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Date: October 22, 2022
He held you hand to make you warm ? I call bs on that
This is why breaks are generally stupid. Break up.
You’re 40. Do you really have time for this shit? Let’s be honest this is just a game. If he “picks” her she’s gonna be bored with him very soon cause she just wants him to keep being interested in her. If he “picks” you he will forever be thinking what if. So I would say don’t even go for that shit, go do your thing, you choose to not play these games and be happy without this bullshit ??♀️.
Ask him to look up retroactive jealousy and start working on it. It’s NOT okay for him to keep bringing this up during arguments, it’s a completely invalid thing to hold over your head given it happened long before you were together. It is his responsibility to work through this without projecting it onto you. Let him know that you will not be putting up with him taking out his insecurities on you.
Thank you a lot! We are open about these things, so I will tell him that now we should practice together, so we can gain confidence and move on when the time comes. Thank you again for your advice!
I generally agree. My one quibble is that, assuming this quoted argument is par for the course for them, I feel like her comments are that inaccessible.
Which is a rough point. It doesn’t mean OP is dumb or unknowledgeable, but it’s gotta feel that way at time for both of them, and that’s a hot thing to get around. It never feels good to feel dumb, which is why I’m guessing both of them are reacting so strongly. He feels dumb for not “getting” it, she feels dumb because she’s “not making sense” and doesn’t see how with an (assumedly equal) person. Hopefully this conversation will help OP see around the ego in that sorta thing (not ego as in egotistical, but ego as in concept of self) and be able to close their gap. Because I absolutely agree 100% that it all comes down to conversations. They need to find a way to have the “what do you mean” conversations that’s specific and not agressive
We are all confused. Sounds exhausting honestly.
All good and valid questions
Those women who were polled chose to abort. OP’s wife doesn’t want an abortion.
What about this “joke” inspired you to not only make it, but to keep it going? You ground on and on about it. What part was amusing? How oblivious were you as you tore this person apart?
I kept talking and talking and went on about how he’s a bully and I’m stuck and have just accepted my situation. I accidentally made it sound like I was in an abusive relationship
That wasn't an accident. You capitalized on real trauma for reacts and laughs. You played victim when you are now the abuser.
I probably regret marrying him and it’s too bad I’m in love and can’t get away
He probably regrets wasting so much of his life on someone who does not value him. I hope he can get away from your despicable behavior and frankly revolting attempt at humor. I can imagine how side splitting you are at funerals as you go on about how relieved the surviving family members must be, because of your sublime joke making skills.
Maybe treat your SO right and don't degrade them for laughs? Maybe don't use trauma as a joke? Maybe don't equate any part of your good life to someone in a horrible situation? This wasn't an accident. You did this all on your own and have earned the fallout to come.
It is not controlling. A male-female relationship in a private setting is playing with fire. Many times, this is how affairs start. She may be innocent of any intentions, but that does not mean he is. I suggest you tell her no one on one time in a private setting, and you prefer it be in a group setting at a private place. To me, it is like taking an unnecessary trip in a snowstorm with ice streets. Why put yourself in a risky situation when it's not necessary. Trust your lamb, but understand there are wolves out there. It may be innocent, but he may be a wolf in sheep's clothing. Is it worth the risk?
Where does it say he’s going to strip clubs? Why can’t she go to a casino? If she wants to be able to drink then she can wait until after giving birth.
She’s wondering if the grass is greener. Happened to my highschool relationship that lasted till adulthood. Let her go. There is probably no changing her mind if she’s already wondering or craving another life. My ex wanted to be single so badly because he never got that. He never found a real relationship again after I left. I’ve been married for 6 years and have my own family after him. She will learn her lesson about taking things for granted and you’ll be long gone
No, people can not change. This is not worth your time.
You deserve better.
Please end this, tell her to piss off, and never contact you again.
Dude, this is why many men refuse to date single Moms. The therapists say the stepdad cannot ever discipline the step kids.
Well I'm out. If that 14 year old passes his Mom and I can't correct him? I'm gone!
It's not just her…
I can’t help but wonder what kind of people would be ok with their bf or gf actively looking after 6 months dating. Sure, sharing the info that you are still on Tinder is honest, but apart from poly people, who answers “that’s ok!” to their partner sharing that?
Reach
What did you do wrong? You didn’t plan. Even if she is not pulling her share of the weight, you have children to feed, she clearly isn’t going to step up, so next time you arbitrarily quit your job, have a better one lined up.
And you trusted your instincts and you were right!! Sorry this happened but good for you for listening to your instincts.
Dude get out before you get burned. She’s crazy.
There's either a REALLY important piece of information that you're leaving out or not considering, OR she's nuts.
Do you have any prior criminal offenses that she perhaps could have seen if she decided to pay for a background check on you?
Were you talking to anyone behind her back?
Did you give her an STD?
Do you have any history of making hateful or bigoted posts on social media?
If none of those things are true, she's either stupid, crazy, or gullible enough to believe a lie that someone told about you.
Any way you slice it, if your conscience is clean, it's her loss, you dodged a bullet.
This is exactly what I was gonna say
yes. You’re over reacting. She’s allowed to let you know how she feels. Even if it hurts your feelings.
She didn’t insult you, she didn’t say anything derogatory. She just told you how she feels.
omg please stop letting him do this to you stop driving there. Not only is is rude and disrespectful of your time it’s just weird as hell. He seems incredibly immature and it seems like he just doesn’t care stop trying with him dave yourself a world of hurt.
No. Your mother is a meddling busy body who should keep her nose out of your marriage.
Maybe i’m wrong.. but personally i don’t think he is gay.. he’s so dominant in bed it would be so naked to believe. Or maybe he is and is really good at hiding it. But i don’t even know how to approach it because i obviously was snooping and i don’t want to be called out for it and the situation be turned onto me. but i also want to confront him. i feel like im stuck but at the same time your comment was so helpful.