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Mya Marie, 22 y.o.
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Date: November 28, 2022
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Sounds like your husband raped your sister. If she was black out drunk, and “obliterated” could she have really consented to what happened?
That being said, I’m so sorry this happened to you. I would suggest immediate therapy if you can afford it and I’d recommend figuring out separate living arrangements with your husband. If you’re from the US I wouldn’t recommend leaving your home cause depending on your state that could be considered forfeiting your share of the home which can turn problematic in the event of going forth with a divorce.
I’d also hold off on how to handle your sister. I can understand being livid with her and thinking this happened because of her drinking, but the thing is no matter what set things in motion your husband had it in him to be a cheater. It seems like you don’t have all the details on how things happened and I doubt your husband is going to be fourth coming with that information, but until you have more info maybe don’t address your sister just yet. I’m sure it’s all very confusing, but I’m concerned that your sister was actually taken advantage of. It might be frustrating to handle all that given how much you’re already hurting, but truly, this sounds more than an affair.
Oh good lord. Don’t change yourself – change the man. He doesn’t want a wife. He wants a submissive little mouse and is likely trying to manipulate you into changing your behavior. He should absolutely be back on the market. Tell him not to let the door hit him on his way out.
he is trying every excuse to not talk about this with our therapist.
You need to talk about it in therapy. He had an emotional affair, maintained a lie and gaslite you. That just doesn't go away with time.
Says I need to get over what he did or else we won’t work out.
“Or else” that sounds like a manipulative statement. Not a compassionate, supportive statement. It sounds like his manipulative behaviour (lieing, threatening, gastlighting) is a pattern for him and he hasn't magically changed after the affair. Plus, how are you supposed to “get over it” without fully addressing it? If you feel it is unresolved, it is unresolved. He can't force you to just move on. It's ridiculous he thinks he can.
my support network are her friends, she's lost 2 because they've 'said' they want to sleep with me (spoiler, I know them pretty well, 1 would but i told my wife the minute i met that one that my gut says she's a bad one, the other one had a partner and had her own morals, she's said she wouldn't). as for my family, they're 4000 away and narsasstic as all hell
I don’t understand how you’re not more upset with your wife about this? She should have known better, imo. Boudoir photos should be taken by a somewhat “stranger,” or another female. This was very inappropriate on her part. My hubby would have a fit if I let his friend photograph me hot without him there—even if it was for a surprise for him.