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Nahomy y July, 26 y.o.
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Date: November 20, 2022
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She may not be physically cheating but she definitely got her mind on something
Wrote it on a 34in ultrawide. It wasn't so massive then. But on the mobile app, it definitely is.
I really think he is the same as he doesn’t show interest in other woman outside of our relationship or interest in an open relationship. I just can’t seem to get over the fact he WOULD sleep with someone else if I was there!
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This feels like an odd post to write as I think about all of this so I will try my best to set the scene.
My partner (30m) didn’t really have any real friends before meeting me in university. He was kind of friends with some of the “nerdy kids” in grade school but I guess at one point they all shunned him and no one wanted to be friends with him so he was alone till he moved stayed away for university. As far as I know from his family and cousins he never did anything to deserve the treatment he got. He did really well in school, he was the state triple jump champion, he’s quite attractive, and generally sweet/calm person.
Then he met me and my friends group during university, we are all except for him either gay/lesbians (though I am obviously the one bi girl in the group). He was always a great friend to us, and was basically our “protector” when we went out to straight bars and clubs, he never tried to make a move on any of us and was always a great conversationalist, super smart guy, etc. We all assumed couldn’t believe we were his first real friends. We even set him up with girls, and he had a couple of relationships. Eventually all the partying caught up with him and he figured the drinking/drugs that were common with our friends wasn’t really for him.
Since that came about we started our relationship and it’s hot to imagine why he didn’t have any friends growing up. He’s basically been the perfect partner to me, he’s become quite successful without much effort, he’s a board member of a charity, he’s really active and has a lot of different interests.
But what I’ve noticed is that over and over again he tried to make friends with people he meets through his interests, or through work and he’s either basically shut down right away or over time they have said/done things to him that make him realize that he has yet again been excluded intentionally.
The most recent example was that a group of his coworkers (he does consulting on top of his board position) planned to go to a UFC event in Vegas without saying anything to him, and he is probably the biggest fan of that in his office, we go 2-3 times a year because he gets tickets/backstage because of his board position. Well it was quite a surprise to him to see a bunch of his co-workers who essentially hid from him that they were going. One of them was like “oh we didn’t know you’d be up for a trip like this”. Despite my partner telling them in the past that he’d get them tickets if they wanted to go with him. This is just one example of what I am feeling is a pattern.
I don’t understand what’s going on, but it is starting to make me wonder if there is something about him that I just don’t see, or if he acts differently when he’s not around me. I’ve even started noticing this with my own family. Despite my partner having basically renovated our entire house by himself (with my help as well), and him having a masters in engineering, I see no one in the family ask him for advice/help with any diy projects despite him offering to help multiple times. My brother in law even paid money to a contracting company who massively overcharged him and their engineers made a couple of errors that my partner eventually caught.
I eventually asked my parents if there was anything wrong with him that I don’t see and all they could really say was “oh don’t be silly, he’s fine.” Yet I’ve heard many times my father extoll what a “great guy” my sisters husband is despite him being the stereotype used car salesman.
Really though I feel so lucky to have met this guy, and I can see it hurts him the way people treat him despite what he projects outwardly. I don’t know what to do because the more and more I see this the thought creeps in my mind that something must be wrong for people to act the way they do towards him, and I just can’t wrap my head around what’s going on.
Edit. Thank you for many of the insightful responses, I think this really helps clear up a lot of what I am seeing.
Also why does everyone think we/he is neurodivergent?