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Date: November 11, 2022
We’ve been in a 3 yrs, and we don’t talk anymore since we broke up, as for the orbiting he keeps on viewing my stories and all. He dm-ed me to tell me that it’s better that he’s orbiting me than we talk, he just like it more to watch me doing my own thing. We didn’t end up well and talk to me like nothing happened
Bro GPA don't matter in college. A 4.0 is the same as a 1.0. Just don't stress about your classes and keep this in mind. Nobody gives a shit about your GPA in the workforce so if you start stressing about your grades, don't. You'll be just fine little homie. Keep your head up and keep going. Just a bit of a hiccup is all this is.
You are very much intentionally ignoring the point I actually made and assigning your own experiences and grief to my statements. Relationships are actually very stressful and take up a lot of time and energy, and new relationships are not recommended under any form of recovery. It sounds like this is a fairly new relationship and she is having a very hot time handling stress.
how is this homophobia?
Either this account is a troll to try get negative reactions, or you are absolutely fucking brainless
All throughout your story you have ignored the input of teachers, professionals, and your own child's pleas for help. Even when hundreds of impartial strangers also agree that you treated your kid poorly, you still play dumb.
Keep playing dumb, you fucking plank
What an awful experience, not okay. Seeing your edit, if you don't work it out with him, it sounds like the beginning of a strictly professional relationship. It's very hot but if everyone acts like an adult, just dissolve the romantic relationship. Friend circle awkwardness will go away when they see you both aren't seething about it and moved on. Then yall can jam– or he can fuck off since he's the one who made it an issue. No reason you should get punished with changing your whole life for his behavior.
This post is full of gas lighting.
He has no business being in a relationship until he gets himself together. That's all.
You sound like you still have some intense self hatred going on tbh. Your girlfriend doesn’t deserve your hatred and resentment just because of how she looks or how many partners she’s had before you. You resent her for things she can’t change yet you’ve been traumatised by people doing the same thing to you… do you not see the hypocrisy? She deserves better than someone who is hateful and jealous. And you need therapy and some serious introspection.
Still not a mixed signal. The request for space can be permanent or temporary. It sounds like she meant permanent.
You will not get what you want from her. You need to find a way to move on.
And you based that on an insecurity call from her BF, which clearly has problem communicating with the brother in question.
Yeah, young adult men I know totally give hundreds of dollars gifts to young ladies all the time. Especially to their brother's gfs. Yep. Very normal.
Too many women like the IDEA of their man being emotionally vulnerable, but hate the REALITY of what that means.
It’s a shockingly common problem. I don’t want to say “most” women, but it certainly feels like it.
She 100% won’t notice or care, this issue is entirely in your head. She has a million things going on in her head too and this isn’t one of them
Well, I believe that marriage is worth working out after cheating if both of you are fully invested in the WP is apologetic and tries really hot. Dating is where you try people on and see how they fit. It is not meant to be the final relationship. So people do use it that way now. Only you can determine whether you want to be with him frankly, if he’s cheating when you’re dating, he will cheat when you’re married. Dating is the honeymoon. There’s no children there’s no difficulty or limited difficulty. When you’re married, there’s all kinds of things your face if you cannot stay faithful to you while your date I don’t believe he will stay faithful to you when you’re married.
Massage therapist here.
I would report the establishment and the therapist.
Secondly, if he’s got breathing issues, why hasn’t he addressed this with his doctor or another medical professional?
Thirdly, if you want to continue this marriage, I would strongly urge y’all to seek out a counselor.
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If you have Rick's cellphone number, text him something along the lines of, “You confessing your, “love,” for me on New Year's Eve eas absolutely disgusting, disrespectful to Mia, and absolutely is NOT returned. Who the fuck do you think you are?!” But maybe less angry. I'm just angry FOR your friend. Rick is a douchebag.
I know right? Everyone here thinks i'm a crazy person.
So apparently it's perfectly ok to have a coworker messaging you at those hours.
She sounds exhausting. Probably offended by everything…..
The rule is 1/2 your age plus 7 years. You are fine.
Have you talked to him 1v1? Check her phone and see her messages with him? If it's deleted then you know something's wrong.
I think sometimes that's what happens. He just agrees like, “ofc i want to marry you” etc. I really appreciate this idea. I will definitely talk to him about it.
Yes
Really? I’ve been through all the comments and literally cannot see that? Are you sure? She said he looks after his sick dad but she had never been to the house..?
True. Took me too long to realise this.
Maybe first tell them they need a few meetings with a psychologist to learn something about trauma. If your family is just ignorant of how this all works then of course they could never understand your husband's bizarre reactions to things.
She knows exactly what she’s doing.
My kid had an insane memory from 3ish-6ish. She would go on and on about long past memories. Id trust your kid.
yeah you’re right, thank you for the comment
I do understand the comments that say leave. He is NOT abusive. He was going through his own trauma. I say that cause I still get nightmares 7 years later and I move around or cry a lot. So I get it.
However if OP feels as though this is not something she can handle, then she should leave. This is a big deal and won’t just go away. He needs help and even it takes time. Good luck to you both
Do you have children?
Ok what in the tela novela am I reading?..
Can't help you then, but your priorities are whack.
FYI: If you are writing on your phone, you have to press enter twice to get a line break. That would help reading your wall of text very much.
So if anything this fantasy is more on the “innocent” side of things. He also hadn’t had sex in like 5 years.
Oh darling… that is WILDLY abusive behaviour. That is not normal. Please leave. Please.
This is biphobic
Ugh seeing this spelled out is definitely a wake up call. Appreciate the brutal honesty !
Ok, quick update.
So, I went ahead and talked to her parents without her knowledge. Apparently, she has told them about me to them before so they were quite eager to talk to me.
And the meeting went great, they loved my character and were glad that I understood their daughter very well. They did mention some of their concerns due to religion. But, they had no objections and gave their permission for us to continue dating.
She was thrilled by this, although she was mad at me at the beginning. She claimed that after the meeting she was more comfortable to talk to them about our relationship. We're back together stronger than before.
Was it an irrational move? Yes. Did it work? Absolutely.
What does that even mean? I can't make sense of it…
You should always spend more free time with your partner then with your friends. She does not.
Tell her you want her to spend her Sundays exclusicely with you, as you do not spend any free time together. You should tell her that if time us so limited she should prioritise her relationship over her friends.
Should she refuse leave her as you can't firce her to care about you.
Also would it be possuble for her to work 5 days a week?
So someone hacked into your boyfriends tinder account, used his pics to chat up chicks about fishing…. lol
Honey just leave? hes fucking lying
Can you ask her to go to therapy and do a background check too? I mean it's only fair. She could have abusive behaviors for all you know. What she asked is ridiculous and a breach of trust.
Yes. These people are doing you a kindness OP. Accept the gift.
I'm sorry but I do feel terrible that I did this to her. She is amazing and I screwed it up over nothing. I see that reddit won't believe me but that's ok. I just wanted to make thigs better and be better for her.
He already went there. Make him face the implications of his accusations. Make him realize just how absolutely disgusting and stupid he is. You owe him zero energy in this situation because you did nothing wrong. Don’t you dare sit there and waste your own time making his dumb ass feel better. Make him put in the work to earn back your love and trust after he decided to be so gross. He owes you an apology.
(1) He is lying and is obviously an affair with the boss
(2) If they are using company money, it's fraud. They had no reason to go and yet they used company money? Part of me thinks that they used their own money to go, because getting expensive travel approved is not easy and you have to state the purpose of the trip, and multiple people have to approve it (boss' boss, accounting, etc.)
You need to separate everything; if you online together, talk to your landlord. Report them to their company for fraud!
Thank you. I’m better now, because I’m middle-aged and middle school was over 30 years ago. But, to this day, whenever I hear someone mock or bully a stutterer, it makes me so angry that I want to punch the bully in the face. (Disclaimer: I obviously don’t punch them in the face, because I know better.)
Well, you can't separate her living costs if they live together. And full time daycare would cost more than the extra she's asking for.
sort of just comes of as different cultural expectations.
I don't think she'd do anything, I've always trusted to universe to let me know if something is wrong at the right time. I think she lacks an understanding of your second paragraph. I've been the guy paying for everything in situations similar to this one, so maybe thats why it's easy for me to identify. It's hot for me to be with someone who is okay with being a party favor – even harder for me to go back and look at these lads in the eye knowing they think of me as booboo the fool. (these are her friends so id have to hangout with them at some point)
We started dating when she was 18 I turned 22 two days after she turned 18 she turns 23 and I turn 27 this month
Agreed. I want to add, taking an abuser to therapy doesn't fix them. It gives them tools to be more insidious about their abuse
Right, it’s not some random old fling. This is a former sexual partner who you have a strong emotional connection with. Of course your BF is uncomfortable.
When you say your friend is respectful when you’re in a relationship, does that mean you two go back to flirting when you’re single? Lol is this guy just waiting in the wings?
And yes, your BF being uncomfortable isn’t anyone’s business but the two of you. If you were to blame him to your friends for not going, that wouldn’t be very respectful. It’s not “my BF says I can’t go because he’s uncomfortable”, it’s “I won’t go because I want to show my Bf how much I respect him and the relationship”. He can’t control you, you make your own decisions. The decision is whether or not you’re going to respect your BFs wishes or go off and do your own thing.
Maybe but that is a long time ago at this point. Not sure after he actually proposed to her, they had a miscarriage and he basically dumped his ex on Christmas what else he can do here at this point.
No idea, she suggested that I got it passed on from my mother during birth. Which I know is not impossible, but sounds a bit extreme to me.
If you were my child you’d be number 1 and she’d been never around my children at all. Why? Because I know my children amazingly well and if they speak to me about an issue then I know it’s true. I’ve raised them this way. They know I have their back and now, as adults they have mine.
Forget her.
Speak to your parents about it but if you do not feel you can, do you have somebody that can speak to? Somebody you trust?