Yeahhh you may be right! Idk why I never thought about seeking therapy for this. After a simple Google I learned it may have come from my helicopter parents. Which totally makes sense. Guess I have alot to learn about myself.
I definitely don’t want to be with someone like that. But I also don’t want to rush or pressure this person in any way just because I’m insecure and need a response. I will give it a few more days like you said until a week passed and will make my decision based off of that. Thank you so much 🙂
None of them are his exs. Ive seen him look them up but didnt care but theyre not part of the bunch he looks up a lot. A few he has had their numbers but not sure of their history. The one is a senior that goes to the highschool he went to. But the one he looks up most he met a few months ago. But the story with this specific one was that he asked for her number at the gym and was texting her like she was single. I obviously confronted him and he said he did that on purpose to trap me because he had told me to stop going on his phone. He ended up deleting her number. But now he's constantly looking her up.
Well I can see why he has so many ex's as he is an abusive AH. You should leave, preferably whe nhe is not home and with the help of some friends. Tell him it's over and to not contact you again. Then block him and send the friend this post, because you don't deserve this and he is a useless man child.
Your children do not have a stable home with a withdrawn mother and depressed father. One thing you need to do is grow a backbone and tell your husband that the current state of your marriage is all his doing. Ask him how he would feel if the roles were reversed while you’re at it. I doubt he’d be ok with you sleeping with another man.
If you really don’t want to divorce then you need to get yourself into therapy. Your children will notice the changes dynamic between their parents and will think it is normal.
This guy should run for the hills. His wife of three months is asking for side dick. Hopefully he can get an annulment instead of a divorce but a divorce in this case is just as effective.
Obviously that’s the issue. How stupid do you think I am? At the end of the day, it’s his thing to handle, I know. I cannot fix his brain for him. But if I cannot leave then I will have to deal with it too. Is that so hot to understand?
She’s clearly using you OP. Grow a backbone and have some self respect!
XD okay bud.
Yeahhh you may be right! Idk why I never thought about seeking therapy for this. After a simple Google I learned it may have come from my helicopter parents. Which totally makes sense. Guess I have alot to learn about myself.
I definitely don’t want to be with someone like that. But I also don’t want to rush or pressure this person in any way just because I’m insecure and need a response. I will give it a few more days like you said until a week passed and will make my decision based off of that. Thank you so much 🙂
None of them are his exs. Ive seen him look them up but didnt care but theyre not part of the bunch he looks up a lot. A few he has had their numbers but not sure of their history. The one is a senior that goes to the highschool he went to. But the one he looks up most he met a few months ago. But the story with this specific one was that he asked for her number at the gym and was texting her like she was single. I obviously confronted him and he said he did that on purpose to trap me because he had told me to stop going on his phone. He ended up deleting her number. But now he's constantly looking her up.
I think you have a sex addiction
Well I can see why he has so many ex's as he is an abusive AH. You should leave, preferably whe nhe is not home and with the help of some friends. Tell him it's over and to not contact you again. Then block him and send the friend this post, because you don't deserve this and he is a useless man child.
Don't forget to redirect your mail!
She probably just let a coworker borrow her watch that day
Your children do not have a stable home with a withdrawn mother and depressed father. One thing you need to do is grow a backbone and tell your husband that the current state of your marriage is all his doing. Ask him how he would feel if the roles were reversed while you’re at it. I doubt he’d be ok with you sleeping with another man.
If you really don’t want to divorce then you need to get yourself into therapy. Your children will notice the changes dynamic between their parents and will think it is normal.
It means you need to work through your anxiety before you try a relationship
This guy should run for the hills. His wife of three months is asking for side dick. Hopefully he can get an annulment instead of a divorce but a divorce in this case is just as effective.
Obviously that’s the issue. How stupid do you think I am? At the end of the day, it’s his thing to handle, I know. I cannot fix his brain for him. But if I cannot leave then I will have to deal with it too. Is that so hot to understand?