A crush is literally that; a crush. You were into someone. You didn’t pursue it. It’s a non-issue. You’re not comparing your girlfriend to her.
Now, I certainly agree it was completely unnecessary to mention it, but here we are. If you did it in the interest of full transparency and honesty, fine. But is that why you mentioned it? Why did you? No one’s going to buy the explanation you gave. Just be honest with us.
Regardless, it really doesn’t matter. If you don’t still have a crush on this girl, then she’s irrelevant. “I wanted to be honest with you. That’s all. Nothing happened and I have no feelings for her. I’m sorry if you’re upset but that’s the end of it.”
Hold firm from there. She can’t just hold it over you forever and you shouldn’t allow her to. Good luck.
To discriminate against anyone purely based on their skin colour (of any shade) is racism. You or your family haven't done anything to make him feel hurt or uncomfortable, and you are his S/O who cannot change her skin colour, so to judge you guys based on what a few other people have done in the past and group you all together as one is racist. I think it's more society and media these days persuading him to believe that it's ok to be racist nowadays, as long as it's towards white people (u see it all over tiktok) which is so bizarre to me. That's not how you make peace with anyone ??
Thanks for this one mate. But I am not a believer.
A crush is literally that; a crush. You were into someone. You didn’t pursue it. It’s a non-issue. You’re not comparing your girlfriend to her.
Now, I certainly agree it was completely unnecessary to mention it, but here we are. If you did it in the interest of full transparency and honesty, fine. But is that why you mentioned it? Why did you? No one’s going to buy the explanation you gave. Just be honest with us.
Regardless, it really doesn’t matter. If you don’t still have a crush on this girl, then she’s irrelevant. “I wanted to be honest with you. That’s all. Nothing happened and I have no feelings for her. I’m sorry if you’re upset but that’s the end of it.”
Hold firm from there. She can’t just hold it over you forever and you shouldn’t allow her to. Good luck.
Can you go home? Please tell me they don't have your passport.
Yea no shit
To discriminate against anyone purely based on their skin colour (of any shade) is racism. You or your family haven't done anything to make him feel hurt or uncomfortable, and you are his S/O who cannot change her skin colour, so to judge you guys based on what a few other people have done in the past and group you all together as one is racist. I think it's more society and media these days persuading him to believe that it's ok to be racist nowadays, as long as it's towards white people (u see it all over tiktok) which is so bizarre to me. That's not how you make peace with anyone ??