Just make sure they don’t come back for more. Report it. You did the right thing and would’ve have been tough to make that decision in the heat of the moment.
Oh and I even had other random friends of his who harassed me but turned out to be the girl's boyfriend, and my partner knew about that but said he kept it from me because I didn't have to know.
I don’t think you’re going to get much support on this issue here. I’d hop over to r/loveafterporn Your boyfriend definitely fits the profile of addict and it’s affecting your relationship and sex like, it’s not something you’re overreacting about and I, personally, wouldn’t stick around until your self esteem starts to erode.
Don’t make a 2nd mistake by getting married to someone you do not love. That will just compound the stress. Time to grow up and make a plan to co-parent.
you asked her all these questions about her past that has nothing to do with you just to judge her with the information you received…
i hope the next girl bites your shit off
Don't sleep with your landlord.
Just make sure they don’t come back for more. Report it. You did the right thing and would’ve have been tough to make that decision in the heat of the moment.
Congrats on the big kahoonas.
Oh and I even had other random friends of his who harassed me but turned out to be the girl's boyfriend, and my partner knew about that but said he kept it from me because I didn't have to know.
Has she a partner – a supportive one? Has she gone to see a therapist?
I don’t think you’re going to get much support on this issue here. I’d hop over to r/loveafterporn Your boyfriend definitely fits the profile of addict and it’s affecting your relationship and sex like, it’s not something you’re overreacting about and I, personally, wouldn’t stick around until your self esteem starts to erode.
he acknowledged that foreplay is truly supposed to be longer
Okay.. so you and he have made progress.
And his comment: “he would not enter me until I was fully ready because “he knows I take time to get wet and that okay”
That sounds good, too.
What exactly is the problem here? Your own overthinking? No shade there – I've got the same problem, and identifying it when it pops up helps.
Don’t make a 2nd mistake by getting married to someone you do not love. That will just compound the stress. Time to grow up and make a plan to co-parent.
Leave her