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Date: October 22, 2022
Yes. I like to reflect on my day.
You had 3 kids with him and never noticed? I mean you couldn't tell before? Then he isn't very good at being a narcissist.
LEAVE. If those were “potential deal breakers” then why has he made no attempt to communicate that to you? He will continue to waste your time. You don't have to allow him to do that.
Thank you, I really should. I think I'll bring it up with him next time I see him. I feel like each time I keep thinking that the next time I see him, things will feel or will just be better but every time it's always the same or even worse. I don't feel connected in the same way anymore. But I should tell him that and tell him I want to spend more time with him and such.
Wow, this just kept getting worse and worse. He’s explicitly telling you he doesn’t care about you anymore aside from sex, so there’s your answer. That’s not a marriage, you know that. But the way you talk about yourself is very concerning and I worry he’s been subtlety breaking you down for years. You seem to not trust yourself and rely on his “harsh honesty” and “patience” because you’re too optimistic or scattered due to ADHD. I don’t think you’re being fair to yourself. So much of what you said screams emotional abuse to me.
She cheated on me? So I just have to accept her drinking and going out yeah ?
I sort of never understand the “we go for dinner but I have to pay”. Surely you budget your own money and the. You can say, no I cant take you to dinner as it’s not in this months budget and it’s then up to her to contribute. And she can say whether she has it in her budget and it’s up to you to offer, or you both decide something else like a walk and nice dinner at home.
I think you can also think around having breaks away with some friend perhaps or with your husband so that you have quality time together, away from the responsibilities of all this situation. I think you made a good decision, it doesn’t always end in divorce and bad times do get better. Just live and be happy and see where it takes you.
Ooohhh people do invite others just for presents. Sorry to burs your bubble
Yes, my point exactly.
A man can parent just effectively as a woman.
But babysitting a couple of school nights is not being a parent.
I’m convinced most of the dads in this thread can’t answer the questions I posed.
Go ask your dad if he remembers the name of your high school teacher….
I’m sure some can and do, and to them I give a big thumbs up to being an involved parent.
But I think it’s important to recognize that, usually that is something a separated dad leaves to the mum, and that is part of the care dad pays for.
Pre-cum has a taste dude. You can 100% tell it's there even with saliva involved. I don't mind the flavour but plenty of girls out there don't like it at all
My friends parents couldn't conceive, so they adopted two boys. Then, they got pregnant without trying and had his sister, then him.
My business partner had two sons naturally, then they decided to adopt.
I'm not saying that you're adopted, but you never know.
Idk why youre giving false hope. 50% asian ancestry would likely not be from mongol hordes a thousand years ago
What? I think it’s ok to have a boundary like that, as long as it’s agreed upon by both parties up front.
But this is a massive massive overreaction. It’s so far over the top that I don’t know what to say to you. From going completely overboard to act like a porn star to wanting to go cheat. It’s all so much.
You really really do need therapy. This isn’t a normal reaction at all.
An ethical mental health professional wouldn't be on ~empath~ subreddits, and you'd know the risk of internet bias. You wouldn't be live suggesting that people are narcissists. If you are a mental health professional, which I do not believe you are, you should know that you're presenting this in a biased and manipulative way. A real decent mental health professional would consider the alternate perspective and that you were very rude to your obviously sleep-deprived, overstimulated partner.
No one is saying you don't cook and clean. I said that she was doing something that benefits both of you and you were unappreciative of the effort to balance. She didn't have an attitude about putting on Ms. Rachel, she had an attitude about you being incredibly rude by ignoring that she was speaking to you. Do you often ignore her when she's trying to talk to you?
You're blaming “emotional regression” instead of accepting you were simply being nasty. That's not how you hold yourself accountable. If you don't want to be in this relationship then don't be in it, but you work very hard to be insufferable.
Not relationship related but I recently had a family member acting the same way. She’s constantly been convinced throughout the years that she has one disease or another. She’s a compulsive liar and until about 6 months ago that’s about as bad as it was. But recently she just snapped, starting blaming everybody else for her problems she was causing herself, throwing things at me, hitting me, accusing me of wanting to harm her, etc. I now have very very little contact with her. This sounds like a bipolar or schizophrenic episode. As others have pointed out onset of schizophrenia is common for woman in the age range of late 20’s/early 30’s. If it were just the paranoia and self deprecating comments I’d say stay and see if you can help them get the help they need but since violence has gotten involved I’d say leave, it will only escalate.
He did it because he wanted sex. Im sorry but i dont know what you thought was going to happen. Also he’s French like ?? I cannot think of a French guy that would be in a relationship and wait until marriage to have sex
It will. It has been barely any time at all and you are still in shock and grieving what you thought you had. Be kind to yourself. You are right in the eye of the emotional storm and you have every reason to feel however you are feeling. Everyone does. Right now is just pain and confusion and upheaval, so you feel free to call it all pointless and hopeless and say life will never be good again. But you are probably more resilient than you give yourself credit for. I think for such a betrayal as yours at least 6 months to a year you could still be forgiven for not being over it, but whatever you do, please find the strength to put yourself first and grieve in a healthy way. Take advantage of live resources surrounding mental health information and betrayal. You keep those friends of yours close. Absolute champions they are. Here’s to a year on when you’re finding your footing or hopefully back on your feet.
Gawd, the insecurity in this sub is rampant! The idea that you can reasonably “forbid” someone from doing anything is laughable! People are free to do what they want. Her wanting to maintain conract with anyone is not “disrespectful” but your thinking that you can set a “boundary” that she has to abide by certainly is. You cannot control people! You trust them or you don’t. Trust no one, and you’ll wind up alone. What are you afraid of? That she’ll leave you for the other guy? Nothing you do will prevent that! And “forbidding” contact will only accelerate that outcome. What are you guys going to do, put your women in burkas so no man ever sees her?
Jeez, they should rename this sub r/insecurity_central.
He was 36 and dated a 24 yr old.
Are you surprised that it goes deeper than that?
That they're skinny means nothing. You can be attracted to different kinds of girls. But their age, and considering your own, is a huge red flag.
Date around while you're young and find what you're looking for before you waste your youth with the wrong people.
You're not damaged beyond repair but you need therapy and you gotta stop bringing people into your messy baggage that you don't have figured out.
To specify, your kids are not your baggage – you not knowing what you want or are ready for is the baggage. You told him you loved him and that you were in love with him but said wait – you're actually not ready for something. I've experienced this at least twice and I'm gonna be honest, not only does it suck but it alters your perception of people saying it in the future. You get trust issues that when someone says they love you, they might not really mean it.
You shouldn't have become official after 3 dates. You have two children, you need to slow down and be more considerate of who you are bringing into your life. I would try to get over this man and see a therapist to work on not hurting others because you don't have your shit together. Figure out what you want and prioritize your kids while doing so.
He does acknowledge that he’s clingy and apologizes for it but it always feels like a bit of a “sad boi, I just love you so much” And he’s apologized for not being good at dishes in the apartment now that he lives alone and he says he’s working on it but that’s only one of many little things that annoy me and will be 100x worse at my house
That’s a good idea. It’s kind of hot to think about cuz this is my longest and most serious relationship and so it’s my base knowledge but I’ll try…
You're frustrated during her period, which is… one week, out of the 3 weeks total you've been dating?
There are instances where people's attraction and love for their partner doesn't change after they come out, and instead they reconsider their sexuality or just go with “straight with an exception”. Sexuality can be fluid like that, even if it's not the most likely response. It's easy to understand why someone might hope for an outcome where their relationship won't be affected too much, even if that hope might be a bit naive.
I agree with you though, there's nothing transphobic about breaking up with a trans partner who figured out their identity after the relationship started. If OP isn't attracted to women, it's understandable she wouldn't be okay with dating one.
OP, talk about this with her. Break-ups suck, especially when it's people growing apart through change, but I'm sure she will understand and respect your decision. Be gentle but firm and explain your reasons. Don't make promises about a friendship if you don't think you can emotionally handle keeping your ex in your life.
A clean break is the kindest option for both of you.
She never initiates sex not in the 6 years we have been together I always have to start it.
God damn you’re a horrible person. The fact you’re so quick to admit it is wild to me.
If your husband isn’t comfortable with the situation, why not assert a boundary for the sake of your relationship?