I remember being a trainee secretary and during lunch breaks one worker would always be jerking it to porn. I was 15. He got fired because it wasn’t the first time he’d been caught doing that on company property.
Your boyfriend is making a lot of excuses for being disgusting. Why can’t he respect boundaries? Also I’d be a bit annoyed if my partner openly admits he thinks of other people during sex to finish.
Sweetie, I’m sorry, but if you’ve been together for 8 years and he isn’t saying that he can’t wait to marry you, then he is never going to marry you. And if you are desperate to marry him while your mother is still alive to attend, but you also don’t want to have a wedding when “it’s too hot”, then you don’t really want to marry him.
It sucks to invest 8 years of your life in someone, only to discover that you aren’t actually thrilled by the idea of spending the rest of your lives together. But it’s possible that this relationship has run its course. You both deserve to be with someone that you enthusiastically choose every day, not just someone that you’re settling for.
Get life insurance Talk to law enforcement as that is attempted murder.
What the fuck is there to be conflicted about? She has committed financial infidelity who knows what else?
I remember being a trainee secretary and during lunch breaks one worker would always be jerking it to porn. I was 15. He got fired because it wasn’t the first time he’d been caught doing that on company property.
Your boyfriend is making a lot of excuses for being disgusting. Why can’t he respect boundaries? Also I’d be a bit annoyed if my partner openly admits he thinks of other people during sex to finish.
Sweetie, I’m sorry, but if you’ve been together for 8 years and he isn’t saying that he can’t wait to marry you, then he is never going to marry you. And if you are desperate to marry him while your mother is still alive to attend, but you also don’t want to have a wedding when “it’s too hot”, then you don’t really want to marry him.
It sucks to invest 8 years of your life in someone, only to discover that you aren’t actually thrilled by the idea of spending the rest of your lives together. But it’s possible that this relationship has run its course. You both deserve to be with someone that you enthusiastically choose every day, not just someone that you’re settling for.
Well, you didn't exactly put a question there, just stated something that happened and some minimum backstory details.
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