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This also throws age and waning libido into the mix. OP has 0 drive. She doesn't even care to have sex and from the sounds of it, she sees it as a chore she can put up with if she has to do so. She offered to have sex with him on the spot which seems to me like she can do it but it's not something she feels the need to do. You and your wife, having been married for 25 years or more; the two of you firstly have a heck of a lot more of a foundation to fall back on and from the sounds of it, you're not waiting for months to have sex once. It's just less than you'd like. As the two of you age, both of your libidos will probably decrease somewhat and if OPs ex were to continue with her and marry her; he would have decreasing libido to look forward to.
She should not be sexually active in any way, shape, or form if she isn’t responsible and mature enough to go to the doctor for her sexual health. Why does she think she has HPV? What are her symptoms?
And you’ve told him that you weren’t looking for his explanation? You’re telling him your boundary and want him to respect it?
You’ve stopped him when he makes these comments and told him “I TOLD YOU TO STOP SAYING THOSE THINGS TO ME”?
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He's 29 and never been in a relationship and given his reaction to being in one I can see why.
Big world out there. Lots of options for you. How much time do you want to invest in someone who isn't on the same level as you?
I agree, I'm 41 and have never cared if my dude watches it . I watch too sometimes
That part. Unless they’ve been doing this for years, even when their child was under age, there’s no reason why they can’t be doing. It quieter now.
Yes you're being selfish. You can have a Bachelorette party if you wanted. This is the thing about pregnancy..my husband was able to continue his normal behaviors, and there were a few things I couldn't do. Like drink and eat sushi. I didn't whine and pout when I'm husband had drinks.
Good reply!
This also throws age and waning libido into the mix. OP has 0 drive. She doesn't even care to have sex and from the sounds of it, she sees it as a chore she can put up with if she has to do so. She offered to have sex with him on the spot which seems to me like she can do it but it's not something she feels the need to do. You and your wife, having been married for 25 years or more; the two of you firstly have a heck of a lot more of a foundation to fall back on and from the sounds of it, you're not waiting for months to have sex once. It's just less than you'd like. As the two of you age, both of your libidos will probably decrease somewhat and if OPs ex were to continue with her and marry her; he would have decreasing libido to look forward to.
She should not be sexually active in any way, shape, or form if she isn’t responsible and mature enough to go to the doctor for her sexual health. Why does she think she has HPV? What are her symptoms?
Yes that's true. The part I was wondering about is how much his friends are wanting this reconciliation to fail.