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Date: October 28, 2022
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I'm worried the internet is starting to make young women view even close men as threats. Unless given a reason, normally if you're in a relationship with someone you already trust them enough to realize they won't purposely violate your boundaries. If she felt uncomfortable that's totally reasonable, that's on a couple to communicate and cross bridges as you get to them. But for her to be already dating you and feel as if she needs a bodyguard there, would feel to me that she doesn't trust you. From the comments it seems like the friend is sabotaging the relationship. No couple 20 years in is going to ask for consent before every kiss.
Isn’t that “love bombing” when someone showers you in gifts and affection? Honestly mate it sounds like she’s really not a keeper if she’s going to blow up over you saying you’re not interested in your friend… Does she want you to go back home and say “I’m sorry honey, I actually meant that I would absolutely 100% be down to clown with my friend”??? Feels like she’s trying to make out you meant something you didn’t say, which super isn’t fair.
Please look at the relationship as a whole and decide if it’s worth the emotional drain.
It isn't inherently a big or small thing. It's a big or small thing to you. No one here is going to tell you anything useful, because only you know if it's important to you. All anyone here will tell you is if it would be important to them… which is meaningless because they're not in your relationship. You are.
If it's important to you then you shouldn't feel bad about breaking up. If it's important to you, it's important to you, and you wouldn't be weird or wrong for feeling that way. If it's not important to you, you would also not be weird or wrong for feeling that way.
Depression can make you feel a lot of ways but it’s generally not okay to “go off” on someone you care for. It’s impossible to tell from your stories but it sounds like you were both being playful, she took it a little too far and you snapped. She was probably sharing it with a friend to get advice. I don’t really see that as a breech of trust but if you do then that’s a fair issue for you to discuss with her.