I recently commented on a posting where the guy's gf of 5 years broke up with him because he gave a lift home to a female friend whom he has not seen in 2 years. Thru the gf's past insecurities, she is convinced her bf hooked up with the friend without any proof other than that they were in the car together as he sent her home.
Don't waste your time as there is no winning in this relationship. You will spend most of your efforts holding what little relationship together instead of building a solid one where you can build a future together on.
I’m not sure if it was just a location specific thing, but the provider recommended I start with a non stimulant since the stimulants are so easily addictive 🙂
I would not take this personal as this is not a you thing.
I am a parent to a transgender child, who lives in a rural, farm town. Where we live, this is the sort of news that has a big impact when put out in the open. Because My child has experienced some prejudice at school and in other places around town, in general, we are discreet.
This is a protection thing for my child's well being. A part from that, our friends and family know about it (even in our own family, there are now immediate family members that we no longer engage with because there were detrimentally hurtful exchanges on the topic), I am a happy and loving parent who celebrates and loves my child. In our home, our safe space, we have all the conversations from good to very hot ones, there are pride, transgender and other flags flying in my child's room.
We know it is unhealthy and not possible to try and protect them from others. However, we do have a choice of what paths to walk down in life, what battles to fight, and understanding that sometimes conversations come down to timing.
In a different part of the country, perhaps we could live! more openly.
I would encourage you to have patience with her as this could be a tricky topic for her family in ways she may not have communicated (keep in mind she has known them all of her life, she knows their rhythms and all) and perhaps she is saving a safe space for the both of you to get to know each other and truly form a deeper connection and also for her family to become comfortable with you so that when the time is right, she will know she has a solid foundation and teammate to lean on and her family may be more open to accepting you as transgender because they had time enough to form bonds with you prior to knowing that aspect of your life.
I wish for you both strength, courage, patience and hopefully a long and loving relationship filled with growth. Cheers!
Bully her back is the worst advise you can give to a person who clearly isn't a bully. Don't try to become a dick for other people's sake @OP!
Going NC or LC with your family if they don't take you seriously when you talk about it, or just really choosing not to be present when she's around is much better for you as a person. If your family chooses her side over yours they are trash and you better just be close with real friends who aren't dicks.
Stop playing games, if you like him then tell him instead of trying to mess with someone because that's just going to make him not like you
I recently commented on a posting where the guy's gf of 5 years broke up with him because he gave a lift home to a female friend whom he has not seen in 2 years. Thru the gf's past insecurities, she is convinced her bf hooked up with the friend without any proof other than that they were in the car together as he sent her home.
Don't waste your time as there is no winning in this relationship. You will spend most of your efforts holding what little relationship together instead of building a solid one where you can build a future together on.
That's not going to happen to OP. No prosecutor will ever bring this before a court, on account of there being absolutly no evidence.
Seen a few stories where the AP and the spouse got together to show the cheater the gig was up.
Easy. You say “How do you want to split this then honey? Do you wan to cover costs of food and travel or shall we just go dutch with everything?”
thank you, I will try my best
Alone, sure.
Paired with “cheating should be illegal and punishable by law”, though, it is.
Especially since OP went and said that, you know, her partner has been cheated on in the past.
I’m not sure if it was just a location specific thing, but the provider recommended I start with a non stimulant since the stimulants are so easily addictive 🙂
I would not take this personal as this is not a you thing.
I am a parent to a transgender child, who lives in a rural, farm town. Where we live, this is the sort of news that has a big impact when put out in the open. Because My child has experienced some prejudice at school and in other places around town, in general, we are discreet.
This is a protection thing for my child's well being. A part from that, our friends and family know about it (even in our own family, there are now immediate family members that we no longer engage with because there were detrimentally hurtful exchanges on the topic), I am a happy and loving parent who celebrates and loves my child. In our home, our safe space, we have all the conversations from good to very hot ones, there are pride, transgender and other flags flying in my child's room.
We know it is unhealthy and not possible to try and protect them from others. However, we do have a choice of what paths to walk down in life, what battles to fight, and understanding that sometimes conversations come down to timing.
In a different part of the country, perhaps we could live! more openly.
I would encourage you to have patience with her as this could be a tricky topic for her family in ways she may not have communicated (keep in mind she has known them all of her life, she knows their rhythms and all) and perhaps she is saving a safe space for the both of you to get to know each other and truly form a deeper connection and also for her family to become comfortable with you so that when the time is right, she will know she has a solid foundation and teammate to lean on and her family may be more open to accepting you as transgender because they had time enough to form bonds with you prior to knowing that aspect of your life.
I wish for you both strength, courage, patience and hopefully a long and loving relationship filled with growth. Cheers!
I would not be happy. Maybe not even be married after that. She’s got no boundaries.
Bully her back is the worst advise you can give to a person who clearly isn't a bully. Don't try to become a dick for other people's sake @OP!
Going NC or LC with your family if they don't take you seriously when you talk about it, or just really choosing not to be present when she's around is much better for you as a person. If your family chooses her side over yours they are trash and you better just be close with real friends who aren't dicks.
Be very careful and do not get her pregnant, unless of course you want that then its all good.