So, fun fact. My current boyfriend is the only one who's ever been able to without toys. My ex only could with a toy and no one else has ever been able to.
It's the greatest feeling I've really ever had. I describe it as “a glitter bomb blowing up in my stomach”. You should tell him and explore new things together. Definitely try clit stimulation, it does wonders. This is what my boyfriend and I did
I don't think it's a red flag on your part, lying to your boyfriend about being on birth control pills. I understand communication is important, and key to a relationship. But realistically -there will never be true empathy to the situation. You will never know how good it is to have sex without a condom ,(going by the constant excuse that men have and have said about it). And he will truly never really know or understand the anxieties of becoming pregnant and how it will in irrepitably change your life as a woman. truly never understand or will EVER have to know it.
There is only one reason to download hinge, so why are either of you bothering to pretend you don't know why he did it?
Also, of course he feels guilty— he is guilty. He downloaded an app to shop around for women who might be willing to date him. And regardless of whether he actually intended to hook up with them, or just lead them on and flirt with them to pump up his ego, it's clearly a breach of trust
I'm not gonna tell you you have to break up with him… I can only tell you that if my significant other did this, I would at minimum take a break for a couple weeks to think about whether it's worth giving them the chance to convince me they're worth a second chance.
He makes sure that I don’t get any proof. He makes fake accounts with different numbers or emails and reaches out to me and doesn’t admit that it’s him and deletes all the messages, sits right in front of me and finds an excuse to turn back and stare like he was only looking at the teacher, introducing himself to my dad by following me when I go to meet him (when my dad comes to college) and acting like he was walking me out or something, etc. He does a bunch of things that I can’t say shit about without sounding crazy. I can’t make a scene bc of these things nor take pictures or voice recordings or anything. I wouldn’t be here on Reddit if I had a way out.
Honestly, she sounds so sucky, but she does genuinely sound like she has real mental health problems. She needs to seriously look into getting herself help
No yeah lowk im rereading this post and I sound worried af lmao. I promise I’m not as worried as i sound, just confused, what you you think I should do?
You guys are young, he feels insecure about you, he's making you feel insecure about you and your relationship. This won't last or it will be a long toxic one.
She absolutely does not want what’s best for your kids. I’m a middle aged woman and work with kids and have also been through divorce and shared custody. What she’s doing is wrong for the kids and selfish. Get your own lawyer asap!!!
Sadly, it sounds as though you walked out of one bad relationship and into another. It's easily done, you were vulnerable and he took advantage of that. Get yourself away from him, make sure he has no access to your money and enjoy your writing course. I wish you the best.
He asked me if I wanted to go over or to a restaurant and I said restaurant
So, fun fact. My current boyfriend is the only one who's ever been able to without toys. My ex only could with a toy and no one else has ever been able to.
It's the greatest feeling I've really ever had. I describe it as “a glitter bomb blowing up in my stomach”. You should tell him and explore new things together. Definitely try clit stimulation, it does wonders. This is what my boyfriend and I did
I don't think it's a red flag on your part, lying to your boyfriend about being on birth control pills. I understand communication is important, and key to a relationship. But realistically -there will never be true empathy to the situation. You will never know how good it is to have sex without a condom ,(going by the constant excuse that men have and have said about it). And he will truly never really know or understand the anxieties of becoming pregnant and how it will in irrepitably change your life as a woman. truly never understand or will EVER have to know it.
There is only one reason to download hinge, so why are either of you bothering to pretend you don't know why he did it?
Also, of course he feels guilty— he is guilty. He downloaded an app to shop around for women who might be willing to date him. And regardless of whether he actually intended to hook up with them, or just lead them on and flirt with them to pump up his ego, it's clearly a breach of trust
I'm not gonna tell you you have to break up with him… I can only tell you that if my significant other did this, I would at minimum take a break for a couple weeks to think about whether it's worth giving them the chance to convince me they're worth a second chance.
I just read my husband 21m and that was the end of the post for me
You know you have to love a person, body shapes change through life right? Weights shift, do you expect her to always goto the gym?
Does he give you more attention than he does other people?
He makes sure that I don’t get any proof. He makes fake accounts with different numbers or emails and reaches out to me and doesn’t admit that it’s him and deletes all the messages, sits right in front of me and finds an excuse to turn back and stare like he was only looking at the teacher, introducing himself to my dad by following me when I go to meet him (when my dad comes to college) and acting like he was walking me out or something, etc. He does a bunch of things that I can’t say shit about without sounding crazy. I can’t make a scene bc of these things nor take pictures or voice recordings or anything. I wouldn’t be here on Reddit if I had a way out.
Honestly, she sounds so sucky, but she does genuinely sound like she has real mental health problems. She needs to seriously look into getting herself help
Don’t worry, someday you’ll date a man instead of a boy.
No yeah lowk im rereading this post and I sound worried af lmao. I promise I’m not as worried as i sound, just confused, what you you think I should do?
Then drop him!
You guys are young, he feels insecure about you, he's making you feel insecure about you and your relationship. This won't last or it will be a long toxic one.
How the hell does one even get into such a situation? What are you doing?
Dating is not easy.
For what it's worth I was in my late 20s when I started dating my (now) wife. I got super lucky and I know it.
I wish I could tell early to mid 20s me that the tough times will end up working out for the best.
An observation, you say you can't imagine losing her yet here you are imagining it.
Tell her to go fuck herself. She's a terrible person and not a friend to you at all!
She absolutely does not want what’s best for your kids. I’m a middle aged woman and work with kids and have also been through divorce and shared custody. What she’s doing is wrong for the kids and selfish. Get your own lawyer asap!!!
Sadly, it sounds as though you walked out of one bad relationship and into another. It's easily done, you were vulnerable and he took advantage of that. Get yourself away from him, make sure he has no access to your money and enjoy your writing course. I wish you the best.