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make me happy (squirt) [547 tokens remaining]
Date: November 11, 2022
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make me happy (squirt) [547 tokens remaining]
It sounds like your heart is in the right place wanting to be there for your child (noticed how not one of your concerns was for yourself but what is best for your child, you really care for him so he will be in a loving home).
Your gf is also a gem for wanting to step up and be involved in taking care of your child with you. (Many people would run, not walk, away from a situation like this) There are going to be a LOT of discussions about responsibilities, priorities, and how you two intend to raise this child coming up. Have them now and have them often.
As for parental advice, best I can offer is always be someone they know they come to. They're gonna mess up, make mistakes, get in trouble, have problems you won't always know the answers to, and so much more. (they might even discover they are trans as they grow older and be a daughter rather than a son) And just like them, YOU'RE going to make mistakes. You'll be unsure how to punish/correct behavior, you're going to react poorly at times, you'll have bad days and they'll pick up on it, and as they grow into their own person you'll find connecting with them gets complicated.
Do your honest best, be there for them, let them feel safe being themselves around you, and when (not if) they mess up remember to take a deep breath and give serious thought to how you address it with them. Beyond that, good luck and have fun. Treat them to family trips, explore interests and events with them, have a family “thing” you do together, ask them what they like and what they're thinking every so often, be excited about what they're excited about and support them all the way with it. And if you get that feeling of “my kid is something incredible” that makes you want to tear up, hold onto that.
You edited it in after I commented…
The fact you'd even IMPLY OP is even a tad bit transphobic is absolutely ridiculous
“I'm a bad person, am I?” and I have to lie in response
If you don't want her in your life what makes you lie? What if you say “you said it not me and by the way the door is over there”?
Damn im so sorry to hear that. That’s honestly one of my biggest fears so I can’t imagine how hot it was. But it was for the best because you deserve better than to be treated that way.
And to be completely honest, my wife is the kind of wife who doesn’t even care for sex. I have to basically beg for it sometimes. So I don’t think that’s what she’s looking for. And I show her so much attention and am always there for her so I don’t think its that either. She genuinely has nothing to look for in another guy but there must be something