Is it legal to transfer money I put in our joint account to mine before divorce? I would like to do that, I also have to pay taxes with him though. I’ll be back in the States mid March, waiting for that to contact a lawyer.
I honestly don't think I'd even want to be around someone who dismissed my feelings so completely, she doesn't even want to discuss your side of things..idk OP, I'd think long and hot about this relationship, doesn't want to communicate and shuts you right down, no bueno.
I explain I’m tired of wondering how he feels about me
Imagine what else you could use that brain power for. Partners like this want you to keep thinking about them rather than something else. It's a way to control you.
Getting angry and treating you like crap over a hair style is meant to make you feel bad on multiple levels and keep you focused on making him happy. Call it for what it is- abusive behavior
Honestly, you should unpack this in therapy. You should also ditch your boyfriend, block him on everything and start moving on. Don’t jump on your friend – take time for yourself for a bit. Work with your therapist on your self esteem and feeling unlovable.
Your boyfriend doesn’t deserve more chances, because he is trying to be better. You don’t owe him a relationship, because he hasn’t cheated again. This is a gift you can give him, but not something he has any right to.
Can it happen again, with someone else? Of course it can. Cheating happens. However, it absolutely doesn’t have to. Also, if it does…the person is clearly not worth it and needs to be ditched – because YOU deserve better.
Is it legal to transfer money I put in our joint account to mine before divorce? I would like to do that, I also have to pay taxes with him though. I’ll be back in the States mid March, waiting for that to contact a lawyer.
Take a lawyer and leave his ass
Bingo
I honestly don't think I'd even want to be around someone who dismissed my feelings so completely, she doesn't even want to discuss your side of things..idk OP, I'd think long and hot about this relationship, doesn't want to communicate and shuts you right down, no bueno.
I explain I’m tired of wondering how he feels about me
Imagine what else you could use that brain power for. Partners like this want you to keep thinking about them rather than something else. It's a way to control you.
Getting angry and treating you like crap over a hair style is meant to make you feel bad on multiple levels and keep you focused on making him happy. Call it for what it is- abusive behavior
If it's a dealbreaker for you, break up and skip the cheating part. The second you really consider cheating, this relationship is over.
Honestly, you should unpack this in therapy. You should also ditch your boyfriend, block him on everything and start moving on. Don’t jump on your friend – take time for yourself for a bit. Work with your therapist on your self esteem and feeling unlovable.
Your boyfriend doesn’t deserve more chances, because he is trying to be better. You don’t owe him a relationship, because he hasn’t cheated again. This is a gift you can give him, but not something he has any right to.
Can it happen again, with someone else? Of course it can. Cheating happens. However, it absolutely doesn’t have to. Also, if it does…the person is clearly not worth it and needs to be ditched – because YOU deserve better.