I think the real issue here is your anxiety. It makes sense to him that birth control is enough. So therefore he wouldn’t feel the need to wear a condom. However, it makes sense to you to double up. He might not understand that as it is based on anxiety more than medical research. Regardless, he still should be understanding and accept that’s where you’re at. This needs to be communicated together. Don’t try to convince him it makes sense. Simple tell him you understand it might seem overly cautious to him but it’s the only way your comfortable. He can deal with that. He can try to reason with you but anxiety is rarely reasonable. Just explain to him yeah it seems unreasonable to him but that’s the way it is for now.
Waking you up at 3am? Smoking? Yeah red flags, but you wanted to break up with him anyway. So it would be better for both of you guys to part.
I think the real issue here is your anxiety. It makes sense to him that birth control is enough. So therefore he wouldn’t feel the need to wear a condom. However, it makes sense to you to double up. He might not understand that as it is based on anxiety more than medical research. Regardless, he still should be understanding and accept that’s where you’re at. This needs to be communicated together. Don’t try to convince him it makes sense. Simple tell him you understand it might seem overly cautious to him but it’s the only way your comfortable. He can deal with that. He can try to reason with you but anxiety is rarely reasonable. Just explain to him yeah it seems unreasonable to him but that’s the way it is for now.
Lol this is a good case where reddits overreaction of telling you to dump your partner is justified. Move on
Idk where to even begin with this. It has NOTHING to do with you
“Very little relation’ it sounds like it might be someone in your Dad’s family.