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Date: November 2, 2022
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The reason a 43-year-old man is seeking a relationship with a 24-year-old barely older than his kid is because women his own age won’t put up with whatever bullshit he’s about to dump on you if you stick around long enough.
Please don’t waste your 20s on this guy and his baggage.
She did it several times.
If I understood you correctly, she's only coming clean bc the guy was going to out her.
No. I wouldn't marry her or stay with her.
I totally agree with this advice. If you can't walk away without saying something just tell him your values are different. You value monogamy and someone you feel is respectful towards you. No one can argue with that.
You've got this! You'll find someone who is nice and that will be way better.
There is very little chance that your relationship is going to make it long term. You're 19 years old, not even old enough to drink yet, and you're having a baby with somebody who is actually almost twice as old as you.
Oh, I completely agree there is a massive double standard. Personally I try to educate the guys on coercion as well, rather than jump to “that's assault!” because most of them (particularly when young) will completely dismiss the assault claims as hysteria.
Please run. This man does not respect you. Speaking from experience.
ppl who act like that don’t get morning texts. block him and call the police. i’m an advocate for mental health but not when it’s being used to manipulate a partner. he’s not actually suicidal, he’s trying to break you.
Mate he has sexual kinks about Jewish women that almost all Jewish women would find disgusting offensive and antisemitic.
He dated OP, a Jewish woman, without her knowing he was getting off on her ethnicity like this.
Its totally reasonable to think he could similarly target other Jewish women in the future.
Its also reasonable to warn others so that they don't have to go through the same gross experience she has just gone through.
Oh. Hell. No. Never trust the church.
Yah send us the address so that we can report it to the police
The silent treatment is abuse. And neglect. This is not a healthy relationship. If you want to try to salvage the relationship, I'll tell you what worked for us — it's been over 30 years ago and I'm still with the same man.
Get two small suction cup or stick-on hooks. Put one on each side of the dresser mirror or some other shared space like that. One is yours and the other is his. Take one pendant (we used a moonstone). Hang the pendant on one of the hooks. The pendant is the “talking rock”.
When you have a fight, whoever's hook has the stone has one hour to be silent. Then they break the silence. If there's still too much anger, that person can have one additional half hour. That's it. They MUST break the silence and start a conversation. It can even be, “Are you hungry?” or something simple. But they must do it. The pendant then moves to the other hook for the next argument.
We used that moonstone for less than 6 months. By that time we'd learned better communication skills and no longer needed the stone.
Having a “talking rock” takes the emotion and ego out of who breaks the silence. It is an “assignment” that must be followed. It helps establish new skills and habits.
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I mean your mom ruined your wedding and reception and you essentially took her side. Your wife definitely sounds like an emotional person, but this would be devastating to anyone getting married. And you constantly make her out to be unjustifiably angry, calling her hysterical and enraged when your mom has ruined a massive major life event for her. It’s totally unfair to ask you to cut off your family. But maybe you could have tried to compromise by agreeing to limit contact with your mom, who disrespected her and never stopped or apologized. I think your wife is right to want separation. I think there are definitely better options to your housing situation, but hey, it sounds like she’s desperate to get away from you. Try to understand why your wife is so angry instead of acting like she shouldn’t be.
I know this subreddit loves to throw divorce at every problem, but honestly I would absolutely never forgive this. He has the nerve to say that about you, even though you had a career before your middle kid… what a POS. You could even say he has very rooted mysogyny with the way he doesn't consider you succesful because you're a mom with a part time job. Reading your post made my blood boil ugh
Awesome, thank you so much for the insider perspective! I'll check out that video with her tomorrow.
They are! My friend has a pet pig and she is super cuddly!
Trust me, being single is better than being constantly hurt by somebody you love. You are not even getting good sex, so what is the point of staying with him?
Is he the guy from the movie Kids?
Also, if I were your father, this boy would be wise to move far far away.
IMHO if he's wanting you to meet them this quickly, then there's a big element of him seeking their approval.
One way to look at it is that he wants to know what they think without the bias of your kid. He can't really do that himself because he knows. He could just be looking for some trusted (to him) input.
“Don't have sex if you don't want to have kids” Sex for pleasure still exists. You sound ridiculous.
^this 100%.
Always be skeptical when people make out that their exes to be evil or crazy. There are usually two sides to the story.
I think you need to be direct with your girlfriend. Her ex flame is not looking to only be friends. It bothers you that she continues to communicate with him and you would like for her to permanently stop communicating with him. You need to set boundaries and consequences for any continued communication to include ending the relationship. Hold off on proposing until this is resolved.
If he’s been diagnosed with bipolar disorder, he needs to be taking meds, going to therapy, and staying on a schedule (including a strict sleep schedule). He’s lying to you (and himself) about not being depressed. He’s stuck in the depression mud and doesn’t know how to get out, so he’s just sitting in it and now he’s comfortable. Unfortunately, you’re going to have to make him uncomfortable by having some serious discussions with him.
When I was in a similar situation (bipolar, unemployed, sleeping too much at weird hours, my spouse supporting me), what snapped me out of it was a partial hospitalization program/intensive outpatient program. I was in it for about six weeks. I was also started on medication during that time. That gave me what I needed to find a job and take my life back. It also gave me the insight to be able to recognize signs in myself when I needed help going forward.
Boy, you are 26. I don't know where outside pressure is coming from to settle down but relax. This isn't even your final form. You have several left.
Your wife is afraid of losing her mother. That cancer gave her a scare of how mortal her dear mother is. So she's trying to spend as much time with her as possible and unfortunately that's becoming a burden on you and your children. You are no longer “safe” in the privacy of your own home, feel suffocated by her constant presence and her grandchildren have reached the point of hating to be near her.
I am 100% certain that if her health would deteriorate to the point she needs constant care, she'd move your MIL into your home without discussing it with you. And I can attest to have seen marriages get ruined by that.
Your wife needs to accept that this isn't healthy. This is no longer about love, but obsession. The people I know that obsessed so hard about their elderly parents have lashed out hot to the people closest to them. Some even picking up addictions or abusive habits.
It's true that I may be thinking too negatively due to my past experiences, because you seem to have a good and stable relationship.
So best of luck to you!
My neighborhood is a high traffic area for a lot of transient folks and (male) solicitors who will come up while I'm doing yard work and insist that I should pay them to do it because I'm a woman and shouldn't be doing that stuff myself.
Is she perhaps more guarded because her heart was broken during the last breakup? Or has she always been like this?
you’re definitely not i would say goodbye if i were u. it doesn’t seem like he respects you very much also gives me a gaslightly vibe idk. but there are soo many better men (and women)
I’ve been happily married for 14 years and my wife kept her name. Here’s how our conversation went; her: when we get married, I want to keep my last name. Me: cool. I mean the whole idea is rooted in ANTIQUITY! There’s no good reason for it anymore. Its. PITA to change it too.
Dooood. What?!! 5 years? Is this rage bait? We supposed to take this seriously and not say call the police?
Consider yourself warned and decide for yourself.
Sounds like he can only stand brown people if surrounded by other five ahem star white people. Gross.
Having a kid is scary, so maybe that's all this is, but I find that hard to believe. Sounds to me like the reality of pregnancy has helped him realize that maybe he isn't so sure about fatherhood.
When my wife and I were first wading into parenthood, she suggested trying “natural family planning.” Well, you can imagine what happened; we were, naturally, planning for a family, after all. It happened so fast. I had agreed to the natural family planning, but in my heart I guess I was looking at it like any other birth control; I hadn't approached that decision with the gravity it deserved – it's one of those things where you don't know how it will really affect you until it happens.
Now, this may not be the same situation, but I hope your husband's weirdness is just an expression of the same anxiety. That said, his behavior is more than a little over the top and just… weird.
If you're not doing something like this as a carefully managed, mutual choice, your marriage is over.
Yeah, it shows you that your wife doesn't want cheaters in her life. What's wrong with that?
this. I like spending time alone with my friends but I'm beginning to think that maybe I trust this man too much. I don't want to think that he is cheating on me but there is a voice that says that I am naive and that many things are happening that are not usual.
You absolutely CAN cut him off completely. Don't engage with him. Don't spend time around him. Block him on all social media and every messaging app. Maintain solid boundaries.
She said no? Well dang not like she’d ever lie or anything
Out of the blue, she asked me if I was a virgin.
she knew I had been in two relationships prior to meeting her and I admitted that those relationships had been sexual.
So she didn't know before? Seems kinda weird.
The next day, she ignored my texts still, so I decided to pull into her house in that evening. Seeing how I was already there, she agreed to see me
Don't do this. If someone isn't replying, why go over? She was upset and needed space, but your issue was obviously larger than her figuring things out.
What should I do to win her back?
You don't. She's upset over something that happened before her and that's her problem. She said it'd be easier to lose you, you said “cool, take all the time you want” and are wondering what you can do? Leave and find someone you're compatible with
You are obtuse.
People always focus on their own safety but what about the other people they could have killed?
Your wife’s projecting her behavior onto you because she doesn’t want her husband behaving the way she does. After 25 years you know damn well what’s going on. I hit 26 years next month and if I was in your place I would be carefully considering my future with her. She’s not loyal. She’s having an emotional affair at least.
Who's apologizing for her LOL, certainly not I.
Just trying to figure out maybe this is what she's thinking/feeling.
You may think she's a shit person, I may think she's a shit person, she may even think she's a shit person (but does it anyway) but OP doesn't seem to think that for now.
The practical thing is for him to get advice from his lawyer before she takes the kids out of state and he may not be able to see them as often anymore or ever, even.