When someone spends a lot of time to make you feel crazy, I don't think there is anything wrong with touching base with other people to recenter and realize you're sane. She is hurt and confused because someone hurt her and tore her down by yelling at her for 2 hours. He's dedicated time to making her not trust herself, so her not believing in herself is completely understandable.
Do you even love her? Because this is abusive behavior. Gaslighting, making her a hot topic at work, messing with her mental health and I don't what else you haven't mentioned. This is not how you treat someone you say you love. You purposely vent to someone you know will spread it around the office, then gaslight her to the point of messing with her mental health… Leave her alone already
OP is literally asking if he’s thought it thru enough
When someone spends a lot of time to make you feel crazy, I don't think there is anything wrong with touching base with other people to recenter and realize you're sane. She is hurt and confused because someone hurt her and tore her down by yelling at her for 2 hours. He's dedicated time to making her not trust herself, so her not believing in herself is completely understandable.
Do you even love her? Because this is abusive behavior. Gaslighting, making her a hot topic at work, messing with her mental health and I don't what else you haven't mentioned. This is not how you treat someone you say you love. You purposely vent to someone you know will spread it around the office, then gaslight her to the point of messing with her mental health… Leave her alone already