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My name is Jinna ; twitter – jinnijin43, 24 y.o.
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Date: October 17, 2022
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It absolutely is. If your partner says they’re uncomfortable about something, you don’t continue doing so. If you don’t understand that’s how boundaries are set, you’ve clearly never been in a good relationship.
Communicating your feelings should be the EXACT way to create boundaries. Telling your partner outright what to do, is not.
I think you need to pay attention to how you felt whilst living together. It looks like you needed time apart, I would reflect more on that. Do you see yourself marrying this lady? I encourage you to think about your long term intentions together, and get closer together if you want to save the relationship. LDRs almost never work out
No you’re completely right, but him feeling like that is on him. Like there’s really nothing going on with this other person and I just made his jealousy/insecurity worse by lying. That’s how I see it because now he’s going to think the worse and always think I’m lying when it comes to work. I just feel horrible about the whole thing
Any advice on moving past it bc I still really like her
It’s your choice to stay with someone still so hung up on their ex/es but the longer you stay, the more you will lose yourself. Also don’t take this the wrong way but a 25 year old man has no business being with a 20 year old girl. You will understand this concept better a couple years later but the grooming and manipulation is doing more harm than you realize now.
Good point.
Why not just leave if this is an issue? You two obviously don't feel the same way about it
Sounds terribly exhausting. You must really love her to be willing to put in this much effort. Of course, if she really loved you back then she wouldn't be okay with you deciding to leave.
It sounds like one of you already knows this relationship is dead and the other is left dancing with a corpse full of bile.
Stop cooking.
Then he should reconsider being in a relationship and definitely should not be getting married if his trauma as a result of that experience is so bad that he is exhibiting such toxic traits.
Like is he even able to acknowledge how absurd what he is saying is? This isn't even just 'I worry about other men' but right into 'I actively believe you are wanting to cheat on me' and that is a much much scarier place to be. That he thinks this is all okay and rational shows how far away from being healthy he really is.
This guy is a woodchipper and you are hopping in voluntarily. Just because you understand why he is a woodchipper doesn't make it a good idea to stick a hand in. If anything, all you can affirm from the idea this is trauma is that unless he actively tries to deal with it, which he doesn't seem to have done at all, then this will likely only get worse over time as he becomes more invested in you.
Time for the Come to Jesus talk about if she wants to stay married.
Even Joe said he's interested . You are troll yourself who thinks this is normal
Hire a bouncer, jokes on him when he can't get in. Hah hah.
It's been 4.5 zebras since your last edit. I need another update!
He does all that and yet you can't muster up even a basic enough desire for intimacy for him? News flash, men like sex. Keep rejecting him until he quits trying and quits doing ANYTHING for you. He's your husband, be physically available to him. Do better.
Hope you found your closure, so you can stop wasting your precious time on him