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Make me wet dear^^ [959 tokens remaining]
Date: September 30, 2022
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Make me wet dear^^ [959 tokens remaining]
She needs a nightlight and conversation with her doctor — it’s unfair for her to attempt to disrupt your sleep then get angry at you for being a heavy sleeper.
This is insane.
So you slept with her the past 2 nights? Or different people?
Just to clarify I wasn't saying she cheated, she didn't, my point was that even though It might not bring out anything good it's best to be honest about this. I agree with the secrecy and privacy point, I just think this falls in a grey area between the two.
Unfortunately not. I would actually recommend being blunt in this situation anyway so there’s no miscommunication.
can practically read peoples mind
Not really though. The whole micro-expression thing is a fun myth, perpetuated, quite entertainingly by Tim Roth in “Lie to Me.” Fun series, but it is bollocks. Money on she's read what she thinks as displeasure where in reality the other person is just trying to hold a fart in.
She may be good with reading your mood, lots of partners are. So she can take you to a thing she KNOWS you don't like then pretend to read your micro-expressions “OMG, can't believe you acted so bored” when in reality, you didn't, she just knew you'd be bored because she knows you. So she makes shit up.
“I get insulted again and again”
Which is a shit thing for a partner to do. She can hide behind this faux magical mind reading “extreme sensitivity” nonsense but it's largely bollocks. Betazoids only exist in Star Trek.
“I often struggle to read many signals coming from her”
Because people who think they have magic powers think they are making their feelings clear yet in reality they're just rubbish at expressing themselves.
Intuition is a thing, and in relationships, it comes from just understanding your partner and mostly just paying attention. I can generally tell when my Mum is going to get pissed off in a situation, even before she's pissed off, because I know what pisses her off. It's not a magic power or anything to do with “extreme sensitivity.”
She's using this a stick to beat you with and it's hot not to view it as either delusion on her part or some form of one-upmanship.
You know how to get passed it.
Leave
This man is dangerous and untrustworthy. Get away from him
Ask her if she’s be down, but not in the moment when there’s pressure. Maybe it’s good pillow talk the next time you have sex, she feels wanted and loved and there’s no pressure or wanting anything of her in the moment. Let her guide you to what would turn her on to it.
I’m sure you also know, lots of us have sex lives while our partners are on their period. I’m not sure who thinks that’s a show stopper, but maybe it’s worth talking about, some women are hornier during that part of their cycle.
Nobody deserves to be treated like that and it's really not cool for him to be critiquing everything you do, yelling at you daily, and calling you disgusting names.
And it's definitely not your fault that he's acting this way. It's not cool that he's trying to blame you for everything and take no responsibility for his actions. He's trying to manipulate you and it's not cool. This kind of relationship is toxic and you deserve way better.
You did the right thing by leaving the restaurant, don't let him make you feel guilty for it. Stand up for yourself and don't let him make you feel crazy or like it's all your fault. You deserve respect and kindness, not abuse. I would say, if you want to give him a chance to change and he seek professional help in order to work on his anger. But if he doesn't want to, it would be best to cut him loose.
Omg, I just read this after I posted a response. I can’t believe he’d be happy for you to go through the trauma of an abortion and all it’s possible complications just because he doesn’t want to wear a condom. I’m even more disgusted.
This is not a nice person op, please dump him. There are many much nicer men out there who will respect you
I wonder where in the marriage you are letting her down. Are you there for her emotionally? Do you do at least half of all the household chores/child-rearing? Do you make her feel safe and secure? Are you listening to her in the bedroom? Do you satisfy her sexually?
Lol no, we have zero reason to lie to you on an anonymous internet forum.
Your bf is the odd one out.
I can say with 100% confidence that you will have no trouble finding a man who does not beat his meat in the workplace and complain about 2 or 3x a week being too much sex.
So if not in bars where?
It sounds like that because of what OP said she said in the post, not because of her situation. Source: am a single mum, I don’t want to settle down with someone until my kid is older and won’t be as affected by me moving someone new into her life.
Dude's a mental child, leave asap
Dude, you already posted about her here months ago when both of you hooked up with each other's besties after a breakup.
Your trust in each other was already toast. She got caught. This is a toxic ass relationship you need to move on from.
There's a good chance he never really did this out of the kindness of his heart. I know that doesn't help you now but it might in the long run to understand he may never have just wanted to be your friend.
You don't want a friend like this anyway.
Regardless, you have nothing to be sorry about. You can ask him why he can't just be your friend but some guys simply cannot be friends with women. They never learned how.
For what it's worth distancing from you is probably for the best. I hope he doesn't feel as if you owe him anything because you don't owe him a relationship.
Just try not to suck off any more of his friends on the way to meet him
I find arguments about 2 different things excessive and draining.
1) address her concerns: apologize for not calling and say you thought she was busy and you had heavy news that day. Apologize for assuming you both had agreed to your coming the following weekend and reiterate that timing is tough and x, y, z dates work better for your schedule for a, b, c reasons. Hear her talk after, then ask what communication style would she like better next time. This should take 5 minutes since it’s literally just a miscommunication error.
THEN, because this is a much bigger discussion, say you have an issue from the conversation that you want to discuss. And bring up how she made you feel by not really caring about your mom’s diagnosis and instead focused on herself. Imo, the conversation about other shit should have ended the minute you brought that up.
Hear what she has to say. If she gets defensive, tell her that you expected more empathy since you’re feeling x, y, z feelings about it.
Say that’s great, there’s this really cute girl at work. If she’s still ok with it, she’s probably already cheating on you.
That’s a damn lie lol
You aren't in love if you're not even in a relationship, you're just infatuated and should fuck off.