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MIKE ALEX EITON MAX NURA, 18 y.o.
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Date: October 8, 2022
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Who is doing the household management and how much time do you do with actual child care vs playing with them while wife cooks dinner type scenario?
Ok you should go outside. When I was 17 I had a 13 year old family friend who went to the girls school constantly ask me out and stalk me . I didn’t date her cos age and I also didn’t really like her but while people woukd of thought maybe it’s odd doubt anyone would say I was a groomer for her stalking me. Like she made my sister uncomfortable with her comments about me . It’s whatever, people are much more harsh when not in the situation. 18/15 don’t think most people woukd care
You should absolutely move on and there is no point at all whatsoever in trying to resolve the issue.
It’s one thing that there have been a lot of arguments recently in your new relationship, it’s another thing that you have both identified the root cause of the issue that’s causing the continual arguments, that being poor communication (which clearly seems to be on his part) most people in a relationship don’t even bother to drill down to find the root cause of the problem and they just let the situation get worse.
Everything is perfect up until that point of trying to solve the problem BUT WTF is he on about that he isn’t prepared to compromise and make some minor changes/adjustments??
It clearly will only require a very small change that will stop all of these arguments??
For me personally if he is not prepared to compromise and make a couple of minor tweaks then he will NEVER EVER Be able to maintain a long term relationship and all of his future relationships will always fail in the early stages. Compromising with each other in a relationship is one of the core foundations that a relationship is built on and is required for a relationship to succeed.
Although he has told you that he is not prepared to make this small compromise that statement alone has even bigger implications. That being that he is not prepared to make a small compromise for the sake of your relationship, not prepared to do it for you which is him being disrespectful to you personally, he is disrespecting your relationship with each other and furthermore he is the sole person who is responsible for these arguments happening as it’s his poor communication that is causing it each and every time. You also have to remind yourself that if he can’t compromise here and make a small change then just think about all of the 1000s and 1000s of situations in the future where compromise from both of you would be needed in this relationship and just think about the fact that he won’t be compromising with you on any of them and just think of those big relationship decisions like moving to a new place etc, if he won’t budge on this then he certainly won’t on the big stuff. You are literally looking at a future relationship where he decided pizza for takeout on a Saturday night and the following Saturday it would be your turn to choose what take out you have and you want Chinese and he won’t compromise and he will want pizza again even though it’s your turn to choose and you end up with pizza again, those day to day normal non existent decisions are how it’s going to go.
Personally I think him saying he won’t compromise for something so bloody small, then taking into account you said these arguments have been continual and regular, even after you telling him that he is leaving you in the lurch with agreed plans I have to wonder if he orchestrated this on purpose, continually changing plans at the last minute, not telling you about the changes and continually letting you down even after you asking him for notification of any changes, orchestrated it so it caused this exact situation because he wants to end the relationship anyway for other reasons but he done it this way to force it. Saying that you aren’t prepared to compromise and make a small change is always going to be a relationship breaker for anyone and he would know this when he said it so clearly he isn’t bothered about the relationship or the relationship ending that for me also indicates that he has orchestrated this to happen on purpose.
To the guy who commented , coukd you send me a chat please, the reply isn't showing up so I can't read the message it's bugged