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Date: October 29, 2022
This shouldn’t even be a question ?it’s literally funny that this is up for conversation lol
I would advise to not follow advice. No point in following your brain or logic either if you feel you won’t last anyway. Might as well follow your heart. So my advice is to listen to yourself, not others. Good luck ?.
Just another voice of reason here saying throw the whole man out. Being alone is better than being with garbage.
I really hope you work on your self-esteem and find ways to love yourself. Then if a man ever DARES to shove his pathetic cock in the direction of your exquisite, radiant face, you’ll rightly feel appalled at the lack of respect and won’t even think twice about ghosting his loser ass.
Dude, what more do you want? She's not interested. Give it up.
Love is when two people choose each other over everyone else. You’re still a child. It’s ok if you don’t want to choose this person anymore. For whatever reason.
???♀️? stupidity. Pure stupidity
At a time when it’s not a Big Thing, but also very soon, I think you need to say something to her like the following: Christmas and all of its trappings is my absolute favorite time of year and I want to share that with you. I feel really sad that the house and aren’t fully decorated. Basically, I’d be happiest if the whole place looked like the Griswold’s. Christmas is so soon now, I’m not sure we’d be able to accomplish all of that, but can we talk about what we can reasonably do?”
In saying it this way, you’ve made no accusations. You’ve asked for her help.
The other way to do it would be: I’d like to work on getting Christmas set up. I’m thinking I’ll spend a few hours each day this weekend making it happen. I’d love for you to join in. Does that sound like something you’d like?
In saying it this way, you’re not especially inviting discussion. Rather, you’re saying what you’re going to do and inviting her join you. Then, you should go and do what you want. I know it won’t be as joyful as you want, but…..
…..but I also think she may be depressed. Plopping, scrolling, tired. After the holidays, I do think you should gently bring this up with her. “I’ve been noticing…..”
People do tend to get defensive and turn things around to themselves. If she does this, you can say, “I’m glad to talk about those things, but I’m really just wanting to focus on Christmas right now. Is that ok?”
One thing you could also think about doing is asking a friend over to help out up those decorations. It will definitely be more fun with someone else.
Crank up that music, make the best of things, try not to judge your Mrs too harshly – especially if you agree that she might be depressed.
Merry Christmas, friend!
I forgot to clarify that when I was 21 and cheated I didn’t have sex, it was foreplay. I couldn’t actually bring myself to sleep with the other person. I know it doesn’t make any of it better.
I mean at this point I can't do anything much ofoe then sitting home. I have family that keeps me in the house I got no friends I'd be going out way more if I were with him lol he travels way more then my family dose and plans on doing it more as well in the 'ewt coming years. Which is also what I want. I want to travel. He's also seems willing and super open to me being polyamorous and working with that which is amazing . But what other “old Man shit “could I be looking past? He honestly seems to check off all my boxes when it comes to dating First.
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It doesn’t matter if he pays for it. You don’t need to let anyone into your apartment. Call the police if someone comes to your door.
Are you able to pay for this apartment without your dads money?
Why would you want him back? He’s so toxic you need to stay away from him, get a therapist and work on you because you will continue to attract toxic AH like him otherwise. Why in the world would you pay him to sleep with him? That’s is some serious desperation
Sooo…why haven't you dumped him yet?
Go back to your house. Let her file whatever she wants, that means she has to pay the fees. Do not let this woman bully you out of your home OMG why are u letting her dictate anything
If you want him (or other man in the future) to love you, you need to know the first love lenguage rule…..you need to love yourself first, because love is a two way street and if you dont know to love you, you cant love others
became a safe person to love, a you will be loved, but work on yourself and traumas that you said you have and your world will be running his course naturally
good luck my friend
It's good if you haven't. But you've clearly decided that she's not worth the effort to fix and moved right to things being over because she's not herself anymore. So no, cheating's not outside the realm of what men with your perspective will do.
If you actually love her, then put the work in and value her as a human.
Your entire post completely devalued her and reduces her to being the sum of her parts and what she does in your household, not who she is.
A loving spouse would be concerned about their partner, not considering leaving after 15 years because their partner is suffering after trauma, loss, illness, chronic pain, and having to be the sole caregiver to 4 children and expected to manage a household while suffering.
This is going to sound harsh but you need to get your head out of your ass. Your boyfriend who’s over a decade older than you is trying to manipulate and coerce you into buying a gun for him. A man who the government for whatever reason decided is not legally allowed to have. He then throws a tantrum (even though he’s a fully grown man) because you won’t allow him to manipulate you
You need to fucking leave. Seriously. Open your eyes. This is toxic and dangerous
it's only 6 months in. it sucks he didn't put the effort knowing you wanted to go as well but, he was also INVITED BY HIS FRIEND. a friend you have only met 3 times. if the friend wanted to include you, they probably would have. maybe they didn't invite you because they didn't know you liked the same artist. maybe they really didn't want to be a third wheel. maybe they just didn't think it would be a huge deal. to say you're going to cheat on him over a fucking concert is so low and petty. break up if this is your go to thinking whenever you don't get your way. unhealthy and not fair to the bf at all. you can easily get past this, I'm sure this isn't the only concert the artist is going to have.
His view of your value is based on what's been in your vagina. That's an incredibly unhealthy attitude from him.
I think you first of all you need to let him know how much what he said impacted him. You need to explain to him that you aren't just an object that exists to pleasure him. You're a person, with your own feelings and needs. You're not going to your whole life based on his adolescent urges, and if he doesn't understand that, perhaps he's not mature enough to be in a relationship.
No, I brought up them having a good time because I didn't expect that when someone invades the privacy of you and your loved one that you would turn around and laugh and have a good time. It just spoke towards the way in which it was being taken seriously, or not so much. Resentment is building up because my boundaries are not being respected it has nothing to do with jealously. I'm sorry it doesn't. I have felt jealousy before. It's not that.
For the record cowboy boots have heels. Her reaction was ridiculous considering the type of masculine boots you were referring to. I think she is afraid that you are a cross dresser or wanting to be feminine. I think she is likely very much not attracted to those types of men but the extreme way she took it tells me her homophobia is showing. I would probably end it with her.
This was written by a 14 year old dude has never seen a pair tits outside of tv and his moms
For real, Cali here too. At least we still have the right to defend ourselves
For real, Cali here too. At least we still have the right to defend ourselves
Don’t joke about it, talk to him straight about what you want.
Just going off of what you posted and without going into whether or not the “traditional” gender roles in a relationship are a good thing or not, I'd say the biggest problem you're facing in your relationship is poor communication from the both of you.
One of the biggest signs for me that my wife was “the one” early on was noticing that we both communicated very well and in ways that we were both receptive. We just knew how and when to talk to each other about any issue we were having. Granted, we were both in our mid 30's when we met and started dating so we had loads of experience and countless bad relationships in our past to gain that experience from.
Something I strive to do and ask my wife to do as well is to just talk to me if something I did or didn't do is bothering her. NOT to keep it bottled up to the point you feel like you're going to explode. It sounds like you BOTH kept these issues to yourself until you were fed up enough to write a long message. In my opinion, that's not okay and usually the worst way to resolve an issue.
Communication in a relationship does not just mean being able to express how YOU'RE feeling but how to respectfully receive what your PARTNER is saying.
These communication skills can be the best way to build a strong foundation to build ANY type of relationship on be it one with traditional gender rolls or non-traditional gender rolls.
You both need to communicate in a civil manner what each of your expectations are on the roles, responsibilities, desires, and needs in your marriage then discuss how each of you feel about fulfilling those roles and responsibilities.
My wife and I have had our fair share of problems in our relationship but we've made it though all of them because of communication and respect.
Does he maybe have some other issue you don’t know about? Arguing, throwing things, hating step parents are normal for a teen in this situation. Not good, but not out of the norm. But if he actually tried to fight/hurt her for asking him to put his shoes on, and that is what absolutely happened, that doesn’t sound completely normal to me. Has he shown any anger issues before? Maybe he needs anger management. Maybe he needs more therapy. Maybe he needs an evaluation by a child psychologist. People here can tell you all day to tell him you love him and spend time with him but no one knows if there is some other underlying problem. Sounds like you do spend time with him, and you did try therapy once. Clearly there’s something you’re missing. Maybe he thought you’d get back with his mother so he resents your wife and has some anger issues. I don’t know, none of us do. But just giving up your rights to your minor child is about the shittiest thing you could do.
It’s just a person being a lazy PoS in most case
I’m straight non monogamous, I laugh when I see these people twist themselves in knots trying to eliminate access to anyone their partner might find more attractive, or god forbid, just a little attractive.
I was never that guy, but I’ve been with partners that were like that, it’s exhausting, and does t work.
As someone who always questions if I really have friends it’s nice to know apparently only twins do
Thank you so much. I had the talk with my boyfriend and I think I’ll not speak to her about it. Generally she likes everyone’s attention and she wanted that. He could see her efforts (she would cook for him) and she would constantly put me down in front of him (i never lose things but this once i couldn’t find my keys and she said ‘for the millionth time? why do you keep losing things?’ and i never lose things! the keys were in my bag but it tore and it was hidden behind a layer in the end) but he didn’t tell me so that it doesn’t damage my relationship with her and promised me he’d tell me if she does something out of the line. Either way they’re not going to interact anymore except greetings.