i know that he sends huge amounts of money to his family (his parents, aunts, siblings). at first i admired this about him bc i was thinking „wooow he is helping them.. he is generous“ blah blah. he also told me that after we get married, he would start saving money (for our future) and stop giving it all away. he occasionally “treats” himself by buying something for himself (which is normal). but i don’t think it’s normal that i’m paying everything on my own
I don’t orgasm from sex either. Yes, most men get a bit upset/offended when they realise but they just need to get over it. All women are different, our bodies are different and it doesn’t mean we enjoy sex any less! We shouldn’t have to fake anything to protect their ego.
Very dangerous to do so and please stop using apps while you don't even know how to protect yourself!!!! Human trafficking is real and you don't even know the guy!!! You should be more in the reality!!!! Stop romanticising situations in your head!!!!
Lol do you realize where her debt is from? It is likely from her education. The “best” kind to debt to have. She could easily wipe it out w savings, but she likely is making more in savings than the interest on the debt, so it’s still a better call to keep the savings and pay off the debt over time.
We need better sex education in schools. What did either of you think was going to happen? He is responsible for helping raise his child if you should keep it. You need to tell him. There is no way to sugarcoat it
i know that he sends huge amounts of money to his family (his parents, aunts, siblings). at first i admired this about him bc i was thinking „wooow he is helping them.. he is generous“ blah blah. he also told me that after we get married, he would start saving money (for our future) and stop giving it all away. he occasionally “treats” himself by buying something for himself (which is normal). but i don’t think it’s normal that i’m paying everything on my own
I don’t orgasm from sex either. Yes, most men get a bit upset/offended when they realise but they just need to get over it. All women are different, our bodies are different and it doesn’t mean we enjoy sex any less! We shouldn’t have to fake anything to protect their ego.
Very dangerous to do so and please stop using apps while you don't even know how to protect yourself!!!! Human trafficking is real and you don't even know the guy!!! You should be more in the reality!!!! Stop romanticising situations in your head!!!!
thank you ?. I actually talked to a mutual friend about this… well two… and without even talking badly about them i explained the situation.
Its shitty being talked bad about especially if you did nothing wrong
Jfc it's been a year and a half. Calm down.
Lol do you realize where her debt is from? It is likely from her education. The “best” kind to debt to have. She could easily wipe it out w savings, but she likely is making more in savings than the interest on the debt, so it’s still a better call to keep the savings and pay off the debt over time.
We need better sex education in schools. What did either of you think was going to happen? He is responsible for helping raise his child if you should keep it. You need to tell him. There is no way to sugarcoat it
He insulted her genitals and he didn’t think she would react badly? Are all men that dumb or