Motivation to stop? Vet advice? I’m your grandson and I don’t know why you’re choosing to hurt my rabbit, and me?
Make him say out loud that he’s deliberately going against your wishes? Grandpa, why do you think I’m asking this of you? What are you basing your choices on, why do you think it’s okay? Have you ever had rabbits, gpa?
Try getting thin to talk about it with you. People in general respond better to being listened to than to being told.
Old people are funny though, especially old men. If all else fails, you’re going to need a lock, and if you can’t lock the door, change the rabbit cage so you can’t get food inside, and lock the cage.
I’m guessing you have a typical cage with bars. Some zip ties and a few yards of screening will seal that sucker up and he won’t be able to get anything in there.
Grommets, zip ties, and a few small locks, combined with enough yardage to make a cube the size of the cage should cost you much. Bunny will have marginally less light, but until gpa can get the point, it might be worth it.
Just make a big bag or cube that the entire cage can be lowered into, or get wrapped up in. It’ll take less effort to do that a few times a day than it will be to deal with the rest.
Well if you know the answer… I know this is hard and life is tough, but do you want to continue being accused of things you didn't do? What you know is comfortable and easy to find comfort but please move on from this. And don't lie about big things, please. It won't be better if you do. Good luck
This is so disgusting. I could never be with anyone so off-putting and disgusting as him. I hope you find true happiness someday. Virtual hugs and hope everything goes well with the newcomer!
Well a person can only apologize so much. It’s about change. Did you ask her what she will change so that never happens again? It’ll show you better insight on how she feels about the situation. Did she express any regret? Did she look for it? For how long was she feeling that way? (You don’t have to actually answer)
There’s a lot of factors that fall into whether or not that is worth continuing. My partner expressed so much hurt, guilt, regret, and responded in ways that showed me it was worth giving him another chance. Not to mention, when he cheated and we broke up, a little over 24hrs later I slept with someone out of anger, revenge, spite etc. So despite it not being cheating it was so so close it basically felt like it in a way. So he had to also think and choose about whether or not he wanted to stay with me.
i agree. one person is 4 years away from having a fully formed brain, and the other has had a fully formed brain for 2 years. not the greatest foundation for compatibility, that's for sure.
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I don't know, maybe change the sheets more often? And she could shower once or twice during the night? There has to be a middle ground. I'm an anxious person and it's hard to make myself shower, i need to prepare myself mentally every time.
That means you're expecting him to communicate like her. He's supposed to answer a ton of questions to enable her avoidant behavior rather than both of them adjusting to each other.
That's not a line though. You'll make her pay for the next vacation where she's going out to get her sexual needs met? This girl could not give two shits about you and you'll almost certainly end up paying for the vacation anyway when she talks about how hard it is because she can't afford it and she neeeeeeeds you to step up for her. This woman doesn't respect you in the slightest, you're a meal ticket for her while she gets all the time in the world to do whatever or whoever she wants.
Those accusations can literally ruin your life. Not only is she family, she’s disabled and can’t consent. She’s going to get you arrested or shamed for the rest of your life. Touching your sisters genitalia? A fucking freak, she is. Leave her and if she starts posting about you, make sure you have receipts that she’s an insecure weirdo.
So how fast do you want to be single keep going down this road and you will be. Their is no point of bringing something up when y’all were committed to each other officially
I think it would be different if she came to you months ago when she first started developing a crush. But instead she hid it, looked to him for emotional support, and confessed feelings, all without telling you at all. This is an emotional affair and cheating all the same. I’d dip out and find someone who respects you and your relationship.
.. she gets the best of both worlds due to his stupidity.
No, she doesn't get “the best of both worlds” if her husband doesn't agree to it. He had the right to ask for an open marriage, and she had the right to say no. And now he has the right to ask to ask to go back to a monogamous marriage, and she still has the right to say no. But he's not obligated to go along with it if she wants to keep going just because she went along with for his sake before. If this is a dealbreaker for him now, then the best thing for both of them is to amicably divorce and move on with their lives.
Same as he gaslighted the OP he gaslights the wife. So in the end for the wife it will just be OPs fault.
Yet: if he doesn't expect any backdraft anymore, he will.let his guard down and may be caught red handed again.
Also: he might know where she lives.
Making it blow up now may have undesirable effects.
While making it blow up later and anonymously so may make it difficult to trace, whivh side chick has set his hair on fire/ which exact sh… dropped from the fan.
Perhaps you're not ready to date. If I were a guy and you told me you weren't over your ex, deleted then re-downloaded the same app 2 weeks later, already had a date lined up, and tried to get me as a replacement; that's all a little too much, respectfully.
Not to be rude, but given your lack of knowledge on how contraception or plan B works maybe you should not be having sex.
Motivation to stop? Vet advice? I’m your grandson and I don’t know why you’re choosing to hurt my rabbit, and me?
Make him say out loud that he’s deliberately going against your wishes? Grandpa, why do you think I’m asking this of you? What are you basing your choices on, why do you think it’s okay? Have you ever had rabbits, gpa?
Try getting thin to talk about it with you. People in general respond better to being listened to than to being told.
Old people are funny though, especially old men. If all else fails, you’re going to need a lock, and if you can’t lock the door, change the rabbit cage so you can’t get food inside, and lock the cage.
I’m guessing you have a typical cage with bars. Some zip ties and a few yards of screening will seal that sucker up and he won’t be able to get anything in there.
Grommets, zip ties, and a few small locks, combined with enough yardage to make a cube the size of the cage should cost you much. Bunny will have marginally less light, but until gpa can get the point, it might be worth it.
Just make a big bag or cube that the entire cage can be lowered into, or get wrapped up in. It’ll take less effort to do that a few times a day than it will be to deal with the rest.
Well if you know the answer… I know this is hard and life is tough, but do you want to continue being accused of things you didn't do? What you know is comfortable and easy to find comfort but please move on from this. And don't lie about big things, please. It won't be better if you do. Good luck
I think you may just need a mirror here?
Get therapy.
Agreed
This is so disgusting. I could never be with anyone so off-putting and disgusting as him. I hope you find true happiness someday. Virtual hugs and hope everything goes well with the newcomer!
Spending everyday together sounds like prison lol. Maybe you should see a therapist amount this codependency issue you have.
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Well a person can only apologize so much. It’s about change. Did you ask her what she will change so that never happens again? It’ll show you better insight on how she feels about the situation. Did she express any regret? Did she look for it? For how long was she feeling that way? (You don’t have to actually answer)
There’s a lot of factors that fall into whether or not that is worth continuing. My partner expressed so much hurt, guilt, regret, and responded in ways that showed me it was worth giving him another chance. Not to mention, when he cheated and we broke up, a little over 24hrs later I slept with someone out of anger, revenge, spite etc. So despite it not being cheating it was so so close it basically felt like it in a way. So he had to also think and choose about whether or not he wanted to stay with me.
i agree. one person is 4 years away from having a fully formed brain, and the other has had a fully formed brain for 2 years. not the greatest foundation for compatibility, that's for sure.
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I don't know, maybe change the sheets more often? And she could shower once or twice during the night? There has to be a middle ground. I'm an anxious person and it's hard to make myself shower, i need to prepare myself mentally every time.
That means you're expecting him to communicate like her. He's supposed to answer a ton of questions to enable her avoidant behavior rather than both of them adjusting to each other.
I’ve never cheated and once again since you chose to ignore it – married. She wouldn’t have made the post if she 100% agreed with him ??♀️
He is not your responsibility. You are not his mother or his shrink.
That's not a line though. You'll make her pay for the next vacation where she's going out to get her sexual needs met? This girl could not give two shits about you and you'll almost certainly end up paying for the vacation anyway when she talks about how hard it is because she can't afford it and she neeeeeeeds you to step up for her. This woman doesn't respect you in the slightest, you're a meal ticket for her while she gets all the time in the world to do whatever or whoever she wants.
Thank you
I mean just imagine op and the gf going out with her kid. People are going to think that op is her kid, not her partner.
Those accusations can literally ruin your life. Not only is she family, she’s disabled and can’t consent. She’s going to get you arrested or shamed for the rest of your life. Touching your sisters genitalia? A fucking freak, she is. Leave her and if she starts posting about you, make sure you have receipts that she’s an insecure weirdo.
So how fast do you want to be single keep going down this road and you will be. Their is no point of bringing something up when y’all were committed to each other officially
I’m leaving her, I’ve decided it’s best
I think it would be different if she came to you months ago when she first started developing a crush. But instead she hid it, looked to him for emotional support, and confessed feelings, all without telling you at all. This is an emotional affair and cheating all the same. I’d dip out and find someone who respects you and your relationship.
thank you
.. she gets the best of both worlds due to his stupidity.
No, she doesn't get “the best of both worlds” if her husband doesn't agree to it. He had the right to ask for an open marriage, and she had the right to say no. And now he has the right to ask to ask to go back to a monogamous marriage, and she still has the right to say no. But he's not obligated to go along with it if she wants to keep going just because she went along with for his sake before. If this is a dealbreaker for him now, then the best thing for both of them is to amicably divorce and move on with their lives.
Yta. You don't ask her to stop that.
Um… I tell you why I would wait:
Same as he gaslighted the OP he gaslights the wife. So in the end for the wife it will just be OPs fault.
Yet: if he doesn't expect any backdraft anymore, he will.let his guard down and may be caught red handed again.
Also: he might know where she lives.
Making it blow up now may have undesirable effects.
While making it blow up later and anonymously so may make it difficult to trace, whivh side chick has set his hair on fire/ which exact sh… dropped from the fan.
Perhaps you're not ready to date. If I were a guy and you told me you weren't over your ex, deleted then re-downloaded the same app 2 weeks later, already had a date lined up, and tried to get me as a replacement; that's all a little too much, respectfully.
I thought you said you are a virgin?