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No they're not really affectionate, especially his mom isn't.
Marisa literally committed a crime against the two of you. As well as being a breach of privacy both her recordings were illegal in any jurisdiction I can think of.
I think it's reasonable to set a nude boundary that you will not be attending any events Marisa is at. She is highly toxic and targeted you both.
Personally instead of “going off” I would try to calmly say that the situation has gone too far and crossed a line and that you are unwilling to be disrespected or have your partner disrespected. They need to remove Marisa from the family christmas.
I would also file a report with the local Police. Even if you can't prove anything it should give her and your family all a reality check that this is not an acceptable way to treat people.
Finally, for the sake of your relationship if there is any hesitation at all from your family then you need to take Max somewhere else for Christmas.
How do you know that this is her boundary as well?
I said this someone else, but I was thinking maybe since he became a parent so young, that’s why he lives life so vibrantly. To get the feeling of those younger years back. And in this situation Ik people see me as naïve and immature, but when we talk I’m sure he just considers me like an equal. I think he does see me as mature, and that’s why my age is never fetishized. Yeah, there’s hints of him enjoying my inexperience, but I know he likes that he’s the one I’m trying new things with. But anyone would feel that way. I’m just concerned about how he’s fine hooking up with someone in his daughter’s age group. and people on here do have me reflecting on how when HE initiated our conversation on that app, he saw my age on my profile and still continued
Wait, why do you think so??
You did read her post, right?
But I was so upset that I asked him mid-cry, face into his shirt: “to please fuck off. you're exhausting to be around.” and went back inside, leaving him at the door.
That was her response to him coming to give her a hug when she was upset. I was pointing out she really had no right to tell him to f-off, and the only person who really needs to leave the situation is her. It's funny how much more offended you were when I made a comment calling her out on how wrong it was for her to tell him to f-off than you were with her telling him to f-off in the first place.
tell him i got my waxing appointment or get my nails done anything like that he always tells me that there’s no need of doing all of this and how i look pretty just the way i am
He says you look pretty just the way you are, with a manicure, haircut and waxing. Does he not realize these things don't just happen by magic?
Thank you I will definitely check those out! My parents relationship wasn’t great growing up and the same goes for any of my friends. I definitely need to read up on the goods and bads because I most definitely miss them myself
Don't walk away, run away NOW!
Is there another reason he could feel this way? Did he lose a job, house, friend, family member and then you didn't show up? I mean that is an over the top reaction for you not showing up? I wonder if there were other contributing factors as above
Because I didn't wanna have sex or see her nudes?
How is she any different from a niceguy, then?
I just want someone to hangout and spend Christmas with. But I'm gonna have to be alone because of someone else's fault?
He is just proving you made the right decision
I think he wants a housewife aswell and I don't think its a bad thing to want that. However if you do not want to be a housewife, this guy is clearly not the right match for you. If he did not have the same values and expectations as his parents he would have told you what they expect in a joking way or in a way where its clear that he does not agree with them but he actually asks you to do the chores. I also have no idea what kind of people they would be since you would be a guest there and it really sounds not very hispitable to let a guest clean dishes or do any chores at all. Maybe once you are married and part of the family or it gets close to that they could ask for something like that but for the first meeting?
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So believe no led on, lied to, and manipulate are forgivable things now?
thank you. i really appreciate that, i’ve screenshotted your advice and i’m gonna try my hardest to follow it and actually give myself a bit of a break. i’ll delete this post in a bit because i’m pretty sure he knows my username and i don’t want this to be fuel to the fire but just so you know, i am extremely grateful
I’m not sure, he comes across as very sure of himself, maybe he doesn’t like the idea of me looking good as he wants to be better? I’m not sure, just a thought.
It sounds like you may be shallow. And it sounds like that hasn't served you very well in terms of picking good partners.
But attraction is important and if it's not there, it's not there. Attraction can grow with emotional connection and often does, but it's also possible that it won't. You'll have to decide if it's worth trying, and you also need to consider how far you should continue with this before it becomes unfairly stringing him along.
IMO, you built up a fantasy version of him in your head and the real version is disappointing. That may also be why you've picked multiple terrible people to date previously. Romanticizing and idealizing people and relationships caused a lot of trouble. So maybe the bigger issue you need to deal with, whether you date him or not, is figuring out how to approach dating and relationships in a more realistic and adult fashion.
As far as “types” go, you can be as narrow or broad in what is attractive to you as you like. Just understand that if you have a very narrow range of what is attractive to you, and will not or cannot adjust that, you'll necessarily exclude some wonderful people as partner material. And that is a choice you can make.
Your texts are too boring and needy and you’re asking girls out without making them work for it or playfully teasing and toying with them along the way
Wow.
You've been living in their home 4 years, you ere supposed to be saving up to buy a house, but you decided life was comfortable enough to have a child. You then spent 2 years not working. Now you've got a job your in laws are babysitting for free. Howver the in laws are terrible people, who don't look after your child properly.
If they treat you like children its because you've been acting like children. Sounds to me it's not just your husband who's been comfortable living off your in laws, you are too. Why you are complaining about a really cushy situation makes me wonder if the in laws are looking after the child for free so you Will move out of their home sooner, much sooner, rather than later.
Stop moaning about everything and everyone. Someone who lives off people and then thinks it's grown up to add a child isn't someone who has the right to moan about life not going her way. This is the life you chose. 100k is enough to get out their, this buying a house is a pipe dream. You were supposed to be saving up and working towards th his goal for the last 4 years. You've done nothing towards saving up for a house in the last 4 years at all.
Is this moan a hint you want your in la Ws to pay the deposit or more on a house of your choice, because it sounds like it.
Your in laws owe you nothing and have given you a shit tonne of financial aid.
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My first ever Reddit purchase was to award you. Hilarious. I understand your humor.
You’re twisting it around in order to make your position seem valid. It’s not. OP has a right to his feelings no matter how long they’ve been together. If she had told him she’s seeing other people at the jump, he would have been able to make his own decision. Based on his comments, he might have been ok with it.
Their relationship started on a lie when she lied to him about not seeing other people. This isn’t a debate. Everyone here (except for a few idiots) agree with this. The issue being debated is whether he should just let it go or not.
I personally don’t know if I would believe that she’s being honest about the timing of everything now, but OP hasn’t really commented on that yet.
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Visualizer on the television and look up govee lights (depending on if you have a large TV and your budget). They'll light up the area behind your TV matching the colors on the border of the screen. My wife got me them for Xmas, and I adore them.
Getting a subwoofer would also be a must, budget permitting.
? Asking your partner to wear a condom is not a fair thing to ask? BUT it's fine for women to be messed up on BC hormones forever? Riigghhhttt
Thank you!
So, I'm already prepared for the downvotes because this won't be popular.
But please be aware that I'm simply offering an opinion to be helpful… not to troll.
I'm also not excusing or defending him.
Obviously he's in the wrong, and obviously you should leave him.
However,
Again, I'm not saying its your fault… but…m certain things you stated in your post hinted at things to me that make me worried that you have behaviours that may contribute to that happening again with someone else…..
I'm generalising and simplifying massively here but
Men hate being nagged, and hate being told what to do or feeling trapped.
So the more you made an issue out of him talking to her and gaming etc in the early stages, the more he felt that he couldn't talk to you and started associating you with stress and negativity, which makes him more likely to dive deeper into gaming and interacting with other people so seek out positivity and encouragement elsewhere.
This became a spiral overtime.
My mother in law actually made this comment once at Christmas a few years ago and it stuck with me
“Men are easy once you realise they just want to feel special and needed. If you want him to stop doing something, you just tell him that's he's so amazing and special, why is he wasting his time doing xyz like the loosers do”
That's how she got her husband to quit smoking, quit going to the bar after work every night etc
And my sister in law immediately used it on her bf at the time and got him to quit gaming
Fundamentally most men don't get much validation in life, so if they find anything or anyone who gives them validation, they get addicted to it
That's where the emotional cheating comes from, that's why men become obsessed with work, or develop a random hobby etc, because that's where they feel most needed and most validated
Again, I'm not defending him. I'm not justifying him. He's still an adult, who made decisions, and he could have chosen to make different decisions.
But I thought an explanation of the underlying psychology may be useful.
Just because he preyed on you when you were vulnerable doesn't mean he's worth keeping…
Calling BS on the adults part.
I'm not always so sure. It fluctuates. Someone in a private message mentioned PMDD, which immediately makes sense to me. It seems the intense anger/rage + difficult behavior happens every month, for about 1-2 weeks, then things calm down and it's liveable.
I could have sworn I've read this exact post before
Jesus, she’s 38 yo and still acting like this? Yikes..
Really? The health nut in my office who lectured people about keepign in shape gained 30 pounds when she had her baby, and that was almost a year ago.
I really find people like your husband annoying. If he has a health issue that causes him to gain weight, he'll, of course have multiple reasons why it isn't his fault. LOL
I was not consulted on buyting the car. You said you wanted to do this on your own and that means paying any expenses related to the car.
I think a lot of people are totally brainwashed when it comes to bUt YoUrE a PaReNt BS.
OP is an adult. You don't get a free pass for being a shitty person simply because you are a parent. OP prefers his shitty father and his affair partner over his still struggling mother.
Father cheated with woman less than half his age and then ran off with the affair partner. OP actually likes the affair partner more because she's pretty, photogenic, bright and cheerful AND gave him money for college. Plus daddy told him cheating was not only no big deal but made him much happier.
OP is ignorant and bought and paid for by the affair partner. This would turn my stomach if I were OP's mother and be more than enough to set boundaries over.
It was probably just a bad day for her and she should have just tried to reschedule the first time but she really wanted to meet you and said the 2 hour thing as a best case scenario which didn’t work out.
Maybe use it to gauge how she values time but I wouldn’t preclude going on a real day with her because if that. Things come up all the time and cancelling in someone you have never met before because something came up in your life that day isn’t a big deal, esp since she still wants to reschedule. My advice is take a breath and realize she is just as much as a main character as you are.
Nah just let it go. If he wanted to talk he would.
Yeah, going by the answers, I don't think most people in this comment section have ever successfully had friends lol
If you're asking about it you feel like it's inappropriate or weird or odd. Usually these are your warning system.
He's supported me through some of the most challenging times of my life, he's always been my #1 fan, he's super funny, we both have similar interests and life goals, but, I can't stand the fact that I'm mothering my partner. It hasn't always been this horrible, it's just gotten worse the longer we stay together
“I'm not seeing anything happening between us”
Say it, bring closure, and look for other people.
“I'm not seeing anything happening between us”
Say it, bring closure, and look for other people.
I was being enthusiastic as soon as he messaged tho and was sending back memes and enthusiastic responses however his energy seemed a bit dry…That’s why I gave up the second day and said haha okay…
True I am overthinking it!
He should be an ex boyfriend, and your sister is not your friend. Why would she meddle in and threaten your relationship? Huge overstep on her part at the very least, malicious on the other end of the spectrum
I read this like you were slightly annoyed. Also a single MD at 30, one has to ask, did she mean success as in hookup?
it was weird, i really think that compliment is not worth this, she never cheated tho, i only found her talking to that person not cheating.
Don't let your boyfriend stop you from finding your husband
You need to start being more honest and assertive. Stop letting it slide when you feel uncomfortable. Listen to the other comments and learn to say “no”.
It sounds like you were being respectful when you offered her that advice, and she took it the wrong way. Like you said, she's having a tough time right now and could be feeling insecure about what you pointed out. I don't think you said anything wrong, she's just misdirecting her frustrations out on you.
Sounds like this is a really strong friendship, and won't be broken over something like this. Just give her time and space, and maybe reach out after a while. You've already explained yourself and pushing it further probably won't do any good.
The question is whether your desire for sex is getting in the way of you living your life. Are you able to do your errands, work, and/or school without your libido getting in the way?
i would just tell them straight up. it's time that they take accountability for the actions (or lack of in this case). they knew that they failed you as parents and still tried make it so no blame fell on them. there are ways to parent children with disabilities and they chose to no do that. they have let all 4 of you down because of this
I'm with your friend here. He's not interested in you. Time to move on.
Your son is your family too. YTA.
And it’s creepily suspicious you won’t disclose your new wife’s age. Sounds like a typical midlife crisis.
That’s why they both want you there. Your presence is crucial to their dynamic. They got off cheating behind your back and they need you there at their wedding to rub it in your face.
Hiring a babysitter is an excellent compromise. You don’t need to attend your ex’s wedding, and your children can be there. The wonderful thing about divorce is that your ex’s feelings add no longer your problem.
I'm sorry you're going through this but I am glad you found the truth. It's best to do this calmly. Collect the evidence, contact the lawyer and text her while she is gone. Ruin her trip and tell her it's over.
I shouldn’t have said relationship, we aren’t exclusive. He’s very private and doesn’t want anyone to accuse him of messing around with me before It was legal I guess.
Obviously not because your post and comments paint a pretty clear picture of what you are.
You can try to fool yourself, but you aren't fooling anyone else.
You still haven't answered the question
Right so it’s a race to get hers first regardless of anything else. What a healthy way to approach sex… ugh
Found the comment! Yeah, while i agree that isn't full proof..he's totally caught fibbing. No one follows one account on a music app, let alone a rando account. Please don't allow him to manipulate the truth. You're not crazy and he's doing a shit job at giving you a clear answer. At this point, he's stonewalling. A dead giveaway.
Info: do you two live! together?
If you don’t on-line together then to me, you just need to drop it and assume you’ll hear from him the next day.
If you do live together, he’s being a disrespectful asshole. Even roommates who aren’t romantic partners typically offer the common courtesy of letting someone know what they plan to be home.
If my partner goes out with the guys or visa versa, we either plan a time or leave it wide open and Pam to just text on the way home.
If someone shows up at my house at 3am unexpectedly and the dogs are going ballistic, I’m going to show up with a baseball bat or even a gun. It scares me to get woken up like that when I’m not expecting company.
If you live together then I’d tell him that if he won’t be home as planned and can’t be bothered to communicate the change, then he should plan on not coming home til the next day so you’re not being woke up.
I have the same issues with my man. He is pretty patient with me. I can be a real mess and take things way too personally. My parents were alcoholics and neglectful narcissists. Lots of trauma. You are right, change takes time and healing is alot of work. A supportive partner is imperative. I wish you luck sweetie.