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Hey guys let’s play nude, explodes my pussy
Date: October 12, 2022
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Hey guys let’s play nude, explodes my pussy
she wants to feel like the effort is reciprocated… which leads me to think this man is doing very lackluster actions in bed attempting to make her cum. this doesn't sound like a situation where he is putting in effort. there is a difference between skill and effort, when someone applies themselves it's very hot. makes op feel wanted and important in their sex life. one sided sex is dookey. i guess we both dont have enough info, but personally i need effort in order to feel like anything will improve.
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Thanks, I wasn't planning on marriage for a long while. Life works magic, but as for plans, that is mine. Idk I was overthinking it. Really, it's what I always do. I'll figure it out.
He just wants you and his side relationships! Meaning he was planning on maintaining the lifestyle he is living now. Keep getting your stuff together quick and get out asap. Try not to get distracted by a proposal you’d turn down anyways. Just get out before he asks and you have to end the relationship before your escape is ready.
10 bucks say they've been married for 10 years, dating for 12.
You did the right thing. They could have been armed or had really dark intentions. She needs to understand that you could have died and she could have died. You were doing everything you could to protect you both and you are doing it out of fear so you were just reacting to the situation. I think the fear of the moment got lost on her when she let her trauma dissociate herself from the situation. She really needs to get healthier to understand this whole situation all you can do here is kindly suggest that and do what you can to support her. But trauma doesn't always let a person do the most sensible thing so try to stay positive for your own sanity but it may take her quite a while to come around and she may not come around because she has trauma that she needs to deal with in a more healthier manner.
Yeah, working on yourself – with or without therapy – is very hot, very draining work. Most people get a lot worse in therapy before they get better, simply because digging up all the old, hurt feelings and trauma is not a pleasant thing, but it needs to be done to be able to work through it.
It's really positive that you two seem to have a good communication and healthy argument-resolving-skills, though. That definitely helps.
I'm not so sure about the continuous talks about the same issue, though. If you “have” to talk through it again and again, I could imagine that the talks might be going in circles at some point and that might make it worse. It puts the finger in the wound of wanting to resolve the issue (with the skills you two have shown to have), but failing to do so and thus, frustration being added into the whole mix on top of everything else.
I can't tell you if breaking up is the only way forward. It might just be – to stick with my “vase”: Your other fights might have been little cracks, without the vase breaking, but maybe this one now is like a piece actually breaking off and her not having the skill to help you glue it back together or stand the much larger crack.
However, just like there is a special type of art to make broken vases beautiful again (it's called Kintsugi and fills cracks with gold), there might be something that can assist you two as well. Maybe it has to be therapy. Maybe time is enough. But if time is the only option, there needs to be visible progress and not talking the same talk over and over again.
I wish I could at least recommend you some books, but I'm from Germany and have absolutely no clue about English books about rebuilding trust. Really sorry about that – maybe someone else here who is a native speaker has a recommendation for you.
They were ex flings as well. One said they wanted to know who I was. The other he seemed to be playing off that he was single. He says it’s not as bad as cheating. It’s just messaging. But I felt like it’s still awful, as you’re reliving and restoking previous physical and emotional encounters. He said he was doing it out of boredom. He was never going to act on the messages.
You can leave her. Why wait for her to leave you? There's no point. She's not giving you anything to work with. She's not listening to you at all and it's all about her.
Then stick to your guns and mean it. She obviously doesn’t care about it respect you past offering stability.
Bud,…..
Alot of relationships have an end date.
You have met your end date.
Tell her that you have noticed she is no longer having a relationship with you and it's time to end it
You don't like the way she talks to yiu6. Disrespect.
Has no love and attention towards you.
Thrn leave. Then ghost her.
How is this his new secretary's fault. She could be in a whole ass monogamous happy relationship.
How is it her fault ur husband doesn't know how to be faithful.
My best friend is a gorgeous woman. Honestly tall, long hair, eloquent and very smart! She's also a very successful lawyer. She got hired to a firm and put with a partner who's wife kept staring daggers at her and being cold with her and making comments because she was traveling with her husband for cases or spending late nights together for work legit just researching!
And kept making comments about how she was so young and probably slept her way into the firm! Among the other female employees at events or the other wives.
My friend is a whole ass virgin, christian saving herself for marriage.
This woman didn't trust her husband and somehow that became another woman's problem for simply being in his presence.
Sort that shit out with ur husband if u have that much distrust with him. Go to therapy ffs.