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First time wet panties [Multi Goal]
Date: October 16, 2022
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First time wet panties [Multi Goal]
The first red flag came in the very first sentence— why can’t this grown adult man find someone HIS OWN AGE who isn’t fresh off the graduation line?
Beyond that, him reinforcing your insecurities is not cool. I hate to say it lovebug, but this man chose you because he could prey on you and manipulate you. Run for the hills babe, speaking as someone who was in that 18-22 dynamic for extremely similar reasons.
One day, I hope you realise that playing games like this, with people's feelings, is toxic behaviour.
You can't do questionable things just because you're afraid of hurting someone's feelings. If it was innocent, she could have held her sister's hand, she was right next to her.
You should go do something nice for your wife while thanking her for having your back. You should go very low to no contact with your parents. I’m guessing you get Benefits at least through your wife, you should go to therapy for yourself too.
In which passage are you referring?
And I agree that we should take what every human being says with a grain of salt. He was a sage, not an omniscient being. He had an awakening and did his best to articulate that within the culture and language available to him at the time.
His teachings were absolutely radical though. We also have no way to prove which words were actually his and which were inserted by other. Not to mention the massive language barrier.
I always got a kick out of relatives that would cling to the King James version of the bible as the TRUE word of G-d. Like I'd be hard pressed to find a worse language to relate to ancient Aramaic than Shakespearean English LuL.
Whatever you do, don't tell her it looks worse – she cannot help that now. This type of honesty would only be useful if she could DO something like put on a more flattering dress, or maybe change hairstyle, etc. But here? She cannot change her chin just like that. So it's pointless to criticize it, it is what it is. I would probably tell her she looked good before and still does now. And if that's not enough and she keeps on pressing, I would say: “I already told you what I think. That won't change, nevermind how many times you ask. Why do you keep asking? Is there something specific you want to hear, or talk about?”
As a woman, I will tell you with absolute certainty that any woman who tells you they “just can’t control themselves emotionally” during their period is using that as an excuse to abuse you. They can 100% control themselves they just choose to be rude. Your girlfriend sounds horrible and I hope you find someone who can act like an adult.
This is the only time he got caught.
Put your pink glasses off and send him packing. He's gay who's doesn't have courage to come out of the closet. You are there just for public appearance.
Yes you knew he had a GF and you still decided to do the wrong thing – that speaks volume for both of you
Maybe he’s trying to get out of you moving in. You’ve been together a month. He’s telling you he doesn’t feel the way you do. Please listen, slow down and find another place to move to.
It's not a “woman” thing, it's a “person” thing. That said, maybe she was sick? And even if she wasn't, you're effectively strangers to each other, she doesn't owe you squat.
OP, depending on the antidepressant, you’re completely correct
I would advise you to get out of a relationship with someone who slingshots around, for a variety of reasons, but if you stay in her orbit, you need to set boundaries, within yourself first of all.
Live! your life as if she doesn't exist. Whatever home you make, job you choose, etc., must be independent of her, because you need a place to retreat to when she goes through her cycle of pushing you away before pulling you back in.
If you accept her as she is, and love her as she is, you must have no expectations, and let her come and go as she pleases, like a feral cat who sometimes lets you feed and pet her.
I personally think it's a bad idea to keep your heart open to a person so erratic. She is so caught up in her own spin cycle that you will be hurt over and over, and you will reinforce her bad boundaries in ways that will keep her from changing.
You love a person who is emotionally incontinent, has bad boundaries, and is manipulative as hell, possibly without realizing it. She's young; she has to figure out how to take responsibility for her behavior, and I hope she does. She won't, however — not with you rewarding mistreatment — but raising up another adult is not your job.
If you are besotted with her and have to give it a go, you ride that barstool all the way to the floor, and enjoy it while it lasts.
As long as it doesn't end up “I'll have sex or do xyz if you do this chore”, why not ?!
Can you pee from the shower into the toilet? XD
No one is perfect, your bf included
Talk to a lawyer before you talk to your wife. Protect your assets.
Lol ok I don’t think you’ve interacted with people ever because you don’t seem to understand how friendships work. Just because someone is from an area, doesn’t mean they have friends or family they’re interested in hanging around.
Well it becomes trauma dumping when it comes to a point where only one side is sharing their feelings and thoughts and the receiver feels like a turtle unable to share their own feelings, thoughts, and responses because it seems like their own feelings, thoughts, and problems are not as noteworthy in comparison. If you feel like the other person has very little opportunity to speak about themselves as much as they listen and seem like they are holding back, then it is pretty unhealthy. It is good that he is a good listener, but things don't work one way. He also needs to be able to speak out and be listened to.
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I definitely believe she needs therapy, as I know how emotional responses (like crying) can make initiating communication difficult…BUT, I also believe OP could use therapy to work through some things as well. They both need to work on themselves, regardless of whether or not the relationship can fully recover.
OP's internalized hatred of women that are crying, specifically during arguments, is not healthy; he's assigned negative intent in these cases, speaking as if they have manipulation or gain at the front of their minds. There's probably stuff to unpack there tracing back to childhood, and the unhealthy communication he witnessed between his parents. OP has decided that her emotional response was a conscious calculation, which is most likely not the case; he's projecting.
I suspect you want a person who wants a monogamous relationship, and not a person who is settling for one.
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She is going to be a completely different person when and IF she gets back. She doesn't want you to go along for the ride. She wants you to wait for her. What if you eventually want to get married and have kids? Or just a partner in general?
It's time to move on and if she comes back, she comes back.
Bro just break up This space thing is foolish
Thank you that's kind of feel. Just because you not physically attracted to a gender don't mean something can happen based off an emotional connection
You don’t. You dump this jackass and find an adult.
is love really enough to make the man my husband
Never ever ever ever ever is love enough to stay in a bad relationship. The single biggest lie that had ever been perpetrated on young people is that love conquers all. It doesn't. It actually doesn't conquer anything. That's not how love works.
You need 4 things to have a happy, healthy, mutually fulfilling relationship: trust, respect, honesty, and compassion. You might be able go get by with 3 if those, but you'll have a wobbly chair.
Love should not be used as an emotional crutch to rationalize staying in a relationship that doesn't serve you.
sorry for the question but you or your husband did something that gave them the impression that both of you would be open to that kind of “practice”? their insistence seems that at some point you gave them the impression that you would be open to this
Start going to the therapist and ask them if they think it would be a good idea.
No. It's you. You decided to not honour your agreement. You failed to uphold your end of the argument. You are a bad friend. And you might want to consider going back to work if you're struggling. No-one wants to read your memoir.
There's a drama called doctor foster and a Korean version of it called world of the married. Your post is the real life version of it I guess
Sometimes you need to hurt his feelings in order to get the message across. He was acting abusive and you shouldn’t dance around it and try to comfort him about it.
Trying to say it in a way where his feelings wouldn’t get hurt is like you saying that his actions and feelings were valid and he had a right to act the way he did.
Don’t make first contact with him. Let him really sink into it and hopefully he realizes he really screwed up. Wait for him to apologize first.
You making the first step will set the expectations that he should always expect you to try fixing the problem first.
Take your bf's playful tone – Mom, Dad, you both were over the top inappropriate the other night. If you ever behave like that again, I'm going to dump my drink over your head and then leave. You have been warned.
And then do it. Then smile at them and say “I warned you!” C'mon Bf lets go! [exit stage left, still smiling].
Hi. He's not participating in the relationship anymore. He's got what he wants: a bang maid. Is he actually interested in you? He doesn't want to spend time with you. Do you have a job? Your own money?
At your age, this could be your life for 50 years plus. Is this what you want? You're young. Dump this guy. Travel. Have adventures. Date other people.
Well, formalize that with a certified letter. Otherwise you could be guilty of theft of property.
Hopefully he doesn't have access to your garage? If he does, he can just enter and take his stuff. You still don't have your rent money.
Hormonal contraceptives are not for anyone to decide except the person taking them. I.e. you. Also in reality they are no one else’s business.
Condoms as well you can’t force your partner to wear one. It’s completely up to him what he wants to do with his body in that regard.
Here’s the thing. You don’t have to have sex with him if he refuses to wear one. Equally he doesn’t have to have sex with you if you demand he wears one.
So it’s odd that everyone is making demands of each other in what should be a committed and open and understanding relationship, secretly or otherwise. Because ultimately do as you wish, and then just state your boundaries. You’re on the pill. If he wants sex, he has to wear one.
She might no longer notice the smell after birth, but after birth you will have a newborn.
Google the shit out of second hand smoke, smoke residue on skin and clothes, newborns, children and so on. Then make a decision.
Cut. Run. No contact. People like that can be dangerous.
You opened the relationship. He wants to close it, unless you close it you get a divorce. Why? Because opening it requires consent, so if one partner wants to close it, you close it or divorce.
Congratulations, you have a husband who now learns he is nothing to you sexually. Either drop him like you should or close it.
I don't even understand this world anymore.
Please don't use function labels. The description I gave you is modern and correct to use. There are updated guidelines for diagnosing Autism, and this could still be Autism with your description of him.
Low support needs doesn't mean what you assume.
I’m telling you, I would ask a question about themselves, do cold reads, make a comment about something they are interested in or make an observation about them, nothing off-putting at all, and sometimes I still don’t get a response. Literally doesn’t make sense