No that's weird and disrespectful. What aspect of “partying” does he want to partake in that he can't while you're there? It'd be one thing if this was a small group of male friends, no girlfriends or “random” girls, but it sounds like he wants nights to behave like he's single. If other women were included, I think it would make sense to not add in factors like alcohol that impair judgment. Don't mix up “it's important and healthy for him to have friends and spend time with them” with “he needs to party without me.” Anyone telling you they're the same is deluded. Just my 2 cents tho
yeah but I want things to change and if I’m the one that’s the problem then I’m willing to change but I genuinely can’t tell
No that's weird and disrespectful. What aspect of “partying” does he want to partake in that he can't while you're there? It'd be one thing if this was a small group of male friends, no girlfriends or “random” girls, but it sounds like he wants nights to behave like he's single. If other women were included, I think it would make sense to not add in factors like alcohol that impair judgment. Don't mix up “it's important and healthy for him to have friends and spend time with them” with “he needs to party without me.” Anyone telling you they're the same is deluded. Just my 2 cents tho