This is a bullet dodged. She was so easily swayed by the opinions of coworkers, I know it would take just a little bit of pushing by the right guy for her to cheat too.
Did she believe her coworkers were right? She said no. I then followed up with WHY? She said again she did not know
She’s easily influenced AND she’s an airhead. You didn’t lose much OP, leave her in the trash where she belongs.
My boyfriend would be out the door if I acted this way. I know he wouldn’t put up with it. Getting upset to that extent over a hypothetical question she made up in her mind is pretty sick. I can tell you from personal experience that this is mental illness. She really needs to see a professional to get a grip on reality. It can only get worse because she’ll get used to being forgiven. One day you’ll tell her you want to break up and she’ll tell you she’s going to unalive herself to make you stay. Tiktok is full of stories and vids showing the scorned woman breaking everything in the house, destroying cars, etc. sounds extreme, right? I’m getting the strong sense that she’s trouble. Just my opinion. Best of luck.
The answer is always always always choose your damn pets who you're responsible over, over partners who can take care of themselves and don't view you as their entire world (this type of question is posted frequently)
With that said, my partner's cat is an asshole to my cat. He has 2, my cat and his other cat get along well. His asshole cat.. he's injured her twice, scratched her eye which resulted in a vet visit and antibiotics, and bit her mouth which healed well without a vet visit, thankfully. We keep them separated, I would never threaten his cat like your partner has yours. It may piss me off and hurt my heart (for her/my cat) but I wouldn't want to see his cat homeless or without the only human he's known his entire life. If we leave the house, one of them goes behind a closed door with food, water & a litterbox and they only free roam together when one or both of us are home and alert and can keep an eye out.
I would move out with my cat before I would ever make him get rid of his cat. I may call his cat an asshole but I still love him! (Our cats have been blended for a year, no improvement, we are now looking into other options but the vet is booked for months… was thinking Prozac or similar for his cat ?♀️)
No it's absolutely not stupid to end your relationship over this. If that's how my partner acted toward my cat I'd be GONE. And I'd 100% understand him telling me to leave and/or breaking up with me if I made the threats your partner has.. actually, I'd hope he would, pets are family and that's a pretty good indicator on whether or not you're even compatible
He said he wants to focus on his studies
Please have some self-respect and move on. Come on.
This is a bullet dodged. She was so easily swayed by the opinions of coworkers, I know it would take just a little bit of pushing by the right guy for her to cheat too.
Did she believe her coworkers were right? She said no. I then followed up with WHY? She said again she did not know
She’s easily influenced AND she’s an airhead. You didn’t lose much OP, leave her in the trash where she belongs.
As soon as she or her AFP figure out how to delete the GPS tracking, she'll be back to cheating again.
She is angry that he checked up on her again and says she shouldn’t have to feel spied on.
Why didn't she tell her husband she needed to go there for that, why did she hide the fact?
My boyfriend would be out the door if I acted this way. I know he wouldn’t put up with it. Getting upset to that extent over a hypothetical question she made up in her mind is pretty sick. I can tell you from personal experience that this is mental illness. She really needs to see a professional to get a grip on reality. It can only get worse because she’ll get used to being forgiven. One day you’ll tell her you want to break up and she’ll tell you she’s going to unalive herself to make you stay. Tiktok is full of stories and vids showing the scorned woman breaking everything in the house, destroying cars, etc. sounds extreme, right? I’m getting the strong sense that she’s trouble. Just my opinion. Best of luck.
No, I'd be dead. My therapist told me to go on SSRIs after I described the physical pain of seeing happy people, and I fucking listened.
The answer is always always always choose your damn pets who you're responsible over, over partners who can take care of themselves and don't view you as their entire world (this type of question is posted frequently)
With that said, my partner's cat is an asshole to my cat. He has 2, my cat and his other cat get along well. His asshole cat.. he's injured her twice, scratched her eye which resulted in a vet visit and antibiotics, and bit her mouth which healed well without a vet visit, thankfully. We keep them separated, I would never threaten his cat like your partner has yours. It may piss me off and hurt my heart (for her/my cat) but I wouldn't want to see his cat homeless or without the only human he's known his entire life. If we leave the house, one of them goes behind a closed door with food, water & a litterbox and they only free roam together when one or both of us are home and alert and can keep an eye out.
I would move out with my cat before I would ever make him get rid of his cat. I may call his cat an asshole but I still love him! (Our cats have been blended for a year, no improvement, we are now looking into other options but the vet is booked for months… was thinking Prozac or similar for his cat ?♀️)
No it's absolutely not stupid to end your relationship over this. If that's how my partner acted toward my cat I'd be GONE. And I'd 100% understand him telling me to leave and/or breaking up with me if I made the threats your partner has.. actually, I'd hope he would, pets are family and that's a pretty good indicator on whether or not you're even compatible