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My @GOAL: TWERK AND SPANKS x8 — I am sexy redhair latina for fun us in pvt and I make u cumshow [Multi Goal]
Date: November 18, 2022
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Your request is reasonable. Tell her you just can't accommodate her right now, and you hope she understands. My guess is she won't break up with you, since there's a house in it for her at the end (that and she probably, you know, loves you)
If she responds to you living your life the (very normal and OK) way you want with dumping you, trust me, you wouldn't have had a good relationship anyway. If you firmly but kindly put your foot down now, she won't pull the ultimatum card every time she wants something down the road
I don't see how her being cheated on is relevant tbh. Wasting food of yours to be purposefully spiteful. Choosing when to confront you so she can manipulate you into doing what she wants? Reading your private personal thoughts, taking pictures, and using it against you. All red flags. She sounds toxic as hell. I'd be done with her for good going thru my private thoughts and taking pics of them. Idc what her reasoning is there. That is a huge violation of trust and privacy on her end. Its not okay. You shouldn't let it be ok either. She is incredibly manipulative and toxic. You were right. She's not the one.
This is the best advice
I found most of this out relatively recently she dropped it on my post engagement. I asked her why her dad wasn’t invited to wedding for invites she said he doesn’t get along with sisters. Then about 6 months in she started using the experience (which I wasn’t aware of) as an excuse for shady behavior and verbal abuse. At that point she lived in my condo and we were enmeshed so to speak. I am leaving her, I already emailed venue to cancel. I’m done with her
you lack self-respect.
You say no. You report shit to CPS if for some reason this dumbass decides to move his kid into a house where he’s actively pimping you and others out. Do whatever you want when it comes to work and relationships. Don’t you dare take part in covering for a man who wants to move his child into this environment. You’d be just as culpable and guilty of traumatizing an innocent child. There’s no compromise here. If you facilitate this, whether or not you’re happy in this relationship, you’re absolutely part of the problem.
Well, you are almost 30, you don't need to talk to your parents every single day! I'd do a couple of things:
Cut back on the phone calls. Only once or twice a week, and make it the new normal. They don't need to talk to you every single day; you have nothing to report; you are incredibly busy; etc. A ringing phone is an invitation, not a subpoena. Tell them (don't ask, TELL) a new phone schedule. Put them on an information diet. Just don't talk to them about subjects you don't want to talk about. If they keep asking you about work, say “Nothing to tell! Just super busy.” “No, no issues. Just the same old thing.” Stop giving them ammunition. Say out loud, and directly, “Oh I don't need any advice. It's fine.” “I'll ask if I want advice – I'd actually rather talk about [SUBJECT CHANGE].” If they persist, end the conversation. “Okay well I'm not up for any advice, so I'm going to say good bye. I'll talk to you on [next phone date].”
Boundaries are your Friends!
If i were you, I would just bring him everywhere you are invited. Your mom kind of opened the door to that when she said to just bring him.
I'm sorry you feel slighted, and you do have reason to feel that way. I do think you will be happier over all if you find a way to get past this to acceptance. Does it really matter in the big picture?
When you focus on the bad, it seems bigger – try to focus on something good so this doesn't eat you up.
Ah is this the chicks version of going out for a pack of smokes and never returning? Maybe instead of a trip to find herself she can talk to a psychologist to get to the bottom of her issues