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Date: November 1, 2022
Nope, you have every right to be pissed. She’s just upset because you pointed out how much she fucked is.
I didn’t respond like cold and rude like my gf expected me to, but I responded in the best way that I knew how in that moment to honour my current relationship while still maintaining a level of respect for my ex.
And you did exactly that. My point is that your current gf HAS NO RIGHT to force you to react to your ex walking into your workplace in any way, especially a way that could get you fired. Refusing service/kicking someone out ONLY because their an ex could endanger your job…. On top of this, like you clearly see, you fully respected your current gf with how you handled the situation, you even IMMEDIATLY informed your current gf of this situation, and your current gf's reaction is completely uncalled for. Beyond that she constantly brings this up 2 YEARS AFTERWARDS, WHY? Not only does she bring this up and bad mouth you, she bad mouths about her gf too her friends and family… That isn't someone who cares about you, that is someone who will use this past event as a weapon against you to get what she wants (a past event that you honestly handled perfectly and any normal person should've thanked you for handling it in the way that you did)
YOU SHOULDN'T FEEL ASHAMED, YOU DID NOTHING WRONG. You're current partner showed you a MASSIVE RED FLAG from day one and continues to slap you in the face with it constantly for the last 2 years….
And no, I haven’t spoke to any of these friends. I don’t know how to bring it up without starting a war between my gf and I.
Don't bring it up to your gf, speak to “these friends”. Are they “your” friends? If you think they are then speak to them without your current gf, one on one. If they are your friends then it shouldn't be an issue, and you'll quickly learn what's lies and what isn't. If they aren't, then you'll find that out too.
“What? You don’t like the truth that they’re actually starting to see the real you?”
I'm sorry but she isn't your gf. Partners, spouses, gfs, bfs, husbands, wives, are supposed to have your back. Their supposed to stand up for you against those would shame you. If MY friends bad mouthed MY PARTNER, then you better believe I'd be considering dropping that “friend” of mine. I wouldn't be rubbing in my partner's face, “yeah you're a terrible person and my friends are starting to realize that”…. A partner is supposed to raise you up, support you when your down, make you a better person then you already are. Your “gf” is not your partner, she's not even a friend too you…
I was thinking about this… So yeah, the boyfriend breached her trust and privacy by going on OPs phones… there's that.. What about this.. why does OP have/need naked photos of herself on her phone when she's with someone? ??
It’s hot to communicate with someone who holds everything in until he blows up. This is what he did. He never has told me that I’ve hurt him or what I am doing wrong. That is until months down the line and he uses it in an argument. He isn’t repeating himself if he actually hasn’t told me outside of an argument what is actually going on.
There is no advice that can magically make you forgive her or forget it. Tbh this is something you need to think of and decide for yourself but should thank her for telling you. At least she didn't wait until you were married.
The trust of the last 6 years was essentially shattered. You're back to square 1 because the rug was pulled under you. It's okay to feel as if your relationship was based on a lie. Now, as for how to deal. Obviously you should be aware marriage is off the table for the next couple of years (indefinitely) until you're sure.
I strongly recommend you get some space from her. No. I dont mean a break. I mean, ask her for some space while you think if this is something you could or want to get over.
Then going forward you can refocus on building trust back up if needed.
Go to therapy now. Not a last resort. Opening it on his end will result in your heart being crushed. You wouldn't ever be able to trust him then.