I feel we are only hearing this from your point of view. I wonder if she’s one of those women ending up doing the majority of childcare, housework and working a regular job too? That can frustrate anyone and might be why she’s started resenting you. The getting drunk part does seem a bit inconsiderate with a small child without arranging it beforehand, eg would be fair if you both agree that you get one evening free to have some drinks and she in return gets another evening free to do whatever she wants.
Or maybe she is just a horrible person. Hot to know from knowing only one side of the story.
Did your ex break up with you? It could be that he realized his mistake and wants closure.
i broke up with a guy when I was young and stupid. My sister came down to California to live with me for a year and she kept continually critisizing my fiance, insisting that we wouldn't be good together, that he was not as outgoing, blah, blah, blah.
I finally broke up with him like a dummy and he moved back home to another state. I have always regretted doing it. Anyway I called him once in awhile when I was feeling down. After a couple of years he called me to tell me he was getting married. So I asked if he needed a recommendation. I ended up talking to the woman he was going to marry and told her that he had always been good to me and it was all my fault that we broke up. They got married and I guess lived happily ever after.
Whatever the reason he wanted to meet you for is not something good.
Of course you don’t confront her.
You confront him.
If he’s keeping his options open, and he is, you’re not in an exclusive relationship.
I doubt you’ll do the right thing: but it’s basically changing the locks while he’s gone and telling him, “She can have you.”
I feel we are only hearing this from your point of view. I wonder if she’s one of those women ending up doing the majority of childcare, housework and working a regular job too? That can frustrate anyone and might be why she’s started resenting you. The getting drunk part does seem a bit inconsiderate with a small child without arranging it beforehand, eg would be fair if you both agree that you get one evening free to have some drinks and she in return gets another evening free to do whatever she wants.
Or maybe she is just a horrible person. Hot to know from knowing only one side of the story.
Definitely talk it over. But also realize that it’s not guaranteed you will be able to get pregnant again
Did your ex break up with you? It could be that he realized his mistake and wants closure.
i broke up with a guy when I was young and stupid. My sister came down to California to live with me for a year and she kept continually critisizing my fiance, insisting that we wouldn't be good together, that he was not as outgoing, blah, blah, blah.
I finally broke up with him like a dummy and he moved back home to another state. I have always regretted doing it. Anyway I called him once in awhile when I was feeling down. After a couple of years he called me to tell me he was getting married. So I asked if he needed a recommendation. I ended up talking to the woman he was going to marry and told her that he had always been good to me and it was all my fault that we broke up. They got married and I guess lived happily ever after.
Whatever the reason he wanted to meet you for is not something good.