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My hubby is at work play with me, 24 y.o.
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Date: January 13, 2023
These dudes are probably former lovers planning to hook up again, would explain why they drifted apart after partner started dating OP.
It sounds like you likely have some internalized shame over being a teen mother. You have done very well for yourself by getting a degree already and continuing to attend college for a new degree. I can tell you are a hot worker and love your children. I can also tell you deeply love your husband.
Here is the thing… he is bringing you down and holding you back. He can not and will not even do the bare minimum. It’s a red flag for me that your “only expectation” is that he love and pay attention to his kids and he can’t seem to manage that. He does not sound like a good partner for you.
The reasonable things you need and deserve from him would require him the change A LOT. That takes mental effort and dedication that this guy does not sound capable of right now. From personal experience (my own and that of my friends) people rarely change drastically. And if they do it’s because of a wake up call or hitting rock bottom so to speak.
You already know what to do girl. You already know what has to happen and you came here looking for validation and permission…. I can 100% validate you but you have to give yourself permission. Having children with someone does not mean you have to be married and together forever. Marriage is a partnership with give and take. Your husband is not capable of that nor does he sound prepared to do what it takes to make the marriage work. Start making choices for yourself and your babies. My two cents is that your husband is holding you back and making things harder in an already difficult situation. Do the thing you already know you should.
I love my boyfriend so much I don’t want to believe he’d hurt me.
Well, you may love him, but it's clear he doesn't love you. He loves using you for a variety of different things, but he doesn't actually love you. I'm sorry if that's harsh, and it hurts, but it can't possibly be as hurtful as what he has done to you. He's a horrible person, OP. Horrible.
Please seek help from the police, as they may have the ability to help you contact social media signs to try and stop at least some dissemination of this video AND make sure he doesn't have copies of it living in the cloud somewhere.
Lastly, get out of your dorm situation with this person ASAP!
People who plan their future around life events aren't the type to tolerate their partner one-sidedly altering those dreams they've been fostering in their head for decades or longer. Exercising your right to change your mind is potentially going to cost you your marriage. Thats why I'm emphasizing that you should do nothing but apologize and grovel for putting her in that position. Arguing that “its my right to change my mind based on new information” is folly. Stick to your decision, but dont try to justify your position after going back on your word.