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Weight fluctuates and if she was 120 at 19 years old she’s gonna weigh more at 23, that’s how it is. Sure working out could help but that’s not your choice to make for her. She’s not letting this be up for discussion bc you are forcing the discussion down a certain path to get your way. Have you ever considered that she likes her weight? That you are making her more insecure when you comment and make lame attempts to get her to the gym (not fooling anyone on that one btw) this was never about her being “healthy” you just want that 120 pound girl you fell in love with, love her as she is or let her go.
People change their minds about all kinds of random shit. Is it also horrible to not disclose you had surgery to fix a broken leg or that you don’t like your dad??
You get to disclose your private information when you feel comfortable
Im 24 and shes 25 I dont know how to handle the situation or how to tell her that he might want more. When i asked her if he made a move when she stayed over she told me he was very respectufl. He was sitting on one end on the couch ans she was on the other
It's pretty standard for people quitting other substances to have smoking as a lingering last one. Don't compromise your sobriety with a pressured timeline. Literally everyone knows smoking is unhealthy so you don't need that repeated, but a cigarette doesn't make someone act like an ass or make it unsafe for them to drive. You're doing great
You trust her but not really because you know how these places are? Instead of imagining guy’s grinding on her, imagine her dancing with her girls since, you know, that’s what she said she was going to do, and you trust her. Right?
He sounds like me. I rarely make friends at work because my work ethic doesn't align with my co-workers. I don't busy my ass to make other people look bad, I just care about the quality of work I do, and it's often perceived as me being a suck ass. I also don't share details about my personal life to anyone I work with because I don't feel that is any of their buisness.
The key difference is I don't give a flying fuck what any of them think about me. I'm a private person, and the only people's opinions I value in the slightest happen to live under the same roof. My family is everything I need as far as human interaction is concerned. My wife and kids know I love the shit out of them, and in turn, they love me the same, and that fact makes me the happiest mother fucker you'll meet.
Y'all need to stop giving a fuck about everyone else and focus on each other.
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Weight fluctuates and if she was 120 at 19 years old she’s gonna weigh more at 23, that’s how it is. Sure working out could help but that’s not your choice to make for her. She’s not letting this be up for discussion bc you are forcing the discussion down a certain path to get your way. Have you ever considered that she likes her weight? That you are making her more insecure when you comment and make lame attempts to get her to the gym (not fooling anyone on that one btw) this was never about her being “healthy” you just want that 120 pound girl you fell in love with, love her as she is or let her go.
Typical deflection. You deserve better, please don't stay with him.
People change their minds about all kinds of random shit. Is it also horrible to not disclose you had surgery to fix a broken leg or that you don’t like your dad??
You get to disclose your private information when you feel comfortable
Im 24 and shes 25 I dont know how to handle the situation or how to tell her that he might want more. When i asked her if he made a move when she stayed over she told me he was very respectufl. He was sitting on one end on the couch ans she was on the other
It's pretty standard for people quitting other substances to have smoking as a lingering last one. Don't compromise your sobriety with a pressured timeline. Literally everyone knows smoking is unhealthy so you don't need that repeated, but a cigarette doesn't make someone act like an ass or make it unsafe for them to drive. You're doing great
You trust her but not really because you know how these places are? Instead of imagining guy’s grinding on her, imagine her dancing with her girls since, you know, that’s what she said she was going to do, and you trust her. Right?
Honestly, your username is the only thing that checks out here. Throwaway parent indeed.
He sounds like me. I rarely make friends at work because my work ethic doesn't align with my co-workers. I don't busy my ass to make other people look bad, I just care about the quality of work I do, and it's often perceived as me being a suck ass. I also don't share details about my personal life to anyone I work with because I don't feel that is any of their buisness.
The key difference is I don't give a flying fuck what any of them think about me. I'm a private person, and the only people's opinions I value in the slightest happen to live under the same roof. My family is everything I need as far as human interaction is concerned. My wife and kids know I love the shit out of them, and in turn, they love me the same, and that fact makes me the happiest mother fucker you'll meet.
Y'all need to stop giving a fuck about everyone else and focus on each other.