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You are correct. Also everyone had lost their phones by the time I arrived. After I removed BIL, MIL nursed FIL back to health, and to my surprise, did not go check on her son at the hospital. In that moment she had had enough.
When I stopped by on my way home to check on them they told me the whole chain of events plus the warning signs. I’ve left quite a bit out. That night MIL chose her husband.
Unfortunately, after about 24 hours she went into damage control mode to protect her baby boy.
Do you online together? And who pays most of the bills? Assuming you since you said she has a student job. If you can live without her then do so. Consider it a small break up and let her be her. If she isn't going tl take your relationship seriously then you shouldn't do real world favors for it either. Because its nice and all to have someone do you favors and flirt with you, but its a whole lotta can whopping to foot the bill for said person.
I want to play devil's advocate here.
I just had this happen where my currents ex messaged me saying all sorts of shit. Well she had texts to prove my SO was right, and the ex was just basically pissed he couldn't control her anymore.
Then also had her child's father try to say shit (they've been separated over six years) because he's lonely and was pissed she found someone a few months after her breakup, and he's been single for awhile.
I'd ask for proof or conversations, because in my situation my SO had all the proof. While none of the jaded exes did.
That’s literally not possible
For fucking gods sake he isn’t doing it anymore and I’m ASKING FOR ADBICE ON SETTING THE BOUNDARY, proactively WANTING TO NOT LET HIM WALK ALL OVER ME. Y’all are fucking insufferable.
He over promises things and comes up with excuses most of the times.
Yes, that's redirection, guilting, and gaslighting. The three pillars of a cheater. If she hasn't already she is open to it and it will happen eventually.
Good luck.
I don't think Boomer necessarily just means in relation to age or when you were born anymore. It seems to be a mindset of someone stuck in a moronic way of thought.
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This, coming for someone whose had a hoarder mother her whole life
Wait and see how much the first one costs you ?♀️ it’s all very well planning but rarely anything ever goes to plan. What will be will be. Just enjoy getting married etc and let things happen naturally.
Tell her to be sure to use condoms and watch her reaction
Trust about cheating is one thing. Trust about whether she'll be there for your child when she's supposed to is another. Personally I feel like this is a bridge too far. She didn't just forget, she actively ignored your calls knowing your kid was stuck at school and went about doing what she wanted. That's not the kind of person to have a life with even if you could get past the cheating.
??? same thing popped into my head
Thank you for your input! And Ofcourse I would be happy with any gender.
Same for us, we were only romantically involved and it was that way until I was sixteen.
this is the dumbest comment. you online in a world where no one has ever heard of “compromise”.
You are not obligated to air your family's dirty laundry to your girlfriend.
She started crying
She lashed out and started yelling
She yelled
Unacceptable. I wouldn't tolerate this dramatic bullshit.
I wouldn't have done what you did but I think her reaction was extreme
The material you use is made for children,
People under pressure reveal their true selves, and you can imagine their reaction when you face tough patches in your relationship.
If he gets his feelings hurt over you not liking a TV show, you have bigger problems. And feeling bad because he finished watching your favorite show is just dumb. Relationships aren’t a tit-for-tat situation. Grow up and have your own likes and dislikes. You two don’t have to share everything. What you have described is just really unhealthy enmeshment.
Try couples counseling. You need to get on the same page sexually or don't get married. It will only get worse.
What are your feelings about raising someone's baby? Does the bio dad pay child support or has given up his rights?
Will you be all right knowing she might not love you but need you to help support the baby? That if without the baby, she would not have given you the second thought and still be with the other guy?
Yea..no. If she wants relationship sex…she needs to be in a relationship. She's fucking with your head cuz she's confused.
Everyone is bashing you for telling him but why isn't anyone bashing him for asking stupid questions when he didn't really want to hear the truthful answer?
This view of cheating as never understandable and totally unreasonable seems hella archaic to me. Sure its shit, but people are shit and they lack courage therefore cheating.
Cheating can mean a whole host of things, and it can happen for a whole bunch of reasons. Its a manifestation of the desire not to be in the relationship or with the person and there are endless reasons for that.
Its hella immature to keep thinking other peoples relationships have some kind of predictive element for yours. Don't we all have friends who got divorced for the most random reason – wouldn't we be nuts to be so caught up in that happening in our relationship? Bad relationships aren't contagious. I know people that got divorced because the husband never put things away, do you think my partner wants me to condemn his slobbishness or my friends fickleness to feel safe?
People are just out here with their insecurities pretending its rational, fair, moral behaviour. If someone is going to cheat you can't stop them. Maybe you can put enough effort into the relationship that it doesn't deteriorate, or you can at least notice when things are going wrong. No one gets to be a hundred percent sure in relationships, theyre a whole other person, who is unknowable! You don't get to just opt out of the radical uncertainty of that. If you can't handle that relationships aren't an option. You want a doll or an object.
But why do you need to condemn your friends irrelevant life choices for the sake of your partners security. If your partner is threatened that has to do with the three of you, and has nothing to do with your friend cheating. And it could be rational for your partner to be threatened, but urghhhh I wish people would stop pretending blaming cheating gets them off the hook of examining their own flaws and insecurities.
I have never seen cheating in a relationship that was going to go the distance. Its not a relationship killer, its a sign its dead, or that it was never really that healthy.
That's where I'd be. Just mildly upset bc other people sleeping in my bed icks me out. I would absolutely wash the sheets, but my BIL's distress would probably be my main focus.
Maybe she's sleeps in the hot? Lol yeah they need to sit down and talk kinda crazy
People have many different ways of reacting to loss.
Yours is this.
My phone's wallpaper is still of my cat who died back in 2020.
Your feelings are valid. Keep up with the therapy.
I feel like I get the comfort of being with a partner that I know is extraordinarily loyal. My previous relationship ended with me figuring out that my partner was cheating on me, so this has healed my insecurities as I know for a fact how she feels about me and trust her. Though a basic component of a relationship, I find her loyalty to be the best thing I get out of the relationship. Even that can be flawed given we spend much more time helping heal her, than trying to better the me in any sort of aspect.
She's also taught me to be a much more patient person, though some days I'm tested because I decide to separate myself in the name of mental health but I make my intentions clear.
Physical attraction is also something I find important and we def share similar desires on that front, which is a bonus that I do find to be special.
People do dumb shit sometimes idk
Girl break up with him, you aren't 17. You're 27. Stop putting up with this bullshit.
If it has been 3 years and you can't move on you go to therapy, you don't start a fake profile and reengage. Delete and block everywhere
Go to therapy. What you are doing up until now isn't working. It's the only way through & you deserve to move on, but you are currently trapped in a loop.
Yeh I think maybe it’s that, as he has had this in the past.
Whether an age gap relationship works is entirely dependent on the personalities of the people involved and how well they fit together.
I previously was in a relationship with a man 22 years my senior for 10 years. I had a stepdaughter who was one year older than me. Although people initially regarded our relationship through a negative lens, that changed as the relationship progressed and the years added on. The relationship was loving and wonderful and I wouldn't have changed it for the world. We grew apart though as often happens in age gap relationships but we separated as good friends and still are good friends to this day.
Now I am married to a man 10 years my junior. We don't notice the age difference and he is the love of my life. We are in complete sync in regards of life values, wants and expectations and I wouldn't want to change anything here either for the world.
So no, not all age gap relationships are about manipulation or taking advantage of someone. Sometimes it is about two odd people finding compatibility and peace in one another.
My advice to you is to reserve your judgement and treat them with dignity and respect ? They might be together for a longer time than you'd expect
Correct, he matters more, clearly, and he knows it, which really kills me.
I often hear that Golden Children were as abused growing up as the scapegoat, which I agree with. However, look at them now – both mid 20s, one getting married and one graduating from med school, and still living under the shadow of their upbringing, except one is wilting and the other is happily blooming.
I've taken a turn here – I think the brother is the biggest asshole of them all. The entitlement is staggering, and much like when women open their posts by saying “my partner is amazing”, I'm rudely skeptical of this man's love for this sister he's trying to shove onto his shadow; he has no interest in sharing the spotlight, he's fully bought into being a golden boy.
I’m sorry to mention we have 1 kid together
That's not the kind of touching I was talking about. I was not trying to be explicit because I didn't want my comment removed by the mods.
Don't you need emotional connection? Attention? Understanding? At least moderate attentiveness, consideration, and so on? Of course you do. He's ignoring your requests for that. It's neglect.
Thank you for your insight!
Thank you for your insight!