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Natasha, 18 y.o.
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Date: November 23, 2022
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I think you should get therapy for yourself. It’s like the oxygen mask thing, you put yours on before helping others, and this is for sure going to take it’s toll on you. Not only will this help you deal and process with the difficulties you are experiencing, it will set a healthy example for him, allow you to set and maintain boundaries and help you navigate this relationship.
You have tried, there’s no question about it, and so it’s time to start looking out for yourself and on turn, you’re going to be helping him by helping yourself.
This is not giving up, this is prioritising what’s possible and helpful in the long run.
I am sorry this must be incredibly difficult and exhausting to navigate, and communication is key in Rhede moments, you are perfectly within your rights to explain to him „I’m not giving up on you but I just don’t have the capacity to help you, I need to prioritise my mental health because I am ready to do this, I will be here for you on this journey when you are ready to do this for yourself, but I can’t support your emotional well-being more than I am able to right now, and I need help with that, so I’m getting therapy.“
Have you been added to the lease/are the owners/rea/strata/whatever is in place where you live aware of your existence? I’d be petty and contact them myself saying “we’ve stupidly misplaced our parking pass, can we have it replaced?”
I've got a curiosity streak.
I know ❤️ thank you
You guys smoke out when you’re together? Have any drinks?
Wanting = wishing
You are trading your 20’s for a wish.
Your time isn’t free but dating and recovery will get harder the longer you keep wishing and waiting. If you divorced now, it would take you to 28.
He won’t change because you want him to. He has too many problems. Even 1 problem fixed wouldn’t change him to be reliable.
What are you wanting from him. Write it down. Then write down what would have to happen to make those things true and then the LOW probability of if happening.
You should probably get therapy. You choose him for all the wrong reasons. You need to understand why, to avoid repeating the cycle.
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Right? If her dad considered whether or not to invite her to an event and the major concern was whether or not she's “nonindigenous” enough for him, she'd be rightly furious. Racism is always racism, op, even against nonindigenous people.
In my head I thought of waiting to tell her in person (we’ve been long distance our whole relationship) at the right time but honestly I don’t know. I wish I had never done any of it but now I have to on-line with the consequences..