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Everything I read here is that she talks to you, tells you what she is doing- and you ignore her. Ignore her plans, ignores when she tells you what she’s doing, ignores her blatantly bringing things up- then feel like she hid things from you because she deals with things herself instead of waiting for you to finally listen. Her body. She Told You she didn’t want to be pregnant. She told you she wanted you to wear condoms. You said no, what happens happens. Of course she felt she needed to figure it out herself. And telling you after she made plans means she has something concrete to tell you, not a maybe that you can argue away and force her to be pregnant when she said no.
The house, she told you! In the comments you acknowledge she told you and told you. She told you about the house, she told you about paper work, she mentioned her friend staying there openly. She got it in foreclosure, time was obviously important and you told her to shut up and expected her to just wait until you allowed her to bring it up again. In this relationship I would say you are the difficult one to deal with.
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This is a terrible plan. It gives him absolutely no indication that you want anything more than the professional advice you've asked for. Just ask him out.
She is also bipolar
Yes. Do tell…
Sounds like an arsehole of epic proportions.
This is the one I can say I agree with completely.
It's an exceedingly rare thing to stay happily with one's first love, and there are many reasons for that. Sometimes two people truly have what they want and know they do, but even many who end up with that first love later needed some life experiences to mature and grow into the people needed for that relationship to withstand time. And those are the two leading factors here I think, that led to Kate being so easily influenced by her co-workers. A lack of life experience and maturity. Whilst both OP and Kate lack the former, I think he's quite a distance ahead of her in the maturity category, and that's a large problem in a relationship.
OP had the right of it in the way he handled things and laid out what he needs from her. If OP is willing to give her the benefit of the doubt after these three months are up, Kate will need to take that time to improve herself. She needs to prove that she's going to put in the work as his partner, that she sees them as equals not as above or below one another. She needs to mature. That could take time though, && only OP can judge after this whether or not he believes that it's something he wants to be with her through after those 3 months have passed. Irregardless, we should all support his decision and be there for him if he ever wishes to update us.
Whatever happens from here, I wish OP only the best in life and pray Fortuna blesses him with good luck so long as he lives.
it’s not necessarily that. i think i’m scared to be with someone else or with no one at all. obviously, he’s the only person i’ve ever let know everything about me and see me in ways no one else has, yk? and i guess apart of me would feel like i failed our relationship if i left because i genuinely wanted him to be my first and my last everything.
I mean, it's your money, but you don't think it's odd that you have been with her for 2.5 years and are old enough and financially stable enough to buy a house but are like “Nah, marriage isn't even on my radar right now”. I'm going to guess that your girlfriend is angry not necessary about the house, but that you don't seem to be even considering any sort of a future with her after so much time together.
However, take it from an old lady who’s seen this movie before – you can’t date potential. I’ve done it, my friends have done it – never works.
I second this. We all learned this lesson the hot way, so don't feel dumb.