have a better understanding of what is going on. From there you'll probably be able to figure out a lot more about the other dude and his intentions as well. (And do some snooping on his instagram!)
Dude, she is a total nutcase and you are better off without her. Stay broken up and avoid your uncle and that chick for good.
Also, this kind of dynamic is worth a trauma. Maybe go and talk to a professional. Also the way you excuse yourself into thinking this is “okay” is a big issue.
Walk away from that situation and remember it as the most fucked up thing you have witnessed and will witness for a loooooong time.
Your wife is 20 , not a far stretch to imagine some guy trying to make her regret the life she is living , put you down and have this way with her
Keep a close on this , if it hasn't yet it could go sideways fast.
Because you should be able to consent to sex, and if you don’t fully understand who you’re having sex with then you’ve been deceived. People are killed for being trans, we all know that. But if you’re trusting someone enough to have sex then you should trust them enough to tell them first. It’s dishonest otherwise.
Obviously Family is not everything her BF case for example, nor everyone had a perfect suburb family life and he shouldn't be made to do something he isn't comfortable with but he did it for her and nows she's got her answer
What is even the point of your comment, if you agree that it's probably over and are saying so on Reddit? You enjoy being edgy or did you just want to jump on the bandwagon?
No way I'm sharing a bed with my sister.
Yeah it’s a lot better than the US over all, in terms of independence/take home/fee structure. Most girls don’t believe it, but if you call around clubs in Ontario that’s how it is. Danced for 8 years, never paid a club more than $40 to work and almost always showed up unannounced.
I started dancing because I would wake up and could hardly leave my bed most days due to physical/mental issues, which made traditional work naked. I refused to do disability or unemployment. Dancing was a way I could work here and there when I felt well enough, and make more in 2 days than I would have in 10 days at the jobs I kept losing 🙁
Work full time from home in finance now and have for quite a while, but still occasionally work a day here and there on special events or holiday weekends that are usually always busy 🙂
But then BOTH of them will have to split the cost of caregiving, doesn’t sound like the most economical solution does it?
Run, don’t walk.
I think I'm on denial en old like to think she won't do that
It's likely she has some trauma in her past she doesn't want to share with you yet. It's best to respect that and not press about it. It doesn't mean she trusts you less or loves you less, it just means she doesn't want to relive that right now, and she shouldn't have to if she isn't ready for it.
Continue to enjoy your relationship with her, deepen your connection, and she might inform you eventually. Her past is not important right now.
Send out an announcement to everyone in your family who’s invited to the event and warn them that if they bring your mother they will be asked to leave immediately.
How can I get thru to him about these double standards? Why can’t he ever admit that he did something he wouldn’t want me doing? Why can’t he see it himself when I point it out and it’s obvious.
You can't get through to him because he can't take accountability, and it is obvious why someone would be upset about a double standard…
He definitely playing dumb about it. Double standard is a common term, not that naked of a concept for an adult. Saying, “you'd break up with me if I went to hooters with a friend, yet you are telling me it's 100% okay that you went with a friend. That is called a double standard and regardless if you see that or not, I am not okay with you not following the same rules you have for me. It is not okay that you went to hooters with me for that reason.”
Is super crystal clear…. Like he's playing dumb & you can say whatever you want to that to no avail. He doesn't want the accountability. He doesn't want to be held to his own standard.
Just because he has similar issues that you've worked through, does not make him you. He doesn't think like you do. He isn't going to change the same way you did…. So honestly if your waiting for that…. I really don't think this is the best situation to tie yourself too.
I’m sorry, but I’m literally laughing at all of your comments. You just wanna stay totally clueless and not listen to a word people are saying. You’re in for a world of hurt with this guy!
I hate to break it to you, but realistically 13 is not that bad for 24 years old, and its pretty unrealistic to think you'll find a virgin at your age… I'm not saying they don't exist, but odds are not in your favor.
I think its extremely unfair to break up with someone because they slept with people in their past… Shes got experience, let her help catch you up on some things that you might have missed out on. Think of the glass half full instead.