I think you should go a step further and go LC with your parents too. They shouldn't be content with you having to put up with this crap. It sucks that they're so spinless they can't get stand up to their own children. But listen you make good money and have a good life you don't need to waste time trying to be there for people who clearly don't respect you. Live your life well and show them what they could have had if they weren't such dicks.
I bet you they flip as soon as they realize they're not going to get fancy gifts from you on Christmas.
This is a problem. He sounds like he's depressed at the very least, potentially something much bigger. Meds and a therapist will help him.
But you need to decide if this is how you want to live. If nothing changes, nothing will change. It's a constant cycle, and it's been going on since 2019.
If it were me, I'd end it and take some time to focus on myself. Respond and let him know that you are frustrated and can't keep living this way. You said you have licensing exams coming up, focus on those and then start dating. (new people, not him)
Use your hand. She's clearly going through some shit and doesn't need your guilt trips on top of it.
lmao this has to be a troll post.. I had a good laugh
I think you should go a step further and go LC with your parents too. They shouldn't be content with you having to put up with this crap. It sucks that they're so spinless they can't get stand up to their own children. But listen you make good money and have a good life you don't need to waste time trying to be there for people who clearly don't respect you. Live your life well and show them what they could have had if they weren't such dicks.
I bet you they flip as soon as they realize they're not going to get fancy gifts from you on Christmas.
He's too burned out to go to therapy.
This is a problem. He sounds like he's depressed at the very least, potentially something much bigger. Meds and a therapist will help him.
But you need to decide if this is how you want to live. If nothing changes, nothing will change. It's a constant cycle, and it's been going on since 2019.
If it were me, I'd end it and take some time to focus on myself. Respond and let him know that you are frustrated and can't keep living this way. You said you have licensing exams coming up, focus on those and then start dating. (new people, not him)
+1 for the message in that first paragraph.